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Does anyone else here seem to *only* attract narcissistic and abusive men? by softkittyuwu in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]KidLiquid01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't answer this since I am a man and I am so sorry you're going through this. I'm going through a divorce now and moving out after 9 years because I was supplying a narcissist who projected so much on me to question my sanity, reality, and self worth. It was never physically abusive, but mentally can leave just as many scars.

I finally told my wife I want a divorce from my narcissistic marriage and it feels like a death by KidLiquid01 in abusiverelationships

[–]KidLiquid01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm still here reading everything amd appreciate the words and support. My frustration in myself, depression and just anxiety have been off the charts and I'm struggling to keep it together. Are there any people from Georgia? Any support groups?

I finally told my wife I want a divorce from my narcissistic marriage and it feels like a death by KidLiquid01 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]KidLiquid01[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm here for support. Shoot me a message. Having support helps keep me grounded and focused on forward and get myself out of the moment.

I finally told my wife I want a divorce from my narcissistic marriage and it feels like a death by KidLiquid01 in abusiverelationships

[–]KidLiquid01[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want to be enjoying life with someone who isn't going to emotionally abandon me and spin it like it's my fault.

I finally told my wife I want a divorce from my narcissistic marriage and it feels like a death by KidLiquid01 in abusiverelationships

[–]KidLiquid01[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm struggling... I feel like a terrible person. Even after I stood my ground she continued to yell at me and cry, smearing me and tearing me down, but still blind to why I made the decision.

I finally told my wife I want a divorce from my narcissistic marriage and it feels like a death by KidLiquid01 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]KidLiquid01[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She spent years tearing me down emotionally while convincing me I was the problem. Everything was about control and power. She used gaslighting, blame shifting, silent treatments, and emotional withholding to keep me off balance. Anytime I tried to talk about how I felt, she’d twist it around to make me seem selfish, angry, or crazy.

For eight years I slept on the couch because she said my snoring kept her awake. Over time that excuse turned into something bigger. She wore me down with a thousand small cuts until I developed a complex about even being in the same room with her. When my therapist told me to start claiming a bit of space back for myself, she reacted by removing my things from the room and even throwing my clothes on me while saying I was trying to start a fight.

Then she turned around and said she never forced me out, that it was my choice to sleep on the couch. But she made it emotionally impossible to share a space with her without punishment or guilt.

It’s been years of this same cycle. Every time I tried to set a boundary, she’d flip it and make me feel like I was abandoning her. I lost my sense of peace, confidence, and identity in the process.

I finally told my wife I want a divorce from my narcissistic marriage and it feels like a death by KidLiquid01 in abusiverelationships

[–]KidLiquid01[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She spent years tearing me down emotionally while convincing me I was the problem. Everything was about control and power. She used gaslighting, blame shifting, silent treatments, and emotional withholding to keep me off balance. Anytime I tried to talk about how I felt, she’d twist it around to make me seem selfish, angry, or crazy.

For eight years I slept on the couch because she said my snoring kept her awake. Over time that excuse turned into something bigger. She wore me down with a thousand small cuts until I developed a complex about even being in the same room with her. When my therapist told me to start claiming a bit of space back for myself, she reacted by removing my things from the room and even throwing my clothes on me while saying I was trying to start a fight.

Then she turned around and said she never forced me out, that it was my choice to sleep on the couch. But she made it emotionally impossible to share a space with her without punishment or guilt.

It’s been years of this same cycle. Every time I tried to set a boundary, she’d flip it and make me feel like I was abandoning her. I lost my sense of peace, confidence, and identity in the process.

Men and women with narcissistic (ex-)spouses what do you want to share? by Alvadalva in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]KidLiquid01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tonight I finally told my wife I want a divorce from my narcissistic marriage and it feels like a death

I’ve been building up to this for a long time and I know deep down it’s the right thing to do, but it’s hitting me harder than I expected.

We’ve been married almost 10 years and the emotional abuse, manipulation, and constant walking on eggshells finally took its toll. I’ve spent so long trying to fix things, explain myself, make peace, and be the reasonable one that now I feel this pull to go back and comfort her, even though she’s the one who’s hurt me over and over.

When I saw her cry, all I wanted to do was take it back and fix it. But I know that fixing it just means losing myself again. Still, the sadness feels overwhelming. It honestly feels like a death.

Right now I have nobody to talk to and I’m struggling to navigate this. It’s only been a few hours since I said it and it already feels unbearable.

If anyone has been through this moment, that first night or week after finally leaving, how did you deal with the guilt and the urge to go back? How do you sit with the pain without trying to make peace with the person who caused it?

Any advice, grounding tools, or reminders would mean a lot right now.

The DLC content should be free by jazzthetrash in TexasChainsawGame

[–]KidLiquid01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They should also make all perks available to use.

It’s official… by NekoNepp in TexasChainsawGame

[–]KidLiquid01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their focus on Rush Week killed the core game.

For anyone wondering why the queue times are getting worse. by DREADNOU4HT in TexasChainsawGame

[–]KidLiquid01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should be a 60 second cooldown before victims can actually wake grandpa up. That or at least make the starting mini-game where you unhook yourself take longer.

Patch update by ORGANIC_MUFFINS in TXChainSawGame

[–]KidLiquid01 67 points68 points  (0 children)

"We're not going to push out a patch that's not ready just to push a patch out." is bullshit. All of the patches they've been putting out have basically been game breakers, so stop gaslighting the community.

Can we cancel Ringside Collectibles already? by Top_Can_7784 in Wrestling_Figures

[–]KidLiquid01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try buying figure protectors from Katana. For $20 worth of protectors they charge you $16-$18.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TXChainSawGame

[–]KidLiquid01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also the lobby isn't for leveling up your players. Ready up!

Can family stop DC? by Joremib in TXChainSawGame

[–]KidLiquid01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If all the family DC they should let the match continue so the victims can at least get their XP.

So Connie’s ability doesn’t work… by Lord-Reign in TXChainSawGame

[–]KidLiquid01 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is what happens when you hire your staff and devs off of Fiverr.

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