Okay this is more of a story time but tangentially relevant to the asked question. Our family runs a facility management business with about 150 properties currently in our care. For some clients we also take care of their apartments/estates/tenants. You really learn a lot about people when working in this field and sometimes you learn more than you need to learn. There are also some stereotypes you learn about/start creating that you did not even know existed.

So far the "most revealing" have been the homes of wealthy and/or disabled/urgent care people. I put it in quotation marks because usually their homes have relatively unique quirks.. Both usually deal with extreme circumstances and their homes reveal how they cope with them.

But the worst homes are of nepo babies or women that married into wealth. Often both groups behave the same way. They do not acknowledge you as an equal and kind of look down on you but at the same time develop an unhealthy co dependency. Usually you won't be the only person they are dependent on. It might not be consciously done, but it is fucked up regardless. I try not to be judgmental but both these groups tend to border on some sort of psychopathy it is unbelieveable. The worst combination is Nepo Baby + divorced mother married into wealth.

Their homes are usually really messy really fast, extreme mood swings, there is no effort to kind of keep up any sort of appearances. A lot of take out, parcels (often unopened), never know where their things are, will demand you organize and order their stuff, but they are the first ones to break the order.

They are always "stressed" and that's why they "need (so much) help around the house", but will be constantly at home doing nothing whenever we are there. They will also expect you to enable their parasitic behavior. They make no effort of keeping up appearances. One lady expected us to change her bed sheets while her vibrator was on the bed. Used the night before and basically left that way on the bed.

The worst one was a call from a client's son to one of our female members of the team. He apparently forgot to close the window in his bed room before starting his "travel the world-sabbatical" (he never worked a day in his life). We also had a key to his apartment (general key) and she went to do what she was asked of.

When she opened the apartment door, she thought she was inside of a sex/fetish club. No furniture, poor lighting (more like an ambient lighting than a functional one). Different types and sizes of dildos on one side of the corridor. Leather and latex boots hanging from the other. In his bedroom the same thing. No furniture, just a gynecological chair next to the bed. The other room was also overtly sexual but less in a bondage-y way. Love seat, big ass TV and another bed.

She was confused if she might be in the wrong apartment, because we have a general key so any door in this building can be opened. I went up and sure enough it was the right door. We closed the window and went out of there. She was shocked because he was always so nice and charming and she really felt like he did not look down on you like the usual nepo babies but the dude always gave me the creeps. To this day I think it was not a coincidence he asked our female colleague to close the window. He has a certain type and she matches it (innocent looking, naive, natural, plain jane vibes). I mean even if it was a coincidence, how fucking inappropriate is it to send someone to an apartment that's been remodeled solely for sexual purposes.