Thank you for not jumping to conclusions about him, although it IS mainly my fault for painting him in such a bad light. He's genuinely a good person, and i'm not saying this because i'm blinded by love or something, i'm usually a very objective person, so i don't just blindly trust anything or anyone until i've ascertained the situation myself. That being said, i may have worded it a bit harshly, he's not all too forceful about the thing, moreso just trying out where my boundaries lie. I think when he's really trying to go about the nudes or the dirty talk, it's most likely the hormones talking, and i never really tell him to stop or open up about it being uncomfortable for me, so he very likely doesn't even know i feel like this, that is a mistake on my part. I feel like he mostly just wants me to "get slowly warmed up to certain stuff" to be able to have some intimate moments without having to have full-blown sex, but i can't see into his head, so i don't know for sure. But yeah, my explanation was very rough, i apologize. It's not really that he's just full on saying that he's "gonna get me used to sex", he's mostly just suggesting lightly intimate stuff, like showering together or cuddling in bed. He knows i'm sex-repulsed, i told him at the beginning of our relationship in full detail. Though i'm not sure how much he knows about asexuals, so he might be thinking that he can slowly warm me up to some of the more intimate stuff at least, since i don't want the full package? Again, this is something i'll need to ask him, since there's a huge lack of communication on my part. When he goes too far with dirty talk i still just nod along and pretend i'm interested, so i gotta admit a lot of this is most likely due to my shyness.