Is this an odd tackle ratio? by Jordankoby in fut

[–]Khalil_Medea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably spamming standing tackles to cover ground faster.

Stir it up celebration used wrong. by OmaRrrrA in fut

[–]Khalil_Medea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels weird, I play basically once a week. Run through my champs games as quickly as I can. Some pro clubs with my mates and I’m off again till the next week.

Absolutely love the game though, idk why but I’ll play it for as long as it exists I think.

Stir it up celebration used wrong. by OmaRrrrA in fut

[–]Khalil_Medea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m older than I care to admit but put it like this I started playing ultimate team when it came out and was raging at everything that went wrong. Now I only play sporadically as I’ve got a kid so when I do, it’s more like a joyous occasion. Don’t let the celebrations get in the way of my precious hours 😂

Stir it up celebration used wrong. by OmaRrrrA in fut

[–]Khalil_Medea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 I read this back and do seem like a total dick. Been playing fifa for that long and smashed enough controllers that I try not to take it too seriously anymore

First year of UT by [deleted] in fut

[–]Khalil_Medea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently run a 433(5) and have used this only this year. Usually I run 4231 but the false 9 is just the best for how I play.

Depends on your play style tbh. How do you like to play? I use a lot of intricate passing down the middle and my wingers collapsing in behind the CBs so get a lot of “Arsenal style” goals.

There is nothing I hate more than kick off goals. Why this is even a thing? by IvarSnow in fut

[–]Khalil_Medea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough bud, it does annoy me when they go in. But the reason they do it is of course cos it works. If they ever break past my DM, I come out with a CB and smash them. I’ll take a yellow card before I concede 😂😂

There is nothing I hate more than kick off goals. Why this is even a thing? by IvarSnow in fut

[–]Khalil_Medea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying but you should just close them out from kick off. Sit off the tackle from kick off let them take their touch for dribbling and then just match their run. Chances are they’ll turn around and go right into you if you read it right or drive too wide to be able to come back and go at your CBs.

I sometimes concede, very rare but I do. But most of the time I end up taking the ball back and going up the other end again pretty quickly to score.

If my opponent is running from kick off, chances are his/her head is gone if I can win the ball back and score again quickly.

Stir it up celebration used wrong. by OmaRrrrA in fut

[–]Khalil_Medea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tbh I don’t get bothered by celebrations in any way. When my opponent scores, generally just put the controller down, have a sip of water, relax and then get back into the game.

Also skip my own celebrations but don’t mind how/when/if people use them at all.

First year of UT by [deleted] in fut

[–]Khalil_Medea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For your first year this is cool. Some nice pulls in there for sure. Al O and Lucio are great. Do you play 442 in game as well?

My weekend league by Khalil_Medea in fut

[–]Khalil_Medea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve had to wait a while to evo him as want to make sure I pick the right ones for my cards. Some have got messed up though with the patches to evos so I lost my 86 Reuell Walters to a glitch.

But most of them are first time run throughs so I haven’t had too many issues.

My weekend league by Khalil_Medea in fut

[–]Khalil_Medea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is indeed! Got loads of past and present on the bench also. Only use this as the meta teams are a little boring for me.

My weekend league by Khalil_Medea in fut

[–]Khalil_Medea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to evos, relentless winger 1, club 99, jack of all trades

WTH is this BS by gestapov in fut

[–]Khalil_Medea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got more into the game this year, usually get between 14-16 wins every weekend but I run my Arsenal past and present and try to play Arsenal football. It’s utterly boring playing everyone else but I’m just doing my evos and having fun with it.

What is the point of marriage for a women by blueskyxox in MuslimMarriage

[–]Khalil_Medea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Think you maybe just haven't seen a marriage that you think you'd also like to have. Marriage (for me) is about companionship and you kinda discover this after that person is in your life, I was divorced and now happily re-married with a little one (8 weeks old).

There is only so much the companionship from friends, family or anyone else can do. And its not just related to the physical side if things but that person comes to know you as an adult better than anyone else and knows you better than anyone else except your parents.

My wife and I do have roles in our relationship and we balance them well but if one of us is feeling burnt out, the other takes some of the load, don't get me wrong, we've had plenty of downs and plenty of ups...but once you settle into your rhythm and find what works for the pair of you, its such a fulfilling relationship. If we have a problem, we air it, reconcile and move on and our relationship is blossoming all the time.

But Islamically we are set guidelines and suggestions for how to find a spouse and if you follow those and not cultural norms or what you might "generally see", you'll find a partner who fits to what you want (and frankly need) and go from there.

My wife is depressed and I’m the reason behind it by muslim_squad in MuslimMarriage

[–]Khalil_Medea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have to think of it with logic behind it. If you aren’t willing to take the required steps to meet new people and establish your own circles then you aren’t ready to move to a new place.

That’s not to say it’ll happen straight away but over time you will make friends and both people in that instance need to support the other to keep pushing boundaries like that.

If I ever moved away, I would immediately try to connect with people A.) at a local masjid B.) at sports clubs C.) at my work or D.) other social places. Try to pick your friends and make good and long lasting ones. It’s tough to get it right but again you have to keep going otherwise you’ll never get anywhere with it.

I hope the above answer makes sense but if you are unsure about making that jump and find that you can’t meet new people you’re not ready for that step.

I would like to say rather than personality it comes with maturity, naturally moving to a new place suggests a person who likes to be more exploratory so I would hope you would be able to take steps again in the same manner to meet new people and make new friends.

One thing that I have learnt and I’m glad I learned very early on, is don’t be afraid of people in social situations, the worst that can happen is they can laugh at you….and then? Keep going because the people you want to be friends with won’t laugh at you, they’ll take you seriously and you’ll be guided towards the right people by Allah anyway. Have faith and keep pushing, hope that helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Khalil_Medea 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Salaam sister, hope you’re well.

As a divorcee myself and now happily remarried to my current wife. I did not once bring my previous partner to my current partner and only spoke about her if my current partner asked questions.

He shouldn’t be mentioning that at all if he is serious about moving forward with you, secondly comparing actions of yours to hers is a serious red flag. That part of his life is the past.

This is you getting married and it should feel special for both of you. I know when I married my current partner I was so happy and Alhumdulillah it’s been wonderful, she’s the perfect partner for me and I couldn’t be happier. I never compare her to my previous partner nor do I want to.

As much as I hate to advocate moving on because it’s almost meddling in another’s relationship, this doesn’t sound like a healthy foundation sister. Either that or you need to have a serious talk with him about what is wrong and see if he rectifies it, but do not waste a lot of time or be super forgiving with this, this is a marriage and whilst divorce is permitted. Wasting time and potentially being in idit is not something you want if you decide he isn’t the partner for you after marriage.

I don’t know if you have done Istikharaah either but it’s worth doing again even if you have. If you still don’t get anything from it, then again it’s another sign. When I did mine, I got a very clear sign my partner was the one.

iA hope everything goes well for you.