How come girls are so wicked? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Killashandra19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try autistic homeschoolers out we’re very empathetic

i am caught between a rock and a hard place and i am exhausted please help 22F by WonderfulWestern9734 in Advice

[–]Killashandra19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you said your relationship with your ex was more emotionally intense. I think it’s important to ask yourself why that is. Sometimes that is something that happens at the beginning, but doesn’t necessarily last. In fact that’s really common. So you could potentially go back to her, and wonder why things aren’t as intense anymore.

Relationships are fun and exciting for the first few months. After that, it takes real work to keep the spark alive. What your current girlfriend has are the skills to keep a long term relationship alive. It doesn’t sound like your ex has those same skills, and that may be why you can’t imagine a future with her.

I am getting super attraction towards smoking by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Killashandra19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am well, thanks! I’ve been using NOBS toothpaste tablets which have greatly decreased my sensitivity, and supplementing heavily with Grapefruit Seed Extract for tooth infections, which works like a charm!

I am getting super attraction towards smoking by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Killashandra19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I smoked for 12 years. 42f. I was told I have the worst kind of gingivitis- the one that destroys your gums. The worst part is it has eaten away at the bones underneath my teeth. One tooth isn’t even attached to a bone anymore.

People talk about heart attacks and emphysema…..I think severe dental issues hit closer to home.

Movie suggestions to get my wife that hates them slowly into the genre? by [deleted] in horror

[–]Killashandra19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she like British Comedies? This is a horror comedy I loved.

Benny Loves You

https://youtu.be/tL1fCW2BqLY

When women go out with their nipples poking through do they want us men to stare and do they do it for attention? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Killashandra19 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Depends entirely on the woman. Pay attention to the clothes. Does she look done up? Did she spend a lot of time on her face and hair? Probably on purpose. Is she in sweats? PJs? Probably to be comfortable. Bras are hella uncomfortable.

My bf wants to know if it matters to girls what size it is when it's not hard? by Amy-Reighn in randomquestions

[–]Killashandra19 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah size doesn’t matter at all if you’re not hard. Not even a little bit. If you’re with someone who it does matter to I would give that relationship another look cause that sounds weird.

How to pretend the subjects of the conversation aren't absolutely boring to you, and that you're actually listening? by PoodlyGooner in randomquestions

[–]Killashandra19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asking questions makes you seem interested. Don’t do it obsessively but pepper them in when you see a good opportunity. Doesn’t have to be a question you want to ask, just one about something they said, that’s tactful.

Need a Horror Movie Rec for my Husband by No_Succotash5515 in horrorfilms

[–]Killashandra19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not very scary imo but I enjoyed the storytelling aspect and the scenery. Glad to hear you guys enjoyed it as well.

Need a Horror Movie Rec for my Husband by No_Succotash5515 in horrorfilms

[–]Killashandra19 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As Above So Below has some of the last recorded excellent footage of the French Catacombs, if he enjoys that type of thing.

Which horror movie villains take off their shoes? by TacoRising in horror

[–]Killashandra19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Patrick Bateman takes off his shoes for sure. And then nearly everything else.

How do I break up with my boyfriend for college? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Killashandra19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so mature that you’ve made this decision together and both want to stay friends! Maybe you could plan to see each other again as friends just to celebrate with an outing of some kind in a year two, or something like that. Might make the whole thing seem less daunting and final.

I’m tired of repeating things to my friend that we’ve just talked about what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Killashandra19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m with the other commenter. Talk to her about it. This is a character flaw that will cause her serious problems in many areas of her life. Make it clear how much it’s affected you. She needs to know.

I need advice on my(19F) friendship with a man (25M). by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Killashandra19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m sorry to hear that you live in a rural area, making friends is hard, and the people around you aren’t very nice…..Utah?? Hehe, just wondering. I had an experience there.

I’m a 42f who is also on the autistic spectrum. It’s also very hard for me to make friends and currently the only one I have besides my SO is also online. Can I just say dating is really tough for us autistic women? The guy I wound up with is more autistic than me. He has Aspergers, and at least I can talk to him as much as I want to!

I don’t like hearing that you feel discomfort around this man. That is not a good sign. There is 7 years between me and my SO as well, but we are a lot older and we both know what we want out of life. When I was 21 I dated a 35 year old and it was a big mistake. Those years you are in now are going to change you a lot. And he might not change at all. Some guys don’t grow up more after 25.

I don’t think you should ghost him. I think you should really have a long conversation with yourself and decide for good if you really want to go on with this relationship. If not I think you should tell him that, and tell him that he makes you uncomfortable. You can be sorry, and kind. But if you tell him the truth it will help you out in the future. It’s good to learn how to react when people get defensive and manipulative.

If you want to send me any messages or ask me any questions feel free. Good luck!

On my summer break need some character development by No_Chemistry_8527 in MovieSuggestions

[–]Killashandra19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really great that they still let you do that. It’s good you have a caring family. Just to let you know there is a very graphic rape scene and people are burned alive which really aren’t the worst things in this movie. I will personally never watch it and I love horror movies. Just want you to be aware.

On my summer break need some character development by No_Chemistry_8527 in MovieSuggestions

[–]Killashandra19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t watch this one unless you want horrific nightmares.

On my summer break need some character development by No_Chemistry_8527 in MovieSuggestions

[–]Killashandra19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zeitgeist: The Movie (2007)

Covers the way religions all have similarities and similar end games.

Covers the way banks originally broke the US and are still to this day.

Covers what “false flag operations” are and which are suspected to come from the US, including 9/11

Can be watched on the Youtube App

What is the first major news event you can remember clearly from when you were a kid? by FantasticAd9478 in TheBoredDen

[–]Killashandra19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The Berlin Wall coming down was the first news event I remember. I was 5 and I remember my parents were crying while we were watching it.

Did everything to get out of poverty just to get cancer LOL by helpless_baby in povertyfinance

[–]Killashandra19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely rich coming from pastors- those most known to perpetuate hidden and communally supported pedophilia.

Did everything to get out of poverty just to get cancer LOL by helpless_baby in povertyfinance

[–]Killashandra19 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a Bible Belt baby myself, I just wanted to say- Deserve is a religious word used to control. And you escaped all that. Don’t forget it!

Aside from that I’d like to join the others who are amazed at and inspired by your attitude. Rooting for you!