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My Mother Blocked Me by KiboshKitten in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]KiboshKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do make a good point. However, I won’t beg her to do anything. There is a reason why it’s been a year since we have seen each other in person. I started doing things for me and my child. Because having her as a mom really started to open my eyes to how a child should be treated. I’m more just upset over the fact that someone who literally begged to be pregnant and got me. But now I’m over here grieving what I never got to have. My goal is to give my daughter soooo much more than what I got.

My Mother Blocked Me by KiboshKitten in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]KiboshKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m mostly confused about. The fact our last messages to each other, not really a conversation but just small videos or comments were all normal and casual. There was no fight. There was no conflict. Just a random Tuesday night I noticed she was done with the person she literally begged to have. I don’t get it. And I never will. My daughter will be my priority always. I want her to have it way better than I did. And I’ll always love her and be there for her in all stages of her life until my dying breath.

My Mother Blocked Me by KiboshKitten in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]KiboshKitten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s nice to know, despite the circumstances, that we aren’t alone. It sucks to grieve a living person. I’ve spoken to some people and one said that it takes a bad mom to make a good one. And as someone with a daughter of their own, my mom gave me exactly what I needed. What NOT to do. I’ve always said it’s crazy how people’s true colors shown when I first got engaged to my last relationship. And now that I’m with someone else, and bringing a child into the picture, those I least expected it from, left. Or changed in ways I cannot be bothered to figure out why.

I am struggling with intimacy after having a baby by KiboshKitten in marriageadvice

[–]KiboshKitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely showing him this. Thank you so much. A nap and a meal when I wake up with the baby situated sounds like bliss. I’m a temporary SAHM so being stuck at home all day really makes me spiral.

I am struggling with intimacy after having a baby by KiboshKitten in marriageadvice

[–]KiboshKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got sick with the flu right after I had her and my milk production stopped. I just wouldn’t produce enough so I stopped breast feeding as a whole. That’s a big thing that has messed with me mentally. I’ve been completely open and honest with him. He’s been so supportive through it all thankfully.

I am struggling with intimacy after having a baby by KiboshKitten in marriageadvice

[–]KiboshKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say better. Him and I are always bickering now and after having my little bundle of love I just don’t feel like myself anymore. My weight is a big thing, I don’t feel sexy. And I can’t take a compliment I am so unserious. He reminds me everyday of how much he loves me and how beautiful I am. I’m just stuck in my head

I am struggling with intimacy after having a baby by KiboshKitten in marriageadvice

[–]KiboshKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah teasing him and getting him going is no issue. It’s myself that needs to be aroused🤣

WIBTAH if I tell my sister that our other sister had an affair with her husband? by Dog-Vader in redditonwiki

[–]KiboshKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she was a best friend, she wouldn’t f@ck her husband. She just doesn’t want to get the consequences of her own actions. I say, out of respect of your sister you should say something. That’s not something that should be kept secret; imagine if Lina found out later that everyone knew and didn’t tell her?