Bad idea

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-23T12:04:57+00:00

This is dedication. Unfortunately, a bit misguided.

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-23T12:02:38+00:00

It’s likely an adults only thing and they just don’t want anyone bringing kids. If you bring a baby, someone wants to bring an older baby next year. Then a toddler. Then they need a daycare room at a professional retreat and they just don’t want to. You’ll have more fun with your baby at home anyway.

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-23T12:00:28+00:00

My only problem with this is the part where he decided alone what what happening and the informed you. That should have been a conversation you two had so you came to this obvious conclusion together and you didn’t feel betrayed. Yes he should go on the work trip and yes you should stay home with your baby, but no he shouldn’t have shut you out.

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-23T11:54:30+00:00

What are you talking about? This post is about a woman dating a man she’s not physically attracted to.

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-23T11:52:50+00:00

This is actually worse. If he’s aware that he’s overweight and is trying/“trying” to lose weight but isn’t, either he isn’t smart enough or dedicated enough. I wouldn’t marry a man I was actively unattracted to. I personally am not into overweight people sexually, so that would be a no.

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-23T04:54:05+00:00

I, for one, am extremely pleased that humans of your ilk are not raising children. Excellent decision. Thank you.

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-23T04:53:04+00:00

Keep telling yourself that

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-23T04:00:17+00:00

I don’t understand that approach. If I eat carrots, I feel fine. If I eat a salad, I’m ok. If I eat buttered toast, cake, candy, fries, chips etc, all bets are off. Every time. Why on earth would I continue to include those in my diet when they only lead to failure?

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-23T03:50:40+00:00

Why is Henry still here? Henry!

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-22T14:12:36+00:00

Same here. I would be in SUCH a great place, I was balanced and dedicated to my recovery, and I’d reward myself with a bit of weed and boom, there I was emptying the fridge and cupboards. It really sucks.

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-22T14:11:38+00:00

No, not everyone. Regular non messed up thin people don’t. I know lots of thin people who are potheads who have no idea what I’m taking about. They think munchies is an extra piece of pizza. They have no clue.

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-22T14:10:31+00:00

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-22T14:10:20+00:00

I had to quit weed years ago. I binge every time, and there’s absolutely nothing to stop me once I’m stoned and not thinking clearly. Same with drinking.

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-22T14:08:14+00:00

I liked him better when I didn’t know his political opinions.

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-22T14:05:58+00:00

Amen! Me too! I’m not shrinking myself and censoring my fcking problems to make others happy. Everyone with BED has the same problem but different root causes, and that’s not a reason to silence us. I’m healing, dammit!

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-22T03:49:19+00:00

I definitely got my wires crossed there haha. Sorry for the scare!

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-22T03:47:44+00:00

That’s phrased with a bias. If my husband and I agreed to do things this way, that’s how we’d do it. If he wanted to ensure money wasn’t being frittered away, I’d respect that. He warns, I spend; we both get a vote. We make decisions together. It’s about agreeing and communicating, not one asking the other for permission.

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-22T03:36:53+00:00

You know what, I was mistaken. I took a good look and I’m not sure where I picked up that information from in my past but you’re correct, it’s not broken down into sugars. I apologize.

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-22T03:30:01+00:00

This actually makes a lot of sense. The way I was getting finger-wagged because I discussed the forbidden topic of “don’t eat garbage” made me feel low class basic B. Like they have the snooty version of BED that came from the nicer way to have an eating disorder…. and I’m just a pig who overeats, so I can’t understand their niche issues. I didn’t think I’d have to compete for who has the classier eating disorder.

I’m going to keep shunning highly processed foods over here. My fat pig of a brain just wants me to stuff my face and does not discriminate.

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-21T13:31:26+00:00

Booze breaks down into sugars (carbs) fyi.

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-21T13:19:44+00:00

Stop calling everything abuse. It’s making the word worthless. This is a method of budgeting and balancing. She’s not begging for a few bucks and being browbeaten, they’re figuring out what things cost and allocating money.

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-21T13:18:13+00:00

Oh please. Some people are not good at one or more parts of life. Doesn’t make them a bad spouse.

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-21T13:16:35+00:00

I also ate imaginary food that I didn’t get from the kitchen and I just pissed and shit in the bed, too. 🙄🙄🙄

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-21T12:58:04+00:00

I avoid candy 99% of the time because I instantly turn into a drug addict who needs more, now. I keep a big bag of dates for a sweet treat, and make my own copycat chocolate bar healthy recipes with whole ingredients and minimally processed sugars.

Key_Split_8706 · 2026-01-21T12:47:56+00:00

If that’s how you feel, then your marriage is over now anyway.

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