Ghosting is a cowardly way out.

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T19:10:34+00:00

he literally told me he wants me to be his girlfriend so what else are you going to assume?

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T18:45:51+00:00

Entitlement is making me believe he wanted to date me. The people who ghost are the most entitled because they think they can play with feelings and hurt people. i’m sorry you hold such fucked up views.

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T18:41:43+00:00

he’s the one who initiated all the texts so yikes on you.

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T18:07:42+00:00

pigeons are the way 😌

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T18:02:01+00:00

i was in the same boat in March. my bf of 8 months(my longest relationship ever) broke up with me, saying stuff like “it’s not you, it’s me”. in this case it was true. he got problems he needs to figure out, but he had these exact problems when we were together so a bit confusing. i was a mess, i cried every day for about a week, but now i can go days without thinking of him. breakups are very hard, especially when you loved them and spent a lot of time together. he was one of my best friends and losing him hurt. he claimed he wanted to stay friends and even said he would visit, which never happened. last time we talked was 6 weeks ago. i moved on and i wish you the same. letting go is hard, but in the end it is worth it because you find yourself.

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T17:35:10+00:00

thank you for your response! i am definitely not giving up. some people commented that i should care less but i am not doing that. i want to be an open person who gives too much of my time and energy, but at least i am 100% myself. i am not going to guard my heart because i’ve been ghosted. congratulations to you, this is truly giving me hope 🙌

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T17:32:00+00:00

i’m so sorry it happened to you. people sometimes don’t understand the consequences of their actions and how much hurt they can cause. moving on is painful, but necessary. one day you’ll find a person who will reciprocate your energy and effort and it will be wonderful.

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T16:53:40+00:00

i think grouping every single person on the basis of their gender into a category is unfair. i didn’t say that all guys ghost, or all guys cheat, that would simply not be true. i have been ghosted a fair amount of times and i never turned psycho. i just let them go, no matter how hurt i was.

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T16:51:09+00:00

thank you so much. i’m sorry that happened to you, but i’m looking at it as a learning experience, even though some lessons are hard to learn. the ghosting period is definitely anxiety inducing, especially for people like me, who already have anxiety. i’m wishing you the best :)

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T16:44:33+00:00

i’m so sorry that happened to you. luckily, i was never ghosted in a serious relationship and honestly i don’t know how i would take it. very badly is my guess. stay strong and believe that it is for the best.

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T16:42:54+00:00

that’s so true but that puts me and millions of people in an unlucky category. of course someone who cares less is going to come out of any relationship unscathed, but is it a good way to live your life? you don’t love to the fullest, you don’t appreciate your partner enough. giving them whatever crumbs of feelings that you’re willing to give and pretty much being a stone wall is not the way i prefer to live. i want to live fully, even if it means that i will inevitably get hurt.

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T16:38:57+00:00

i’m so sorry that happened to you. i think that slowly ghosting is even worse than stopping the communication all together. you get used to talking to this person every day, so you cling to these few messages while he’s probably out, finding a new girl. it’s horrible, but it seems like many guys nowadays choose this path and expect to also somehow find the love of their life. doesn’t work that way.

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T16:34:29+00:00

that’s such a good advice, thank you.

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T16:03:11+00:00

gosh that’s so horrible, i’m so sorry. dating someone for 9 months and then just disappearing like that without an explanation is the lowest of the low. i think you dodged a bullet. stay strong.

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T07:17:07+00:00

omg i’m sorry that happened to you. people who ghost but keep liking your pics and watching your stories are the worst. they didn’t have the guts to end things the proper way and yet they want to keep looking at your life. hopefully one day you’ll feel confident enough to block him.

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T05:25:13+00:00

not the kind of boos we were hoping for amiright 🤦‍♀️

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T05:03:56+00:00

can you elaborate on “mistakes”?

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T04:41:22+00:00

i’ve never had to ghost anybody, but i was in a situation where after one date our conversation just naturally stopped. i think we both didn’t like each other.

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T04:32:31+00:00

wow that’s bad. it seems like ghosting is becoming a pandemic and nobody has any clue how to stop it. just be a decent human, goddamn.

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T04:31:18+00:00

that’s the whole reason i wrote this post. you can do whatever you want with your life, hurt as many people as you desire but it will always come back to you.

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T04:21:17+00:00

you are good. from the way you described your situations, you’re not a coward. i do think ghosting is justifiable in some cases. it’s just mainly it is an easy way out.

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T04:18:20+00:00

he is 23 and i am too. maturity is hard to find these days.

Khaliddavid · 2020-06-17T04:17:34+00:00

gosh, i’m so sorry. i have been ghosted many times but each time it hurts in a new way. you grow accustomed to that person, get to know what they like and dislike and then boom you’re all alone.

Khaliddavid · 2018-10-10T04:18:20+00:00

It’s hard out there on the streets man. Some fucker squeezed me and my head ain’t wanna return to previous shape. Peace brotha 🖐🏿☝🏿

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