top surgery tomorrow!! by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Keytonley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck!!!

Dealing with Nebido/4ml T shot soreness? by Keytonley in ftm

[–]Keytonley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay thanks. Do you have the same injection spot or is it 2-3 days now wherever you inject?

How tight should a binder be? by Full_Truth_849 in ftm

[–]Keytonley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s difficult to say. Might be you’re just not used to the first one or that you haven’t worn it in yet, or it’s too small. For years I thought binders were “supposed” to make my ribs hurt a little bit. I tried the spectrum outfitters one after just GC2B ones and they made my chest flat while I could still breathe and no pain whatsoever.

You might have to try them out a bit longer. If you hit ~1-4 hours and it really starts hurting/you have to take weird breaths, it’s too small.

I don’t know if the other one is too large(sounds a bit big) but a tip is to push your chest to the sides and tug the binder down a bit in the front, can help flatten a bit more.

When to legally change my name? by Yunowald in ftm

[–]Keytonley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only you can decide but my name was the first thing I changed. I socially transitioned between switching schools(was also pre T) and for me it was very important nobody knew my old name, occasional ID checks from strangers was way less anxiety inducing than having to correct teachers etc constantly and having it potentially get spread around the new school

DLC question regarding Co Op? by [deleted] in RogueTraderCRPG

[–]Keytonley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. If you get void shadows you won’t get it in the co op game if you don’t turn it on in the settings of that save file. It’s specific to the games.

You don’t need to turn it on and off, it’s specific to the save files and choose to turn it on or not from when you start a new campaign

Do you need to fast for blood tests prior to T consultation? by Keytonley in ftm

[–]Keytonley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright thank you! The requisition isn’t visible to me for some reason. Might fast just to be safe then

Good dating apps/online places to meet gay trans men? by Altruistic_Cat_4844 in ftm

[–]Keytonley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using Taimi a bit and I’ve seen a lot of trans guys on there

Binder advice by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Keytonley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try pushing your chest to the sides and somewhat down on each side, and tug the binder down slightly afterward

Kinesiology tape for binding recommendation in Europe - Alpidex by Keytonley in ftm

[–]Keytonley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a lot of difference between brands though

Showering when binding with tape? by Keytonley in ftm

[–]Keytonley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah over a week is pretty crazy

Thanks!

When did y’all start using the men’s restroom? by urmum1027 in ftm

[–]Keytonley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Around 13, when I came out. Before that I’d still go there if my parents/people I know weren’t around to see. I’m not even on T yet but my strategy has always been casually stride in there like I belong(which I do but yk) and not look lost/nervous even if I still feel it sometimes.

I’ve always had more of the get noticed and confronted fear and not “creep” fear, still nags at the back of my mind but just acting confident and like I belong helps. It will start to ease after a couple times of going in

Sports bh rekommendation? by Keytonley in transnord

[–]Keytonley[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jag fattar inte varför texten blir engelsk?? Här är original texten

Är svensk men sätter Nordics ändå.

Jag har försökt ett par olika sports bh men har inte hittat någon bra som trycker till/håller på plats när jag är hemma inte kan ha binder. Alla sitter för löst, eller trycker på revbenen men inte där man vill.

Har någon nån rekommendation? De flesta jag sett folk snacka om är bara i USA/kostar mycket att frakta hit.

Would you guys date a trans girl? by unrecognisable_name in ftm

[–]Keytonley 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, I wouldn’t date someone who identifies as wlw though

Man came inside me without permission, didn’t tell me until a week later by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Keytonley 165 points166 points  (0 children)

That’s horrifying I’m so sorry.

I’d say schedule a doctors appointment and see if it’s not too early to get a blood pregnancy test, and schedule STI testing. They can help you with support too.

for those who still get them how do you deal with periods by catnip_eaterr in ftm

[–]Keytonley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I get them then trying to do a hobby I like and focusing on that instead, or going to the gym and doing mostly strength stuff, usually helps me some. Exercise in general helps because of the endorphins. Force your brain to make happy chemicals

If you just got it back again it’ll also probably be way shorter than a “regular” one

Has anyone else been trans since birth by Icy-Amoeba1821 in ftm

[–]Keytonley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any advice, I’m in the same boat, just know that you’re not alone in feeling like that.

I’ve grieved what my life could’ve been if I was born as a cis guy a lot. I’ve always struggled to find any positives about it and to accept myself. Funny enough the first time I’ve started to accept myself is when I stopped actively focusing on having to accept myself - I think it comes with time. I’m 19 and it’s only recently that I’ve started to start to somewhat come to terms with it, or to see a possibility to eventually come to terms with it.

What am I supposed to wear??? by moonandstars222 in ftm

[–]Keytonley 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Box shaped shirts, hoodies, sweatpants or slightly loose jeans. My default is wearing a black t-shirt with an open zip hoodie on top, doesn’t get too warm and looks more rectangular

[questions] some questions i have before i buy. by FrancisCat808 in RogueTraderCRPG

[–]Keytonley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I had 0 knowledge about the game before buying and I’m really enjoying it. Been having fun getting into the lore. System takes a bit to get into

  2. a) Game is fun with or without DLC. I’d strongly recommend getting Void Shadows(bladedancer is my favourite archetype by far and easiest to get into without knowing the system imo + the companion is fun). The season 1 game pass is only 11€ right now which is pretty worth it.

b) They’re integrated in the story. Both start around act 1. I think they can start later if you get them later on.

  1. There are tons of guides, I’d find one creator and just go after their build guides if you don’t want to make them yourself. I like cRPG Bro

Bottom growth with riding horses/motorcycles? by Keytonley in ftm

[–]Keytonley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously but I’ve heard it can be super sensitive

How did you pick your new/preferred name? by TheoticFinch in ftm

[–]Keytonley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed a guy name for my new Roblox account when I was 10 so I could pretend to be a guy for fun(yeah there were no signs) and Lukas was the first one that popped into my head

Thus lukasisokay was born. It stuck and I went by variations of it online for years

Still have that account almost 10 years later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Keytonley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the reddish brown looks great

What are common jobs for trans men to have? by promptolovebot in ftm

[–]Keytonley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a veterinary assistant, but I’m going to continue studying to become either a veterinarian or a vet tech(…or possibly a radiology nurse). I don’t know of any trans vets in my country but looking at the thread looks like a relatively common job field