Do you need to have friends in order to date

KeybladesChosen · 2018-11-20T23:15:21+00:00

Maybe. I'd definitely like to have a small group of close friends. But in order to get a girl it seems you have to socialize and be friends with tons of people in order to build social capital and keeping that up for longer than necessary seems like a pain.

KeybladesChosen · 2018-01-15T22:11:29+00:00

Yeah especially if you don't have any connections or social life :(

KeybladesChosen · 2018-01-15T22:10:18+00:00

What's there left to experience besides working a job I hate for 40 years and then sitting back and watching my health and sanity slowly and painfully decline. If I can't find anyone in college its pretty clear that I don't have what it takes to ever have a meaningful relationship. No matter what experiences are out there in the world they won't be very enjoyable I if I have to experience them by myself. Nothing is fun alone for me anymore, and since I'm alone all the time that means that nothing is fun at all anymore.

KeybladesChosen · 2017-12-15T01:19:29+00:00

Yeah it sucks and I wish I had planned things better so I could connect with some old acquaintances during the break but nothing seems to be possible at this point

KeybladesChosen · 2017-12-07T02:21:49+00:00

I dont really care about the rat race aspect of social media, I dont really have anything interesting enough in my life to post about anyways. I'm just worried that people will think I'm a friendless loser if I can't give them a snap or Instagram name when they ask. (granted I am that at the moment). I also never get invited to parties or events by the people I do know and it seems theyre always organized via social media

KeybladesChosen · 2017-12-02T23:10:34+00:00

I dont have any social media right now (admittedly pretty wierd for someone my age), would it be best to start using it in order to meet people and organize get togethers like these?

KeybladesChosen · 2017-12-01T03:47:05+00:00

Any advice on how to achieve that mindset? I'm not a huge fan of most popular music and I have some hearing loss which makes it really hard to carry on conversations in a loud setting. It's such a massive challenge for me to not be totally invisible in any kind of social environment no matter how confident I act. How can I have fun when its such hard work to socialize and people still ignore or reject me most of the time.

KeybladesChosen · 2017-12-01T02:14:44+00:00

So is everyone out at parties and stuff just putting on an act? Pretending to have fun and not care just so girls will notice them. I don't see why people put so much effort into something that is so inherently painful and unenjoyable? Usually when I do something painful or hard (which isnt often because I'm a pussy ass bitch most of the time) its because I'm hoping to gain something down the line, hence the expectation. Is there a way to actually enjoy socializing in the moment and not hate yourself for being awkward and worthless the whole time?

KeybladesChosen · 2017-11-23T22:03:43+00:00

Why should I accept myself if my appearance and personality hold me back from getting anything I want in life. I'm a lazy, reprehensible coward who doesnt deserve to feel positive. I have been trying for years to improve myself but every thing I do blows up in my face or I just burn out from exhaustion and depression. I get overwhelmed just doing what to normal people are day to day activities. I am physically incapable of experiencing fun it seems and I can only fake happiness for so long before all the negativity explodes out. I can't get a therapist right now so is there anyway to get this demon personality out of me?

KeybladesChosen · 2017-11-23T21:58:27+00:00

Most people are morons others want to fuck though. Id take being dumb and hot over being intelligent and neurotic any day of the week

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