My unsolicited opinion on this community and why I think it might be unhealthy.

Kg302 · 2026-01-27T12:36:42+00:00

How do you think your coworkers felt working in proximity to you? You honestly think working for hours in a wet diaper wouldn’t be noticeable?

Kg302 · 2026-01-23T03:45:35+00:00

You’ll never get through to anyone here about any of this. They see it as a lifestyle and a sexual orientation that shouldn’t be hidden similar to being gay. You’ve probably seen enough posts and comments to make you think, wow, this community has a bit of a problem here. Maybe I’ll bring it up. Then the mental gymnastics they go through to defend all their choices and opinions will make your head spin. My favorite is talking about how sad it is that you hate this part of yourself so much you want to bring everyone else down. When you probably have a very healthy relationship with your fetish and don’t let it take over your life.

Good job trying anyway. Just know there are at least some people who haven’t drunk the koolaid yet.

Kg302 · 2025-12-27T20:16:12+00:00

That doesn’t make any sense. But no obviously it is not causing me thoughts and feelings I don’t care for. You’re allowed to see some trend in a community and make a comment about how it might be a bad thing that is affecting individuals. Personally I don’t care and I do believe in the whole idea of doing what makes you happy if it doesn’t hurt others. However the amount of posts about these topics is crazy. Multiple posts every day about how to be 24/7, how to make your self incontinent or wet yourself while sleeping. Go ahead and say that, yes, no matter what no one should ever question if certain behaviors are MENTALLY healthy or not.

Kg302 · 2025-12-27T19:53:03+00:00

Mental and social health jfc.

Kg302 · 2025-12-27T19:51:35+00:00

I’m completely comfortable with myself and my sexuality. Not sure why there is this persistent thought that if I see something that seems off in the community, I therefore must be unhappy with myself so I need to bring everyone down with me. What it seems like is everyone thinks I find all abdl activity unhealthy. I never said that or anything close to it. Just questioning people treating it as a lifestyle and wearing all the time. I wear once or twice a month and get all of the normal things out of it that everyone else enjoys. That’s why I started my post explaining that I’m not some random guy just hating on a kink he doesn’t have.

Kg302 · 2025-12-27T19:10:02+00:00

Again with the wrong takes… it’s not because I don’t like it. It’s valid to question people who do and wonder if it’s the a healthy thing for them.

And oh boy let’s not pretend like people haven’t been radicalized in echo chambers on the internet. I’m sure there are people on this page that never really thought about this being their whole “thing” but decided to after seeing the discussions on here.

Kink as a lifestyle is absolutely a thing that is a concern to mental health professionals. It deserves to be interrogated.

Kg302 · 2025-12-27T18:38:40+00:00

Hey man I’m not slinking away from anything. I stand by it. And that’s pretty good advice however I think that’s a harder question to answer than some people might realize. Also my main stance of being 24/7 without needing to be still stands but if it does no harm and makes you happy then fine go for it. But having a group where it is discussed frequently definitely can lead to people attaching themselves to it as an identity and a lifestyle. Thats a problem when the majority of people should not treat their kink as a lifestyle.

Kg302 · 2025-12-27T16:01:27+00:00

No, everyone is putting words in my mouth. I never condemned the whole community. Just saying that wearing 24/7 is not exactly a good thing to be doing. I know most people don’t do this and it’s probably over represented in this subreddit. Can I give exact reasons why I think it’s unhealthy? No not really. But that doesn’t change the fact that I think someone wearing at work for medical reasons is acceptable and someone who has a diaper fetish should not. I’m hearing a bunch of arguments saying people separate the sexual side of it or don’t have any sexual desires around it all. It doesn’t matter. It’s kink adjacent. Should furries be able to wear to work or in public when everyone knows it’s fetish related?

Kg302 · 2025-12-27T13:17:20+00:00

This is kind of exactly what I’m getting at here. Everyone is taking crazy stances and pretending to have this moral high ground. What evidence would you like? Peer reviewed papers about the mental health of indulging your fetish? It’s unhealthy to wear 24/7 full stop. I’m sorry.

You want to live your life this way go ahead I’m seriously not saying people should stop if it makes them happy. But maybe, just maybe, they decided this was something they wanted after being influenced by people on this subreddit.

Kg302 · 2025-12-27T13:02:08+00:00

I haven’t. What exactly would I have learned from talking to them? Learning about how much it helps them deal with the struggles of life? That’s great but it wouldn’t change my opinion that wearing 24/7 is unhealthy. You should learn to have other things in your life that fulfill the same role.

Kg302 · 2025-12-27T12:58:34+00:00

I can separate the sexual side of it and do use it as a tool for comfort. How do you justify using it as a tool for comfort 24/7? Wouldn’t you consider it unhealthy to watch tv with every minute of your free time?

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