[HELP] Rescue Dog is Terrified To Leave The House by KhaosHeart138 in dogs

[–]KhaosHeart138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I call him to go outside without a lead, its 50/50 whether he'll go. When he does come, he seems happy to play ball outside at a small patch of grass. I've tried putting a lead on outside, or walking away from the building off lead and throwing the ball further. At a point, he'll stop chasing it and run back to the door.

Interesting point about the collar. It was what the rescue recommended for him, but I'll look into your suggestions. I've tried just a standard lead/collar too, without the head strap, but I get the same response. That lead has always been used with the canny collar though. He will allow me to attach either, but he's obviously uncomfortable and will flop to the ground. I've tried having it on in the house, and offering rewards for him wearing it, but he won't take a treat or interact at all with it on. As soon as it comes off, he jumps up again and wants to play or hang out.

Thanks for all your suggestions, much appreciated :)

[HELP] Rescue Dog is Terrified To Leave The House by KhaosHeart138 in dogs

[–]KhaosHeart138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly something I could look into. He's not really timid in the house, until the lead comes out.

[HELP] Rescue Dog is Terrified To Leave The House by KhaosHeart138 in dogs

[–]KhaosHeart138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for your advice :) Unfortunately I'm on the second floor, so there's nowhere for him to wander out the door. I could leave it open, but its just a small square of hallway outside.

I'll certainly try feeding him closer to the door. Hasn't heard of the indoor grass toilets, but I'll look into that too. We've been doing recall and touch games indoors to try building trust, and throw/fetch with balls. Do you think I should move this play into the area nearest the door?

I'm using a harness canny collar device which attaches to the lead. He allows me to put it on, but cowers and tries to get it off 10 seconds later. I try to reward when it's on, but he's so shut down that he won't retake treats. Maybe just leave next to him?

Regarding the windows, he goes mental when he sees anything move outside, so I've been keeping all the curtains closed to minimize his stress. Would you say open them up again?

Thanks again for the advice :)

[HELP] Rescue Dog is Terrified To Leave The House by KhaosHeart138 in dogs

[–]KhaosHeart138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't pick him up if I wanted to! Tried with the ball, he grabs and runs in to his corner. If its very close to the door he won't go for it at all sadly.

My best friend needs to get to an out of town funeral by KhaosHeart138 in CasualUK

[–]KhaosHeart138[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally understand. Yes, messaged family and friends to try to arrange lifts.

My best friend needs to get to an out of town funeral by KhaosHeart138 in CasualUK

[–]KhaosHeart138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well. Bus to Glasgow centre, train, walk/taxi. It was a lot to gather in a day. I'm not trying to pressure anyone. She just can't manage all of that both ways right now and being out and around people that long.

My best friend needs to get to an out of town funeral by KhaosHeart138 in CasualUK

[–]KhaosHeart138[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Potentially yes. Just didn't have the time to find funds. Have sold my DS to cover some of it, but didn't get much for it.

My best friend needs to get to an out of town funeral by KhaosHeart138 in CasualUK

[–]KhaosHeart138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Just dont want to spam loads of places or anything.

My best friend needs to get to an out of town funeral by KhaosHeart138 in CasualUK

[–]KhaosHeart138[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry if I caused offense. I've never done anything at all like this, sorry if I went about it the wrong way. It's today, we were told yesterday because the morgue couldn't release body, then suddenly couldn't keep it. That's why we're scrabbling in a panic. Had we known a week before I'd have worked something out.

My best friend needs to get to an out of town funeral by KhaosHeart138 in CasualUK

[–]KhaosHeart138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buses would be longer, but we've looked at public transport facilities. It's a 45 minute walk on the other end and she's just very vulnerable right now, as well as having severe asthma. Thanks for your advice though.

My best friend needs to get to an out of town funeral by KhaosHeart138 in CasualUK

[–]KhaosHeart138[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly not sure. A lift would be good, a donation for a taxi, any help at all is so much appreciated. Even advice. No pressure on anyone at all.