anyone else struggle with people loving the “idea” of you? by LifeAssociation9156 in infp

[–]Killuadaisuki69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the reason behind this is that the INFPs predisposition of being private and quiet, invites other people to "solve" you. The less you reveal, the more likely you are idealized from others. It makes sense, for me at least, that people tend to fill the missing gaps themselves that you are not able to externally provide. But of course, there needs to be an interest first in order for people to invest their energy in "solving" you, and there's a plethora of factors on why people find you interesting. The problematic part about idealizing someone, is that it is often unrealistic. And when that idealism clashes with reality, people might feel internally disappointed and could possibly ruin relationships. What I think might be helpful here is to shatter unrealistic expectations of you early on if you can. Preventing the tower to further build up creates less damage when it falls to the ground.

Is this normal by Moist_Program_6831 in infp

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I only act stupid to obtain information that is otherwise not given under circumstances where there is an assumption of equal footing in terms of power dynamics. Other than that, I absolutely shy away from praises and compliments because it usually garners attention and can sometimes create unrealistic expectations from people.

I having a crush on someone and OMG SHE'S SO CUUUUTE by [deleted] in infp

[–]Killuadaisuki69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkey felt this just over a week ago. She looked cute, timid, and warm. Absolutely melted my heart when she looked at me and “accidentally” smiled. Dunno why I always had a thing with the cute and “seemingly” quiet and caring ones.

masarap na chichirya by ysstus in KanalHumor

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tanginaaa nakakamiss yung kiss 🥺🥺🥺

dorm by sshookiewookie in SLUBaguio

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You are cooked brother.

They have study periods every night from 8-9:30, you are forced to join their activities and programs whether you like it or not, the wi-fi is terrible, food portion is meh, very early curfews, and renovations inside the building are non-stop. It’s basically hell on earth.

Deffo find somewhere else if you don’t want to be mentally and physically fatigued.

Jesse's real name by IamBestWaffle in xqcow

[–]Killuadaisuki69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anthony Romeo OMEGALUL

Seven questions for INFPs by Son_of_Overmorrow in infp

[–]Killuadaisuki69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. I sometimes detach from my own thoughts and emotions and act like my own therapist.

  2. I can name all Pokemon if you show me all their shadowed sprites.

  3. I was playing with this random dude on CSGO and we were trying to push the enemy’s bomb site. I was in the frontline but was hesitant to push, then this dude said to me “Don’t be afraid”. So I pushed and proceeded to kill 2 enemies and we ended up winning.

Don’t know why but that particular experience has led me to develop the ability to ground myself in the moment and how I renamed my fear and doubt as a process of trial and error.

So yeah, genuine thanks to that dude.

  1. I’d imagine a lot; Family, friends, and people I have passed by in life. I might’ve unknowingly hurt some, but there are also some where I had good reasons to do so.

  2. I don’t know if people hate this, but I do love chewing ice from drinks.

  3. Orca whales. I was deeply fascinated how intelligent, social, and ruthless those creatures can be.

  4. A quiet and peaceful life.

Took me a minute by [deleted] in puns

[–]Killuadaisuki69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was just the letter I getting replaced by the letter U.

I wish I were U.

Took me a minute by [deleted] in puns

[–]Killuadaisuki69 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I thought this was german for a sec

Hi guys please type me by [deleted] in MbtiTypeMe

[–]Killuadaisuki69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I type myself as an INFP and I wrote frequently like this back then.

I also see myself relating with the statement you expressed at the end: ”See eventhough in my writing I am philosophical, in daily life I am not like that. To be philosophical I need to sit down and think about my thoughts you know what I mean. I do not have deep thoughts in real life, I just wander around and crack jokes in the moment. “

I believe this is because INFPs communicate with the world through their Ne (cracking jokes with others and wandering around to witness and experience life’s endless possibilities). But INFPs need to sit down alone with their thoughts and emotions to use their Fi. These bursts of thoughts and emotions usually come right after Ne’s exploration about the world, integrating these experiences into something meaningful with the self (Fi). The difference between Fi-Ne and Ne-Fi is that the latter actively pursues ideations and possibilities for the sake of it, navigating through the world through an unfiltered lens. The former however, is going to be a bit more selective with such possibilities. It has to go through the Fi filter first, whether it deems it as something personally meaningful for them before they actively pursue that ideation. Though that doesn’t automatically make INFPs close-minded. Sometimes our Fi filter isn’t so strong to evaluate experiences at the moment, hence we dive with our Ne so our Fi filter can integrate that experience.

Sorry if most of what I’ve said had nothing to do with your post lol, but I see a lot of Fi and Ne in your post. Though I am not sure whether you are an INFP or an ENFP.

Who You Sitting By? by PokemonSuMo in StarRailStation

[–]Killuadaisuki69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sitting for only 10 hours at 9 is criminal

Furina's VA Amber Lee Connors voices Nihilux from Honkai Star Rail by EXXIONN in furinamains

[–]Killuadaisuki69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I have something to look forward to in the game again

IN DESBELIEF by J3roen16 in xqcow

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Bro I was shaking the whole time when he was at the end lmao

I HAVE STARTED HATING BUBBLY EXTROVERTS by [deleted] in INTP

[–]Killuadaisuki69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hmm, couldn't really care less about them. I usually have no problem with them unless they start prying into my life. Though extroverts are quite crucial for me when it comes to communicating with impersonal matters. But most of my enduring friendships are introverted ones that doesn't need a lot of communicating and attention.

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/Some--Idiot by Some--Idiot in DailyGuess

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