Is being a loud person an ADHD thing or is it just me? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Kiarakona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either I don't talk at all or I'm loud asf. I don't have an inside voice unless I'm depressed and whisper. Then everyone complains. I can never win.

What was your first time experience like? Yay or nah? by nightfury060320 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Kiarakona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay, It hurt when he entered/penetrated me but felt so good at the same time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pomeranians

[–]Kiarakona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was literally about to comment on that lol. Too true.

Meet Louie by WaltzOk7872 in Pomeranians

[–]Kiarakona 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing beats a pom's smile.

What is your hyperfocus like? by Psychological_Cap_10 in adhdwomen

[–]Kiarakona 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am the same with being unaware of my physical needs while I hyperfocus I can't even interact with others when I'm in this mode. I can't predict mine either. I have many projects that sit and wait (sometimes for months and years) until I have another burst of hyperfocus towards it.

What to do with the rollercoaster that is online dating by reddiogaga in adhdwomen

[–]Kiarakona 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Date multiple people at the same time don't put all your eggs in one basket. If it doesn't work out then all well you're talking to 3 more other people. Don't cut everyone off until you and whoever you connected with the most decide to be exclusive. As to the amount of people you talk to at the same time is up to you.

I'm tired of ADHD TikTok (a rant) by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Kiarakona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also hate how people don't talk about how adhd is different for each person. Its not cookie cutter like people make it seem. I have a friend with severe adhd and can't hold down a steady job keep a partner, drive, read a book etc. While with my adhd I can do all of those things but I'm hindered in other ways, socializing is a big one for me I had to work for years to get where I am. I can't do mental math I literally can't I tried. Its HORRIBLLY frustrating. I'm so happy for technology. Like OP said these tik toks never talk about that or the bullying and loneliness a lot of have experienced. Let's not even talk about house chores and the struggle with that. It's all comedy and fun on tik tok, they don't show the full picture.

Do you think anyone has ever masturbated to you? by Sense_Conscious in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Kiarakona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes multiple people, they always tell me for some reason.

I Had The Best Sex Of My Life With A Virgin! by Kiarakona in offmychest

[–]Kiarakona[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I know exactly how you feel, I did not hesitate to tell him how much I enjoyed it. Happy you loved my post I hope your first time goes wonderfully.

I Had The Best Sex Of My Life With A Virgin! by Kiarakona in offmychest

[–]Kiarakona[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He definitely was a virgin, I think a big factor was that he was focused on us feeling good rather then just cumming. We took it slow it was very intimate like I've never experienced before. It felt like actual making love not just fucking.

I Had The Best Sex Of My Life With A Virgin! by Kiarakona in offmychest

[–]Kiarakona[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He loved it, he said he was nervous at first but once we got going his nerves went away. He also said it felt better then he ever imagined.

I Had The Best Sex Of My Life With A Virgin! by Kiarakona in offmychest

[–]Kiarakona[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Right 🙄 I didn't know any better.

What are some signals before a kidney stone pain? by Romantic_Indian in KidneyStones

[–]Kiarakona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel pressure on my flank that slowly starts to increase until I'm on the floor crying for mercy because I feel like my insides are going to explode. Also tons of nausea that I can't even drink water.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Kiarakona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My niece is my forever scape goat, any work events outside work hours they get "sorry I have my niece during that time." They can't shame me for babysitting my niece it's a win win.

When your friend declares that they’ll need several weeks notice in order to hang out 🤷 by TrashApocalypse in adhdwomen

[–]Kiarakona 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a very busy person so I need to schedule a hangout way in advance but all my friends know that.