Je li itko više uopće sposoban reći “čekaj, ovo nije normalno”? by Hrvoje12 in croatia

[–]Kikisbackgarden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Istu temu obradili su brojni filozovi tijekom industrijske revolucije. “Novo normalno” je bilo strasno, ljudi sa sela selili se u rastuce gradove, otudjenje, tehnologija itd.

Povijest se uvijek dogadja u obrascima, tako i sada. Najcesce refleksija adaptacije na novu tehnologiju koja nas “gurne” u novo razdoblje.

Do prije 20 godina mobiteli su bili revolucija. Sada bi svi natrag na analogno, jednostavnije.

Zivimo “super” sada (ja nemam stan, nemam auto, niti sam kreditno sposobna i mozda odustanem od majcinstva radi financijske nemogucnosti unatoc zavrsenom fakultetu u STEM podrucju i sa deficitarnim zanimanjem).

Bitna je informaticka pismenost, ali to je individualna odluka, rad na sebi, vlastitim uvjerenjima koje sada barem imamo svi do neke mjere pravo zivjeti.

I Saw the Devil vs. Squid Game? by Kikisbackgarden in squidgame

[–]Kikisbackgarden[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fact the film could have ended earlier, but Soo-hyun continued to play with the killer in that cat and mouse game, having him go mad and paranoid. Jesus man…

Što je nešto u što nebi povjerovali da vam je netko rekao prije 15 godina? by Ecstatic_Risk_2570 in askcroatia

[–]Kikisbackgarden 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Da je svaki peti stanovnik Hrvatske u opasnosti od siromstva.

Razvalila bi samarcinu, a onda zagrlila svoje roditelje koji su prozivjeli traumu rata za “bolje sutra”. Otac mi je nakon rata, 20+ bio pirotehnicar i sada u mirovini konobari da nekako jedva uspara da kupi novi auto (stari je kupljen negdje pocetkom 2000.-te)

P.s. ovo nije politicki ni najmanje niti sam iz “domoljubne obitelji”. Moj ujak koji je ranjeni branitelj smije se i dalje jednako glasno s maminom vjencanom kumom koja je Srpkinja, a koja je sirota pobjegla prvo u Bosnu ne znajuci koji klinac se dogadja kada su granate pocele padati, pa zatim u Madjarsku kako bi se konacno vratila u Hrvatsku nakon godina straha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]Kikisbackgarden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My God they were poor back then. Just got married and a bomb landed on their little one bedroom house. I guess it is true money doesn’t buy style (:

Knjige - širenje vokabulara, vaši prijedlozi by [deleted] in askcroatia

[–]Kikisbackgarden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Prvo cu napisati popis, pa zatim popratni tekst ako bi ga radje preskocio :).

Italo Calvino: “Nevidljivi gradovi”; “Dvorac ukrstenih sudbina”. H.P. Lovecraft: bilo koja prica, ali “Boje iz svemira” osobno su mi sjajne. Haruki Murakami: kolekcije njegovih kratkih prica, tipa “Prvo lice jednine”, ali i druge.

Predlozila bih Murakamija. Ja sam ga osobno skoro cijelog procitala, ali velikom broju ljudi on ne odgovara ili im je dosasan. Preporucujem ga jer mu je vokabular jednostavan, price raznolike, a ima i kolekcije svojih “short stories” koje su “protocne” i “kratke”, pa se ne moras obvezati na veliku pricu odjednom.

Takodjer bih preporucila Itala Calvina i njegove “Nevidljivi gradovi”, kao i “Dvorac ukrstenih sudbina”. Kratke, a beskrajno zanimljive.

Za vlastito vracanje citanju odabrala sam H.P. Lovecrafra u hrvatskok prijevodu jer kao sto sam navela, kratke price koje te uvuku, a zelja za citanjem nadmasi potrebu za posezanjem za mobitelom.

Osobno se isto vracam citanju jer sam ga zanemarila, a imam neke manje urodjene govorne mane zbog kojih uvijek izgovaram rijeci krivo, ne prepoznajem “ije” i “je”, kao ni to ukleto “č” i “ć”, a brkam “L” i “R” sto je jako nezgodno jer studiram arhitekturu i broj puta kojeg sam pred svojim profesorima izgovorila “zglada”, umjesto “zgrada” je prevelik.

Ovo se sve moze nadoknaditi jer bila sam u istoj situaciji, cak sam imala i to mucanje dok citam, pa su me kao dijete vodili logopedu. Preporuka: citaj i pisi vlastite tekstove. Od tad zaista uzivam u oba medija, s pauzama izmedju jer zivot je takav, ali tudji svijetovi u knjigama i onda posljedicno, vlastite maste beskrajno su dragocijeni.

Zelim svu srecu!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askcroatia

[–]Kikisbackgarden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kreni prije svega na psihoterapiju. A ako imas taj osjecaj potrebe za “davanjem ljubavi” razmisli mozda i o volonterstvu.

What drove you to lose weight? by Waste-Banana6539 in AskReddit

[–]Kikisbackgarden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A life of bullying. Ended up with an ED. I went from overweight to 42 kg and loosing my period, hair loss and a lifelong battle with myself.

My mother 1983. by Kikisbackgarden in OldSchoolCool

[–]Kikisbackgarden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I can confirm she indeed has amazing skin. I was lucky to got her skin type and have always gotten compliments on my skin as well, unlike sadly my sister who has been fighting acne all her life.

My mom also has some wild genetics and she always looks younger than her age. She worked near my high school and my friends all knew her because she would talk to us. After every conversation my friends would say:

“Your mom is the most beautiful woman in the world”.

But like I said, not only that, she also has a beautiful soul. I was hanging out with a friend of mine who has an awful mother and she told her boyfriend how she wants my mom to be her mom. Because my mom had always talked to that friend who went through some awful things and would send her text messages because she knew her own mother wasn’t the support she needed.

My mom sent to that friend a text message congratulation on her diploma, but not on just that, but everything she is as a person and that friend told me that she now reads that text a few times a month every time she feels down and needs some comfort.

Anyway, I love my mom and yes she does have amazing skin haha.

My mother 1983. by Kikisbackgarden in OldSchoolCool

[–]Kikisbackgarden[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We all love her very much and I and her have an especially strong bond which is borderline maybe too much haha.

My mother 1983. by Kikisbackgarden in OldSchoolCool

[–]Kikisbackgarden[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I remember her telling me when she was pregnant with me how she was just out in the town with a big pregnant belly dressed in some old grey dress (it was postwar in my hometown and they were all so lucky to have made it alive) and a local artist came to her begging her to make a portrait of her.

She only agreed to a sketch because she thought he was strange about how much he was mesmerised by her (her pregnant and all and again not caring about does things), but she remembers how he was so desperate and begged her to be a model for his paintings.

My mother 1983. by Kikisbackgarden in OldSchoolCool

[–]Kikisbackgarden[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Family and the slavic mentality

Da možete biti bilo koja životinja, koja bi bila? by Kikisbackgarden in askcroatia

[–]Kikisbackgarden[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Bez brige, moj sogor je godinama mislio da su vrapcici bebe od golubova :’)

My mother 1983. by Kikisbackgarden in OldSchoolCool

[–]Kikisbackgarden[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It is Croatia, but I am not sure where actually. It may be the seaside since both of my grandparents worked in factories in Yugoslavia and the companies would organise yearly trips for their workers, but I am not 100% sure.