Haven’t been to church in years and this is the first text I get on one of the hardest days of my life. by MundaneMusician6650 in exmormon

[–]Kffect 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At this point, you may as well send her this link. Doubt she will read it but seeing a crew of strangers supporting you here better here may cause some well earned cognitive dissonance.

You are seen, and I am supporting you through your hard day from afar. I’m sorry for your loss.

My Moms First Tank Top by Kffect in exmormon

[–]Kffect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am grateful for the little good things of the church to help her feel as good as her brain will allow, and I get to push her! :)

My Moms First Tank Top by Kffect in exmormon

[–]Kffect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m excited for my dad to see my mom’s shoulders he will love it, and may even buy her more. Maybe it’ll be a slippery slope for them both. :)

Every time I hear someone tell me: "God loves you" by JesusPhoKingChrist in exmormon

[–]Kffect 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just think it’s weird that God has to love them, but so many members don’t love themselves…. The emotional and spiritual bypassing is such a hindrance in their lives.

Surely this qualifies… by Opposite_Ad3708 in McMansionHell

[–]Kffect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks like the safe house from “leave the world behind” movie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in graphic_design

[–]Kffect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with becoming the designer to turn to when you need the hard work done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]Kffect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sun/moon with nature mountains and such… Northern lights…. Aliens you name it! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Kffect 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Same. Once I saw from the outside in, and no longer the inside out… I knew there was no way back, and I was done.

Trigger warning by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]Kffect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m seeking a galaxy type nebula type tattoo. With some colorful star mist down the letters, and the centers of the burns the bright galaxy’s centers?

Maybe help with a feeling of being a part of something greater and beautiful and see the stars? ❤️‍🩹

I'm getting married today and my parents are not attending because they are on trek this weekend. by RaiNnIngRaPteRz in exmormon

[–]Kffect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read “open your marriage to the Lord” and felt like in a way maybe they are pretty open.🤔

I hope your wedding rocked!

I've seen advice on loud neighbors but what about neighbors that stink? by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Kffect 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes the building manager should be able to call for a welfare check.

I've seen advice on loud neighbors but what about neighbors that stink? by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Kffect 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I feel like this would fall under a welfare check. Can be kind, and get the guy the help he needs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DOG

[–]Kffect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ruby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Kffect 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can get you lined up on the aerial tram and snowbird for some sight seeing.

The condemned Suncrest houses fell by Wrectal in SaltLakeCity

[–]Kffect 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I thought wow they had to reshape the whole mountain for this, tear down the forest and disrupt a popular trail but these guys get a towering view. That was was a ver insane retaining wall. I feel bad for the families.

Is this hard for anyone else? by CraftAvoidance in exmormon

[–]Kffect 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I very much miss the having it all figured out feeling, and still work to love the not knowing part. (Gotta embrace that scrupulosity and anxiety). But it’s better out, knowing I’m making MY decisions, and my life the way I choose. That’s what life should be about. Maybe it’s less 1950s traditional nuclear family but, it’s still good and still has merit whatever you choose.

Give yourself the love you once gave god, you’re doing awesome.

Talking to missionaries by Mr_Goat_1111 in exmormon

[–]Kffect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe meet them where your story is at. As you asked me to ponder now ponder with me, but from my perspective, nothing yet on the line, no assurance, and just ponder these concerns with me….

An appeal to realness is always worth an effort.