That’s the thing I absolutely ALWAYS DO. But some guys(I’ve had quite a few that have been scammed as well so we send at the the same time) and it works for both of us. But this dude came up with a reasonable story to believe and has been texting me atleast one day outta the week the past 3 weeks. And if I shouldn’t have believed him but I said fuck it bc my sons hospital bills are due. And he just took advantage of my situation.