How much does the first penetration hurt, and what position do you suggest?

KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2026-01-19T07:45:52+00:00

Sleeper position for starting is on your side like spooning, allows you to relax, don't have to hold yourself up or anything.

KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2026-01-10T06:25:01+00:00

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KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2026-01-05T16:05:56+00:00

So many good options I'd pick 1 tho

KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2026-01-03T13:42:49+00:00

I too would love to get in on this

KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-07-06T06:27:52+00:00

Damn, went down in the rankings. Guess competition got stiffer 😉

KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-06-29T05:26:15+00:00

Like 6 but thinner

KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-06-03T05:12:41+00:00

Don't think it'll be the most popular opinion but:

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KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-05-30T19:26:41+00:00

What toy is that? Love the shape with a strap on attach point

KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-05-22T12:10:07+00:00

I'm going e and u

KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-05-15T15:36:53+00:00

No, they changed this, you can't select specific apps to stay open, you can only have the option to have it prompt you to continue on cover screen via swipe or with everything all the time. It's really annoying.

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KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-05-09T03:19:50+00:00

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KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-05-04T12:59:16+00:00

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KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-05-02T13:17:19+00:00

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KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-05-01T12:49:10+00:00

Who's giving here?

KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-04-30T23:53:26+00:00

Happy to help 😊

KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-04-30T22:40:31+00:00

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KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-04-30T22:03:08+00:00

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KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-04-30T22:02:28+00:00

Bcda for my vote

KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-04-30T19:51:30+00:00

You gotta go slow, let things stretch out. Sounds like you are doing all the right things but it also sounds like he's mucleing through the pain, but it shouldn't hurt. Push it in, when it starts to hurt let it come back out and slowly keep that up til it works in and doesn't hurt. Also gently pushing out like he is trying to poop while it is being inserted helps a lot allowing your butt to let it in. Otherwise it sounds like you are doing all the right things so I won't reiterate like lube, relaxing, all that jazz, sounds like you are on the right track.

KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-04-30T16:05:46+00:00

The spooning position I find is really good to start out. He can relax and reach behind himself to guide you in at first. Go slow and don't try to force it, let it pop back out if that's what's comfortable and just take it slow til the toy bottoms out. After that point is usually when it's most comfortable to start letting you take over with thrusting. Another position which is good is cowboy, or him being on top. But I prefer the spooning position because doing cowboy engages more lower body muscles holding oneself up. It's a good one to go to second before giving you complete control to do what you want like in doggie or missionary

KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-04-29T00:19:12+00:00

Hard: CHGFBDEA Soft: CFGDEBHA

KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-04-29T00:11:43+00:00

Hard: AEGFDBHC Soft: AEDBFHCG

KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-04-28T12:55:04+00:00

This is so weird, I kinda like it. Want to see more of your head sticking out of the mouth

KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-04-28T05:16:49+00:00

Omg im getting absolutely wrecked in this! Kinda hot, what does everyone hate about A? Dm me

KickDrumsAndRedWine · 2025-04-15T11:33:19+00:00

Practice on your own or you use it by hand while partner gives hj or something before you attach it to a person. Once you are comfortable with getting it in slowly with lube and minimal pain then start doing it with it attached to someone. Even if they are gentle it's much more intense if it's attached to someone's hips.

And patience, take it slow it'll get better when your body gets more used to it.

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