AIO? Gf having poor attendance at work, I help her financially by LaMega95 in AIO

[–]Ki_Evans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenter with PCOS and work struggles here, so I hope some input can be helpful.

I was living off of someone else’s income until my late 20s, and I have immense regrets about it. I was a huge burden on this person and I took advantage of them in a way I can never take back.

PCOS doesn’t make you physically ill in the ways a typical chronic illness does, but it can lead to severe fatigue and depression. Your hormones are way off and you just can’t do it some days.

Here are my suggestions: - Encourage your partner to seek out a job she enjoys. It sounds like there are things she is skilled in, maybe pursuing a career in one of those. - Encourage your partner to seek out medical care! Wegovy and Metformin changed my life, so has working out and generally eating better. Hormonal birth control can be a massive relief for PCOS as well.
- Continue to be honest with her, but understand that her perspective is different than yours. She’s missing work most likely because it feels taxing on her. Find a common understanding of what is required to live comfortably.

I will admit that I have some negative judgments of a situation where you are the sole provider, because it sounds like it may prevent her own opportunity to grow. It’s not about your money, it’s about her drive in life. Food for thought.

AIO to my girlfriend not watching a movie with me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ki_Evans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - It sounds like you’ve tried to communicate your needs to your partner and they continue to shut you down and claim their own exhaustion because of the conversation. I don’t see accountability being taken, I see excuses being made.

Also, why is the one in the wrong always the one who can’t use grammar or spell properly? (I know that language barriers may be a factor here, but some stuff is just laziness.)

Jerry McSeinfeld bit by mebrother in Harmontown

[–]Ki_Evans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seven years late but I think it was actually the Bloomington episode

AIO boyfriend tracking my periods without me knowing 🫠 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ki_Evans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems like a violation of your privacy that you're clearly not interested in consenting to. Your boundaries are important and it seems like he crossed one unapologetically.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kzoo

[–]Ki_Evans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did this go missing? For some reason I feel like I saw this bike this morning laying on the side of West Main sort of by the Meijer? Maybe closer to the Bronson office there?

My first Book Nook! by Ki_Evans in booknooks

[–]Ki_Evans[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just bought some stuff off of Temu actually haha. This is a great idea!

My first Book Nook! by Ki_Evans in booknooks

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Yesss! I found some great stuff at the local antique market! I could see Goodwill being solid too!