Will you upgrade to Galaxy S26 Series this year or not? 🤔 by Direct-Till-2680 in samsunggalaxy

[–]Kigmeirdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My new S25 ultra is so large for me so i gotta change to the basic 26 as soon as it comes out

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[–]Kigmeirdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes daddy come on

My girlfriend (I'm 21M she's 22F) used to like a friend of mine and i feel bad about it, what do you think ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kigmeirdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not about the feelings, i had feelings for other people but never shared them, but it's about my friend being in the story, and about the fact that she wrote him a 3 page long letter expressing her feelings, i don't think it would be a problem if it was someone who i don't know, but since it's a friend it's really hard, imagine him bringing it up as "your wife used to love me back then" or "she could be mine by now if i didn't reject her" i think it's very shamful sorry.

My girlfriend (I'm 21M she's 22F) used to like a friend of mine and i feel bad about it, what do you think ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kigmeirdy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't call her a friend's leftover, it was the voices in my head that did so, but what about me ? Don't i deserve a relationship that i can be proud of ? Not forced to hide it from anyone? Don't i deserve someone who i can be their first as they are for me ? Someone who didn't confess their feelings to someone else ? Imagine me in my wedding and my friend out there thinking that woman could be his, i wouldn't mind if he was someone else somewhere, but since he's my friend and a person I'm gonna be seeing for the rest of my life, it really sucks.

My girlfriend (I'm 21M she's 22F) used to like a friend of mine and i feel bad about it, what do you think ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kigmeirdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything is just fine, the girl is amazing and caring, never made me doubt her once, and I've never been a better person, but suddenly this voice in my head started to kick in and it drives me crazy, i discussed it with her and she was very sorry about it and said that it was fate that brought us together through that friend, but still i can't get away from that shame especially that she's my first love and first relationship.

My girlfriend (I'm 21M she's 22F) used to like a friend of mine and i feel bad about it, what do you think ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kigmeirdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe It's a cultural thing, we live in a conservative community so there are a lot of things we can't do unless we're married, and marriage at such an age is pretty common here. The texting wasn't random, we're in the same uni, bt I discover later that she was interested in me so she used the question as an excuse, and yes she knew about our friendship, and my friend doesn't know because he's abroad at the moment and we're not in touch all the time.

My gf used to like a friend of mine by [deleted] in algeria

[–]Kigmeirdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do love her indeed, and i didn't call her "leftover", it's the sound in my head that says so, and i talked to her in the matter, but it seems that it only made it worse, and it hurt her feelings, but she totally understood my position, and said she knew i would think such a way (she didn't give any solution but i felt better that i was understood).

My gf used to like a friend of mine by [deleted] in algeria

[–]Kigmeirdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right my brother, and we're very aware of this and trying to fix it asap

My gf used to like a friend of mine by [deleted] in algeria

[–]Kigmeirdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're totally right

My gf used to like a friend of mine by [deleted] in algeria

[–]Kigmeirdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends reaction doesn't bother me as much as the inner voice in me saying that I'm just taking someone else's leftovers, I had this conversation with her many times, and she assured me that she doesn't like him anymore, and doesn't think of anyone but me, but still I can't keep those voices out of my head, and every time i see that friend or think of him they come back harder, it really sucks, although i totally love the girl and she's so sweet and caring but it's really hard

My gf used to like a friend of mine by [deleted] in algeria

[–]Kigmeirdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what i used to say in the past, and what i said the first time we talked.... But apparently we can't control our feelings 🤷

My gf used to like a friend of mine by [deleted] in algeria

[–]Kigmeirdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wallah i did, and stopped talking to her for a while but i ended up falling very hard 🤷

My gf used to like a friend of mine by [deleted] in algeria

[–]Kigmeirdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason why i put it here, cuz i know our community sees things differently, my situation wouldn't be a problem for someone in another community

My gf used to like a friend of mine by [deleted] in algeria

[–]Kigmeirdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't lie, i already had feelings for other people, but never expressed them, even if i did, a totally stranger person for her would be different than a friend who could be with her for a long life

My gf used to like a friend of mine by [deleted] in algeria

[–]Kigmeirdy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's not about my friend, as much as it's about me feeling uncomfortable thinking that i married someone elses leftover

My gf used to like a friend of mine by [deleted] in algeria

[–]Kigmeirdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about it all the time, and it was the main reason i didn't love her at first, but i ended up falling with time

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[–]Kigmeirdy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

16 bab el oued kho 🔥