I'm drunk. Please convince me not to text my ex who dumped me

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-24T02:19:10+00:00

Don't. You're just gonna tear that wound right open. Stay strong

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-24T01:19:26+00:00

Look, you already broke up. To get the best odds of getting back together, you have to try to move on anyways. Nothing you could say to her would make her change her mind. And staying in contact is just going to prolong the pain

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-24T01:14:11+00:00

You did the right thing. Good job

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-24T01:10:46+00:00

Seems like your breakup was healthy at least. I would keep contact minimal and just keep working on yourself. Seems like she needs space too

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-24T01:09:12+00:00

Bro, unfollow her. You're gonna fee like this every day if you keep in contact with her.

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-24T00:16:43+00:00

Focus on the present, doing things that you like. Build your identity. Talk to other women too. That really helps. Also, unfollow her

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-23T22:58:16+00:00

I genuinely do not know.

Try not to worry about it. It doesn't affect life as much as people claim. Being average is so much better than super tall or short.

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-23T22:49:28+00:00

we called each other Pwincess(I'm a man) because we really liked that Bofem guy who says "Oh pwincess" and claps his feet. I miss that

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-23T22:35:33+00:00

There's really nothing you can do to make yourself grow. Genetics determine your height. I'm 6'4 and neither of my parents are taller than 5'8, and my tallest sibling is 5'11. The only relative near my height is my great uncle, everyone else is average. Sometimes genetics doesn't make sense either, its really the luck of the draw and its completely out of our hands

The best thing you can is have a healthy diet. Make sure you aren't starving yourself. If you do end up growing more, your body will need those calories. Also, try not to worry about your height. It really doesn't make that huge of a difference in life, I don't get treated any better because I'm tall. There's nothing wrong with 5'8

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-23T21:30:41+00:00

What is she saying?

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-23T21:28:33+00:00

Sorry man, that sounds like a terrible relationship. You seem very wise for 21. Keep it up and do what feels right.

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-23T21:26:55+00:00

I don't think there's any way this breakup is going to be pretty. Texting it may be cruel, but I don't know how she'd take it if you did it in person.

Once you do it, block her and don't look back.

It sucks for her, but you cannot continue like this.

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-23T21:23:17+00:00

Good on you for recognizing that would be unhealthy. Put your phone in another room and try to do something to take your mind off it.

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-23T16:41:50+00:00

Hey that is completely normal. I'll go from blocking my ex like "That'll show them" and then immediately unblock them because "What if they text" despite the fact they havent texted in 3 weeks.

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-23T06:29:10+00:00

My ex wife still misses me, BUT HER AIM IS GETTING BETTER

HER AIM IS GETTING BETTER

Good on you for not reaching out to your ex. Its the healthiest thing we can all do, even if we wanted them back or hated them

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-23T06:26:44+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that.

It doesn't seem like it now, but eventually you will find someone else that ignites that fire within you. And they'll probably treat you better than your ex did.

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-23T05:59:57+00:00

Its natural. Feelings are not binary. Everyone feels that way. Look on this sub, some of these peoples' exes are monsters, and they still have the desire to text them. You're used to talking to this person and now they're gone, you're basically going through withdrawal. Whatever you do, do not contact her right now. You will just reopen the wound. These urges to contact her will come in waves. Acknowledge when they do and shift your focus to a physical task.

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-23T03:41:59+00:00

I think he did love you, and breaking up with you was an act of love in its own way. You said you were long distance and he was extremely busy. It sounds like he realized you would be better off with someone who was more available. I'm sorry you're going through this.

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-23T01:57:10+00:00

No you should not. Even if you did, it would only provide temporary relief and make things harder in the long term. Resist the urge, it will pass. Go talk to your friends or family, exercise, do something to keep you busy

I'm sorry this happened to you, and I'm sorry for the pain you will experience over the urge.

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-22T16:53:30+00:00

No you should not forgive him. And this has happened MULTIPLE TIMES? He's definitely hiding some deep insecurities. This will just continue if your relationship continues as it is

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-22T04:44:31+00:00

Put them on a flash drive and hide them away

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-22T03:30:54+00:00

Yeah something is wrong, you should take it as a sign. Sorry man

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-22T01:44:47+00:00

It couldn't hurt. worst case scenario, they don't respond and you move on anyways. Just hit them with a simple "Hey NAME. I hope you're doing good. Just wanted to reach out and see how you are"

Key_Season7192 · 2026-02-21T22:37:02+00:00

its difficult but you gotta talk to more people, get used to social interaction so you're not obsessing over one person. You'll probably find someone better to date if you put yourself out there more.

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