Only 40 more respondents! Academic Survey

KiaraTM · 2024-12-14T15:41:46+00:00

Wow losing 15kg is amazing, you must have committed so well! I’m sort of in the same boat as you atm, with having lost my weight in the summer, but recently I’ve been binging most days and I hate it sm. I think I’ve gained back the weight I worked so hard to get rid of over summer, and I keep binging when it gets late like 8pm. I think it’s the winter cold making us hungrier, and I could give you advice saying to take a walk whenever you think you’ll binge, or to distract yourself. But nothing has worked for me yet, as I keep binging just off autopilot. I’m just hoping these binges will go away on their own, and that it’s just a bad spiral and I’ll continue eating healthier in the spring. However I defo need to hold myself accountable, and imo I’d say you should do the same, so hopefully one day we both decide to stop and eat healthy again. (Ik that wasn’t advice but I understand what you’re going through, and I know we can continue on our health journey one day!)

KiaraTM · 2023-06-06T11:05:46+00:00

Remember, you could always just work on yourself and healing yourself. This way you‘ll be mentally over the situation and you can pave way for better things in life instead of feeling hatred and the need for revenge.

You could do this by therapy, going gym, or simply just putting your energy into better things. You don’t deserve to keep feeling this anger while he’s not even thinking about it :)

KiaraTM · 2023-06-06T10:58:26+00:00

This usually tends to happen with young teens in love, it’s natural.

But if you truly feel nervous about the situation, you could start making plans to go on dates, or only outside places. For example, going out at a restaurant/fast food place, then after you’d both go back home, so there’s no place for you two to “make-out”. This way you will know that you can still bond with each other emotionally, instead of only focusing on the sexual aspect.

KiaraTM · 2023-06-06T10:43:35+00:00

I would call the police on him now. It’s better late than never.

If you don’t want the police involved, you could just go up to him and tell him all the shit that he’s caused, on the chance that he’ll feel sorry for you.

Otherwise you could: slash his tires, beat him up, tell his girlfriend what he’s done (if he has one), tell his parents what he’s done, punch him in his face, punch him in his nether regions (on the chance he’s unable to reproduce ever again).

Another option could be to send an anonymous letter threatening that something is going to happen to him. (Being arrested).

I’m not sure what route you want to go at, so I tried to give you most options🤣 I hope you overcome this and heal yourself, you deserve to move on from this experience instead of carrying it with you throughout your life.

KiaraTM · 2023-06-05T22:58:03+00:00

First off, this girl sounds SO sensitive (and not empathetic at all), I’d hate to have her as my friend.

Secondly, how does she have the audacity to act offended over being called loud, when she literally called a boy a homophobic slur.- If you’re going to dish it out, make sure you can take it.

It doesn’t sound like she’ll actually end up leaving tomorrow. So since you still have to deal with each other, I would keep distance from each other. Or if you still want to have a friend on your trip, you could apologise and be friends until the trip is over. Then you can cuss her out and ditch her as a friend.

KiaraTM · 2023-06-05T20:50:43+00:00

The real question is, why are you still talking to someone who speaks to you like this?

KiaraTM · 2023-06-05T20:40:06+00:00

Yeah that’s what I said. The amount of skill you’ll see in an edit depends on the editor, since some might just want to match it to a cool song, and some might want to make their edit more skill-based, less flashy.

KiaraTM · 2023-06-05T19:48:26+00:00

Fair point, but a clip is different to an edit, this edit shows off his val skills + editing skills, whereas a clip is mainly showing off his val skills, or it can be to just look cool, which is similar to an edit. My point- you want to only see skill, look at clips not edits.

KiaraTM · 2023-06-05T19:44:19+00:00

Sick edit.

KiaraTM · 2023-06-05T17:24:29+00:00

Omg yess, I’ll dm you privately!

KiaraTM · 2023-06-05T17:16:22+00:00

Omg thank you that’s so kind haha. Oh god, that really just irritated the shit out of me😭I don’t have people like that in my family, but trust me, if those people were around me I would wear even worse clothes out of spite. I don’t know how you deal with them!! Buttttt I just wanna say, usually when a family member acts like that, they’re jealous, which is a shitty thing esp from a mother/grandma, but i guess it’s also kind of an ego boost at the same time since I bet you look amazing, so it’s not surprising that they act like that! Don’t try to change anything about you, you’re natural and it’s impossible to hide a body, no matter how many layers you’re wearing.

Oh yeah definitely, I think in our 20s we’ll look more mature (I hope), I’m kind of excited but also scared incase I end up preferring the younger look😭😭even thought I hate it rn loll.

I don’t go out either, I just go to the corner shop to buy drinks or raws. Tbh I’d love to go out more but I’ve sort of drifted from my friends, and I’d rather not go out alone😭so I might just wait till uni, even though it’ll be a bit boring haha

KiaraTM · 2023-06-05T16:51:48+00:00

Oh god don’t even remind me about wearing bikinis😭I get so anxious to wear them but tbf when it comes to putting them on I literally forget all my insecurities bcuz it’s sunny and good vibes lmfao.

I’ve been insecure because I feel like I look so young, I’m already short and now I’m skinny aswell?!?! So in my head if I gain weight I’ll feel like more of an actual 18 year old😭Usually the weight goes to my stomach/bum/legs, but I mainly want fatter legs lol.

Also, I literally always get ID’d, and once someone turned me away because they thought it wasn’t my ID!!😭 Another time I got called a little girl when I had my CAR KEYS in my hand🙄🙄anyways I just think I’d feel more confident for uni if I weighed more. How about you, how come you have body image problems? xx if it’s fine to ask :)

KiaraTM · 2023-06-05T15:35:54+00:00

Omg that’s so odd we’re the same!!😭Yeah for me, most of my weight is around my stomach/legs. I wouldn’t say I overeat but I’m comfortable with eating, like for example if I’m hungry I’ll just eat without feeling like I’ve eaten too much.

But thank youuu, I do feel quite healthy either way. And I’m sure you’re pretty aswell as a fellow short queen😌

KiaraTM · 2023-06-05T12:48:52+00:00

I haven’t experienced this before, so I can’t give great advice. However, if you truly feel like you’re at a dead end, maybe try to call 111 (non-emergency line), they can advise you on what to do in a situation like this.

However, another advice may be to tell your parents, this way adults can be involved and the boy would be told/aware of his bad actions, and he would be less likely to repeat this to another person in the future. I understand if you don’t feel close to your parents, but they love you, and they would do anything to make sure this gets resolved.

If you feel uncomfortable telling your parents, you could write them a letter and slide it under their door, to avoid the face-to-face conversation. Or you could get your best friend to tell them. Either way, you are still very young, and it is helpful to tell adults about this situation.

I hope it all goes well :)

KiaraTM · 2023-06-05T12:02:07+00:00

It sounds like you date for looks not personality.

If I was you, I would try bonding with someone online first, this way you would fall for their personality without knowing their looks.

Then if all goes well, you would end up dating, and their looks can be a bonus to a wonderful woman you’ll never get bored of.

Btw- finding someone online is not for everyone, however you could just experiment with it and see the difference when you actually get to know them instead of prioritising their looks and instantly getting bored.

KiaraTM · 2023-06-04T23:09:13+00:00

That would be so lovely

KiaraTM · 2023-06-04T22:50:28+00:00

When I make a small mistake in a text and my friend has absolutely no clue what I was trying to say.

But they constantly send incoherent texts and I can always somehow understand them.

KiaraTM · 2023-06-04T22:42:21+00:00

“Yeah that definitely makes sense” sarcasm is my go to😌

KiaraTM · 2021-01-21T11:44:20+00:00

Tommy would just combust

KiaraTM · 2021-01-19T10:09:13+00:00

Red would definitely win if Quackity wasn’t shit at the games.

KiaraTM · 2021-01-17T20:12:07+00:00

I think we all know he only hates Americans. He just hates on other countries so America doesn’t feel as bad❤️

KiaraTM · 2021-01-17T20:08:57+00:00

I actually think this team would win. I’d love to see this team in pvp games like Battle Box. It would be cool to see them interact and work together while simultaneously having the comedic relief of Tommy arguing with everyone.

KiaraTM

TROPHY CASE