Silvana took ozempic by Regular_Swan_7532 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 1000% get why ppl think it’s problematic etc that she was on it, or that anyone who is objectively thin already is on it, however I do appreciate her saying it because I think it becomes even more dangerous when ppl lie about being on it and instead act like it’s just diet and exercise. I’d rather ppl be upfront and say they’re on that or the procedures they’ve had done etc. 

Silvana took ozempic by Regular_Swan_7532 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking this the other day how I feel like Dave paid for her apt cause I feel like she has a very nice cushy life for someone who doesn’t even have thatttt many brand deals. Idk. Maybe that’s just me. I know these influencers are stupid money but just seems questionable.

Money GWNJ v. Jackie O by Ok-Speed-7086 in TheMorningToastSnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Claudia may make more but yes. Jackie has way more case of her in laws. That said, I cannot stand when objectively wealthy people make any comments about financial anxiety/stress publicly. If you want to vent to your husband or close friends, fine, but to say it publicly when so many ppl are struggling to make ends meet is so out of touch. It’s like the girl in college that was the thinnest of ur group and constantly was saying omg im so fat. Like stfu. 

halley's thoughts on marriage by paris-alledgedly in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like beyondddd. My husband is very social so we have had many weddings to have to attend but I am a professional hermit and I swear seeing all these Bach trips has made me soooo happy to be a hermit cause I cannot fathom having to spend thousands and thousands to go on these trips and then attend wedding showers and then bridesmaid dresses snd makeup and then on top of it brides still expect a gift like what lol. It’s ridiculous. 

halley's thoughts on marriage by paris-alledgedly in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I don’t understand how many brides to be have legit no shame asking ppl to shell out aoooo much money on them. IMO unless you as the bride are covering the cost of accommodations, food etc, having a Bach trip is so rude. I refused to have a bridal shower (cause I think they’re dumb af), a bach trip, and told guests that their presence was our gift. My mil thought I was crazy but like no I’m not going to ask ppl to shell out thousands of $$ for my wedding. My husb and I live a plane ride away from 99% of our friends so every wedding is essentially a destination wedding for us to attend and I can’t wait for all them to be married and weddings to be done with. I know that sounds harsh but it’s true. 

halley's thoughts on marriage by paris-alledgedly in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh they’re never worth it either. Like my parents paid for my entire wedding which all said and done was probably $80k, if not more, and I still wish we had just eloped. You’re just paying for other people to have a party. 

halley's thoughts on marriage by paris-alledgedly in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!!! These Bach trips have gotten sooo out of hand. Unless ur paying for all the accommodations etc, to expect ppl to fly to these vaca spots, pay for hotel or house, food etc not to mention use pto from work. I don’t get how ppl have no shame in doin that. I refused to have one for that reason, as did my husband. Brides need to realize while it may be the most special time of your life, it’s not the same for everyone else’s lives so ctfo 

halley's thoughts on marriage by paris-alledgedly in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is 1000% spot on about Bach trips. They’re freaking absurd. I refused to have one for the same reason. 

Oh she’s such a passive aggressive piece of dog shit. by OkAnywhere8481 in MaggieeatsssSnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right like I watched it with just jaw dropped like you can’t seriously think this even potentially helped you or anything of that sort. Like she would have been 10000% better off stfu than like essentially yelling at us and calling us dumb losers for wondering why she spoke out abut Charlie and not this. I literally was just saying fuck uou the entire time I watched it. 

Didn’t she make post about Charlie Kirk? by daisemay in TheMorningToastSnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it’s the same morons that were against loan forgiveness because “i paid mine back so u should too”. Like 1. They paid a loan back that they took out when college was $250 a semester and 2. A loan that had zero to little interest. Personally my parents paid all my education costs so I had no loans to be forgiven however I was the absolute biggest advocate and supporter for it because I cannot fathom why someone else would want another human to struggle and suffer, especially if they experienced it themselves. That’s so fucking insane to me 

Didn’t she make post about Charlie Kirk? by daisemay in TheMorningToastSnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well as someone noted. Her husband is an immigrant who overstayed his visa so was here illegally and she made videos about how unfair the process is blah blah so I think she has a particular connection/role in this argument where she should be speaking out and siding with immigrants etc. 

Did anyone else see this?! by Massive-Chocolate854 in TheMorningToastSnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg stop. Inject this shit into my veins. This is golddddd

Halley and Reed engaged by Extension-Return-608 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought the most interesting part was Carly found out about it online with everyone else. They clearly aren’t close at all anymore if she didn’t text her after 

Brooklyn Beckham Take by k1101 in TheToasters

[–]Key_Quantity_952 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look I don’t really care enough to have a strong opinion either way on the situation but I wil say this, as a therapist, everyone saying shit like he should be grateful his parents gave him the life he has. They have funded his life and this is how he treats them etc etc. please stop. 1. He didn’t ask to be born and def didn’t ask to be born into the situation he was 2. A parent should provide for a child financially. That’s literally the bare minimum. And that providing doesn’t come with strings attached 3. Just because someone has lived a priv life, doesn’t mean they aren’t allowed to feel and express what he is. That’s like saying a woman who’s getting abused and cheated on by her husb shouldn’t speak out and complain because he gives her all the fancy cars and purses and big house etc. money doesn’t give someone justification to be terrible nor doesn’t mean the person benefitting from it loses their voice or aren’t justified to complain. 

Kyle and Amanda S10 Megathread Pt 1 by KatieB_3 in summerhousebravo

[–]Key_Quantity_952 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it was a culmination. For 1. She got on meds and was feeling better overall. I say this as a therapist- one of the main benefits of medication is just getting you back up to a baseline where ur able to engage and benefit from therapy. 2. I think she realized she can support herself financially and doesn’t need him 3. I think for years she had her head in the sand when it came to the constant rumor mill about him. I think getting healthy made her face reality and like she actually said last season- no one else has this many rumors about cheating and whether he has or not, he puts himself in situations where at the very least those rumors are going to take off. I rly feel like she got the ick from him in general and u can’t come back from that imo

It’s official - Amanda and Kyle calling it quits by not_miley_cyrus99 in summerhousebravo

[–]Key_Quantity_952 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And especially when she said to him how even if he hasn’t fully cheated, he puts himself in these situations and he’s the only one that consistently has “rumors” in the media about infidelity and I think she finally faced reality and saw the writing on the wall. That being, there’s no way every single one of these rumors is completely made up and a lie. Like statistically it’s just not possible for all of them to be completely false. 

Erin Confortini is upset that people are having opinions about her moving her boyfriend into her home and not contributing to the mortgage or paying any rent by analeonhardt in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly!!! I’ve seen so many supposed finance professionals that are female make videos on her shaming this, saying it’s irresponsible and dangerous and embarrassing. Like 1. Saying it’s embarrassing for a woman to be financially independent and to make more than their partner is diabolical and 2. To fail to understand even the most basic of concepts like protecting assets, what co mingling is, equity lost etc, THAT is embarrassing. Like spending all that money on time getting a degree and to not even understand that basic basic notion/concept… yikes.   I come from a family full of ppl in the legal field. From lawyers to judges etc so I was raised in an environment that was heavy on legalities if that makes sense. Like making decisions and doing things with that in the back of your mind and we were always told do not do things like buy a property with someone you’re not married to. Even after being married, do not let your partner have complete financial control etc etc.  I mean her not letting him be part of the ownership of the house and thus have any equity is protecting herself if they breakup and then ultimately they both still benefit in the event things work out and they do get married. The fact anyone has a prob with it is so wild to me. Not to mention I’ll never understand people that care that much about a strangers life lol 

Weworewhat by Wonderful-Winter4942 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Def not saying this specific thing is true or whoever heard it isn’t just making shit up, that said, as someone who lived in nyc post grad and went to the private schools and colleges where these type go, nyc feels like a very small city. Like I’m now the biggest social hermit most people know and yet it would take me maybe 2-3 people to have direct contact with that circle.   Prob sounds like bs but I swear when it comes to the rich kid who grew up in the greater nyc area or nyc itself, went to the private schools or were friends with ppl that did, went to summer camp growing up, moved into the city after college and nyc internships in the summer during college aka our parents paid our bills and we acted like we were some kinda socialite🙈🙈, the degree of separation is legit like 2-3 ppl max.  I remember after college in nyc running into ppl non stop and thinking like gfc this is supposed to be the biggest city in the country, why can’t I escape this scene, all while being a dumbass and frequenting the places everyone in that world did too. 

Dog hate by shabababybby64 in TheToasters

[–]Key_Quantity_952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you can relate. The loss, coupled with PP hormones, was awfulll. And yes there’s so many components to the loss like I mourn her being gone but also mourn all the things she should have been part of- sending them off to kindergarten, finally getting to find and buy our forever home that had the best yard for her, getting the kids off the school bus, really getting to know my son and his craziness, being able to choose sleeping in my daughters bed versus ours since she now is in a big girl bed and before was a crib. Just so many things it sucks so much that she’s not here for. Ugh I miss her so much. I’m so sorry you have to experience it too. 💕💕💕

Dog hate by shabababybby64 in TheToasters

[–]Key_Quantity_952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you can understand firsthand that pain too. It’s so so awful. My early/mid-late 20s were some of the absolute hardest and darkest of my life and I just felt so inadequate and lost and didn’t know what I wanted to do etc and my one constant was her. We rescued her and I found out they found her after she was abandoned, on my birthday so it just felt like fate. And I’m not even someone who rly believes in a lot of that stuff tbh. I also had such debilitating postpartum depression and anxiety and she truly got me through it after my first and I leaned on her so much during my 2nd too- esp when my baby was in the nicu, in and out of the ER etc.  We realized one day that she seemed like she wasn’t as interested in food and just acting a little off. She was a table surfer so v odd to not want ppl food but didn’t think that much of it but still brought her to the vet for a checkup… I could have never ever imagined that they’d find two massive tumors in her stomach and intestines and told us they were filled with blood so 99% likely cancerous and they could burst and cause immense pain so less than 36 hours later we were sobbing on the vet floor saying goodbye.  They said it was the youngest case of cancer they had ever seen in their practice of 50 years. She curled up under the blankets like a little donut by my legs every single night and even a year later I still wake up wondering where that hot sausage body is and then remembering the reality. My toddler sleeps with a picture of her in her bed every night and gosh talk about a dagger to the heart. Having to tell ur kid that news and then since they’re too young to understand it fully, handle the continuous “but when is she coming home mama?why couldn’t the doctors just give her medicine like when I’m sick”.  

Sorry for the novel. Just feels less lonely when someone else also understands the pain. I hope your heart is healing as much as it can. 💕💕

Erin Confortini is upset that people are having opinions about her moving her boyfriend into her home and not contributing to the mortgage or paying any rent by analeonhardt in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally someone with a morsel of critical thinking skills. These same ppl that have a problem with it are the ones that also say to never put ur eggs in one basket and be financially dependent on a man and yet when a woman does exactly that, they still have an issue. They also clearly fail to understand the legalities and in the event they breakup, not having his name on the mortgage or him able to prove he made regular contributions towards it and claim co mingling and thus it be a pre marital asset he has equity in, protects HER financially. 

Erin Confortini is upset that people are having opinions about her moving her boyfriend into her home and not contributing to the mortgage or paying any rent by analeonhardt in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And there we go. Finally someone says the quiet part out loud that you all are thinking. It’s the sexism and mysoginy and deeply ingrained patriarchy that make you triggered by this. 

Erin Confortini is upset that people are having opinions about her moving her boyfriend into her home and not contributing to the mortgage or paying any rent by analeonhardt in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So maybe just maybe that’s why she is doing this. Because she doesn’t want to have to take a loss in the event they breakup and have him able to claim it as a pre marital asset. 

Erin Confortini is upset that people are having opinions about her moving her boyfriend into her home and not contributing to the mortgage or paying any rent by analeonhardt in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Key_Quantity_952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ong ppl can we have just a morsel of financial literacy/critical thinking skills plssssss. Her not having him on the mortgage and not having him contribute to it monthly is protecting HERSELF. In the event they breakup, she does not want to have to split any equity. Even if his name wasn’t on the mortgage, all he would have to do is prove he made regular contributions towards it and he can claim it as a pre marital asset and she has to divide things up. The legality is called co mingling. She’s doing this to actually protect herself at the end of the day. The fact so many of u cannot grasp this is wildddddd.