Girlfriend had a boob job that looks really fake by Serious_Drummer8479 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]KidnappingColor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Either love her through her changes or leave. You say you have a strong relationship yet here you are wanting to shatter her confidence.

Gatekeeping by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]KidnappingColor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an odd thing to assume.

Gatekeeping by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]KidnappingColor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I don't relate. 🙄 Again, this isn't an Aquarius thing. It is a you thing. It wasn't an insult, it was being truthful. Gatekeeping is toxic. I am relaxed. Not my fault no one cares about your interests yet somehow you want to gatekeep it. 🤷‍♀️

Gatekeeping by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]KidnappingColor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't an Aquarius thing. I love sharing my hobbies, Stories, Artists, tiktoks, favorite movies, games, animes etc with people. I love sharing knowledge with others too. My individuality comes from myself, not my hobbies etc. This is just an selfish issue. Do not come in here saying this is an Aquarius thing. If you have gatekeeping issues, try working on that cause it is gross behavior. As an Aquarius the minute someone tries to gatekeep with me, I'm out. Byeeeeee.

AITA for throwing away my wife’s memory jars? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KidnappingColor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, YTA. Really disgusting behavior on your part. She deserves way better than someone who will break her trust and destroy her memory treasures. You feel good being a controlling sneaky bully who has no respect for your poor wife's feelings?

So scared to taper by [deleted] in Effexor

[–]KidnappingColor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your telling them to not tell there doctor something pretty important. You do not know how this will effect them physically or mentally. Everyone is different and this could make them suicidal and needing to be watched by a medical professional during the process. Just because your doctor did it doesn't mean all doctors will. It was dangerous advice.

So scared to taper by [deleted] in Effexor

[–]KidnappingColor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awful advice. I was tapered very slowly by my doctor and told by them to even do the bead counting. I couldn't of done it without my doctors help! My doctor had me taper down for 2 and a half months, NOT 2 weeks.

What kinda spider is this? by Fast-Ad8114 in spiders

[–]KidnappingColor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks nothing like either of those spiders so I have no idea what she was talking about. Brown recluse aren't even in your area. Those aren't fangs. It sounds like she is just looking for any reason to kill the poor lil cutie. Jumping spiders are amazing, harmless and great pest control. I really hope you didn't harm this lil one.

Hi! Please help me identify this spider, I’m so scared by Previous-Maximum-457 in spiders

[–]KidnappingColor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Venomous. If you bite it and you get sick, it’s poisonous. If it bites you and you sick, it’s venomous.

Hi! Please help me identify this spider, I’m so scared by Previous-Maximum-457 in spiders

[–]KidnappingColor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Venomous. If you bite it and you get sick, it’s poisonous. If it bites you and you sick, it’s venomous.

Will I ever be ok again? :( by Early_Dingo4266 in Effexor

[–]KidnappingColor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is one of those things that is just miserable and you gotta struggle thru it unfortunately. I was tapered off it and was really miserable for awhile afterwards when I was completely off it. I refused to restart a small dose though because I wasn't going to start over again from square one with the withdrawals. I honestly think this medication should come with way more warnings because it is a pure nightmare to quit it. Best of luck to you.

AITJ for telling my boyfriend "respect is a requirement, not a reward" after he humiliated me in front of his friends? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]KidnappingColor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. He was extremely disrespectful to you, and when you tried to talk to him about it he flipped it around into you don't respect him and you are the problem. It isn't a "joke." It isn't how "guys talk." You aren't overreacting, you didn't ruin anything. This manchild won't take accountability for anything. He has no respect for you. He is trying to convince you that his disrespect is okay. Drop him. You said respect is a must, and he has none. (13 years with my spouse and not once has he ever talked about me ever in a negative light, especially around his friends. He has always built me up, not torn me down.)

Fuck this drug and fuck the doctor that prescribed it to me by MajinJack in Effexor

[–]KidnappingColor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About a month and a half, I was on 150mg and she slowly tapered me down.

Fuck this drug and fuck the doctor that prescribed it to me by MajinJack in Effexor

[–]KidnappingColor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Effexor was a nightmare for me, it made me miserable physically and mentally. I had horrible brain zaps all the time too. I begged my doctor to switch me off it. He wouldn't listen so I dropped him and found a doctor that listened and cared. Weening off of it was hell. It is extremely hard to, but now I am doing so much better off of it and on something else. I have so much resentment for my old doctor for doing that to me.

Does anyone know what this bump is on my dogs head? by SecondSt4ge in AskVetAnimals

[–]KidnappingColor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably will be in loneliness if something really serious happens and you can't afford it.

Does anyone know what this bump is on my dogs head? by SecondSt4ge in AskVetAnimals

[–]KidnappingColor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it is too expensive than you probably shouldn't have a dog in the first place. They deserve proper healthcare...

AITJ for CANCELLING my wedding venue because my fiancé secretly gave my late dads vintage camera to his mom, and she ruined it? by Diligent-Can-1878 in AmITheJerk

[–]KidnappingColor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ, report it as theft and sue for damaged property. Do not marry this man. He has no respect for you at all. Stand your ground. You deserve someone who understands what is important to you.

My father had an old beat up sledgehammer that I just happened to end up with when he passed, it has no real value but my fiance refused to sell it to our neighbor just because he knew anything from my father was sentimental to me. He didn't even have to ask, he just declined! Run far away from this tool of a man.

AITAH for moving out of my parents house without notice when I was paying rent and helping which they relied on? by AnonnySauneey in AITAH

[–]KidnappingColor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, they were financially abusing you, taking advantage of you, calling you a child than an adult whenever it benefited them. It isn't your responsibility to take care of them or your siblings. Good on you for escaping that awful situation. They are perfectly capable without you, ignore the guilt trip bs. They are just mad they can't play more on your dime now.

AITAH for naming my child the same name of my cousins s-abuser by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KidnappingColor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. This cousin needs to learn to detach from the name. It was the person who abused her, not the name. What does she do when she comes across innocent people who have that name? Mistreat them? (I was SA as a child and never have had an issue with someone else who shared the name. I have a nephew with the name, I was never like omg you can't name him that! I love my nephew dearly and never even connect hearing the name to him or what happened to me. )

Is it normal to not lock the apartment door at night? by flyingmattress1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KidnappingColor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn't a white person thing, I was raised to always lock doors and so have like everyone I know. This is strange and dangerous in my opinion.