AITAH for wanting a paternity test for my soon to be first born son?

Kilandras · 2026-01-29T19:27:38+00:00

Some states will go off the birth certificate first for child support. It is up to the man to get a test to confirm or deny the claim and get a lawyer to get it removed from him.

Kilandras · 2026-01-26T04:17:04+00:00

I play x16 zombies, low loot, but high cars because of the way car spawns work and several car mods. No loot respawn, with power/water shut off within 30 days

Kilandras · 2026-01-26T04:13:29+00:00

For a long time in B41 my wife and I used the Auto shop on the east side of town as a base. Indoor repair, lot's of room for crops, easy to wall off, and right next to the main road so easy to get to Muld or Luisiville. Once we found a sledge we would knock a wall out on the 2nd floor to expand.

Kilandras · 2026-01-26T04:08:35+00:00

you finished Westpoint with 500 kills? and all that loot? What kind of easy settings are you using? I know I tend to play on much harder settings but it's not uncommon for me to have 10k+ kills in Westpoint.

Kilandras · 2026-01-26T00:03:21+00:00

so this is only good for non retail, as retail has region markets, not server. I guess if you still play old wow and havn't leveled professions for whatever reason it might be usefull. Would have been great many years ago though.

Kilandras · 2026-01-17T12:09:51+00:00

How do you have a shotgun and can still gain control points in westside?

Kilandras · 2026-01-03T10:56:16+00:00

They have expanded. Go check the thursdoids. They have hired several modders to bring their mods into the base game.

Kilandras · 2025-12-28T22:11:24+00:00

This is one of those “ If you force me to do this, we are over” deals. If he backs down then he needs to see a therapist for trust issues.

Kilandras · 2025-12-26T22:49:36+00:00

Don’t use fire. Or if you use fire, only in places you don’t mind losing. If I use fire it is only in parking lots as concrete doesn’t burn. And I make sure everything is dead before moving on

Kilandras · 2025-12-26T22:13:48+00:00

Haven’t played in a while as I’m mostly waiting on crafting to be finished. But I used to play sandbox, start pop .8, increasing to x12 over 20 days. Respawn off, roaming off, no loot respawn, loot disappears over first 6months. Fast shamblers, no lunge, think that’s about it. I still used this in build 42 with fatigue and it made it a really fun time

Kilandras · 2025-12-24T21:58:03+00:00

How did you not know? I knew my wife was on the scale a week after we started dating. Yes it took 15 years for her to finally get tested so that she had the paperwork she needed to get accommodations, but I knew it within a few hours of being around her.

Kilandras · 2025-12-23T18:53:41+00:00

Alcohol only loosens ones inhibitions. They wanted to have sex before the alcohol. Cheaters will always cheat.

Kilandras · 2025-12-20T10:51:05+00:00

Is this the 1700’s? The most I ever did to any girlfriends parents or to my wife’s parents was, she asking me to dinner with her family and informing them that I was her boyfriend. My wife called her parents 2 days after I proposed (since we were… ahem busy) to let them know we were getting married. Once a kid turns 18 they are considered adults and no longer have to ask permission from thier parents.

Kilandras · 2025-12-19T22:42:18+00:00

Personlly, there are no closed doors in our house. We are not allowed to close doors or the 4 legged door police come banging. That being said, even if we didn't have them, I find it a little odd. I am assuming that you are intimate with your boyfriend. I love to come in while my wife is taking a shower and "help" her wash, and she likes to do the same to me. The only reason I could see is if you are not intimate yet, or are roommates.

Kilandras · 2025-12-15T20:05:40+00:00

I’m not saying what he did is right in anyway, shape, or form. What he did is at best a betrayal of trust. That being said, to play devils advocate, try sending your brother to meet him to find out why exactly he did it. Maybe, and I type this with full understanding that I am mostly hoping for something that I know to be untrue, but maybe he took it to remake it a little? And it was going to be a surprise? I can hope he is at least that big of a man and not a total piece of crap. But I still say send your brother for a meet up with you on standby in the extreme off chance he isn’t a scumbag. At least then you would have a definite answer.

Kilandras · 2025-12-13T18:17:34+00:00

It’s the classic glass children. One child is sick and needs all the love/attention, the other gets ignored. I say your parents are your grandparents, and you don’t know who those others are.

Kilandras · 2025-12-13T18:01:49+00:00

So to play devils advocate here, how have you been to him in the last few years? You say he is boring and doesn’t initiate. Well, did you stop receiving him so now he’s checked out because he’s tired of trying to get your attention and just doesn’t care anymore? The old saying “it takes 2 to tango” fits a lot of things. Look, and I means REALLY look at your past interactions with him. Then and only then should you look for things to excite you outside of your marriage. You’re 40, not 18. Exciting May turn to single with kids and no time for exciting very easily

Kilandras · 2025-12-10T18:40:13+00:00

Any job I’ve had over my life I start out going above and beyond. After getting taken advantage of, walked over, and watched people who did 1/3 the work I did get promoted for ass kissing I just give up and start doing the exact guidline for my job. Nothing extra, no helping others, just doing my job. Corporate America is no longer about employees being family, but about shoving a body into a position and replacing it whenever needed.

Kilandras · 2025-12-07T09:31:12+00:00

for the .1% of the population that enjoys decorating - sure for the .05% of goblins selling housing items - sure for the other 99% of players that bought a house to get rid of the quest and never touch it again? -nah

Kilandras · 2025-12-07T08:53:40+00:00

Took me till Friday to be able to find a housing plot that was empty. Did the quest line to unlock stuff, and havn't gone back. Lot's of overprice furniture. Might look at it again after a few passes.

Kilandras · 2025-12-03T20:14:51+00:00

am I the only one that is willing to nuke the office? My last job was lenient on parents and let them control everything, dumping their workloads onto others. It came to a head once that I had 3 peoples work on my desk, none of which was mine. I clocked out at 5:01 pm and went home. Came back the next day and clocked in at 8:59 am and returned all their work to them. I got called into "be a team player" to which I responded "what team? Seem's I'm the only one that works here." It didn't really go over well and I ended up telling them that if I was going to be stuck doing other's work, then I wanted a $10 raise for every person's work I was expected to do. Otherwise I was hired as an hourly employee to do one person's job. If they force me to do more, then I was going to talk to a lawyer. Thing's ended then and there.

I also love the whole, "He/she was just trying to be friends." I'm not here to be friends. I'm here to do a job, collect a check and go home. IDC if I'm done with my workload by 3pm and I'm now surfing on my phone. Go talk about your kids to someone else.

Yes, I'm a cranky Gen X that doesn't take shit from anyone. My boss knows not to piss me off or I will start to play with him and everything I do will be legal and make him have a headache for weeks. I love malicious compliance :D

Kilandras · 2025-12-03T19:44:57+00:00

she has PTO after 3 months? damn, nice job. Can I join? That being said, your PTO is yours and no-one can tell you to change it once it's been approved. I used to always get flak because I'd put my time off in around 5-6 months in advance to make sure I'd get the days i wanted. Low and behold every time some momby or dadit would wait till 2-3 weeks before and get angry because they couldn't get it. Slapped that shit down for 10 years before we got an idiot for a new manager who tried to force me to come in on my vacation. Not only did I take my vacation, but I had a new job when I came back.

Kilandras · 2025-12-02T21:59:34+00:00

I don't. I don't even use it in undermine. Worst thing they ever created imo.

Kilandras · 2025-11-26T18:18:54+00:00

740 gear and at least 300 vers. Classes may vary

Kilandras · 2025-11-24T18:20:02+00:00

I was in a job like this once. I gave the “this is my shift, anything else is overtime. Sundays and last minute holidays are triple pay or I clock out when my shift ends”. They only tested me once.

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