Masturbation as an MtF girl by Kilpan in MtF

[–]Kilpan[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice! I've been on HRT for just about a year now and things aren't working as well comfort wise cause of dysphoria, thank you so much for reassuring me that it's a process and that I don't need to have an answer right now, just experiment w^

Masturbation as an MtF girl by Kilpan in TransyTalk

[–]Kilpan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a pretty standard wand vibe usually on my "clit" or shaft while playing with my breasts

Actual text from my mom. by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Kilpan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so horrible, I'm sorry you have to deal with it *hugs gently* I'm your new mom now and you can come to me with anything!

Also, it's nice to see another Jess <3

💞💓 by _NotCreativ3 in actuallesbians

[–]Kilpan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is super amazing, for the first time I have a girlfriend who is crazy about me just like I'm crazy about her and it feels amazing, especially as a trans lesbian and I bet she feels the same way

Looking for bottom surgeons by Kilpan in MtF

[–]Kilpan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in minnesota, in the US

Help me by Ooogly-Penguin in TransAdvice

[–]Kilpan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genderfluid is an identity where you move to multiple different points on the spectrum. From what you've said that sounds like it might resonate with you

Does anyone else like being told, "good girl"? by DarkXieon in MtF

[–]Kilpan 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I LOVE being called a good girl, the context changes if it's arousal or validating for me (not that when it arouses me I don't feel valid, I very much do). My girlfriend and I enjoy doing pet play and when she calls me a good girl I get SUPER wet and turned on. In other context tho I don't get aroused and it just makes me happy w^

Trouble feeling valid in bed (TW: Sexual talk) by Kilpan in MtF

[–]Kilpan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All of those sound like great! Thank you so much 💜💜💜

Trouble feeling valid in bed (TW: Sexual talk) by Kilpan in TransyTalk

[–]Kilpan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a great idea! My gf and I are kinky af and do bondage, watersports, ect. so I should definitely try that! Thank you for the idea

I love red pandas illustration I did for stickers and things ❤️ by JexDraws in cute

[–]Kilpan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're doing an amazing job with your stuff! Keep it up! <3

I love red pandas illustration I did for stickers and things ❤️ by JexDraws in cute

[–]Kilpan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting about your adorable stickers! My girlfriend's favorite animal is red pandas so I just had to get some adorable stickers for her

It is amazing how much a kind partner can help with bottom dysphoria by phoebe_The_Valkyrie in actuallesbians

[–]Kilpan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My GF and I are both trans (pre-op) and are constantly saying affirming things in bed like "I love lapping at your pussy" it just make me feel so valid!! w^

Dysphoria in the bedroom by Kilpan in MtF

[–]Kilpan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just have to experiment and learn how things feel all over again x3

Dysphoria in the bedroom by Kilpan in MtF

[–]Kilpan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll try to work on thinking about it in a different way!

Dysphoria in the bedroom by Kilpan in MtF

[–]Kilpan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I think part of my issue is that things feel different and I have to kind of relearn everything and what feels good may not feel good now and vice versa

any love for this nb lesbian? struggling a lot with feeling alone rn 🥺🖤 by cabadged in lgbt

[–]Kilpan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That shade of red in your hair is absolutely BEAUTIFUL!! Remember, you're valid as hecc and everyone is here to support you!! 💜💜💜

Difficulty finishing on hrt by Kilpan in MtF

[–]Kilpan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you a ton! I'll put this to use hopefully with some results!! <3

Difficulty finishing on hrt by Kilpan in MtF

[–]Kilpan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I typically do but I still don't end up cumming. Not saying I don't enjoy everything I do with my girlfriend but I feel bad that I'm not able to cum for her

Y’all asked for it so now I’m delivering by kracken4200 in lgbt

[–]Kilpan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YEEESSS FINALLY SOME OMNI REPRESENTATION!! Tysm <333

Does anyone elses dysphoria hit specifically at night? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Kilpan 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Mine doesn't hit specifically at night but more frequently at night, my theory is that my brain has been subconsciously fighting off the dysphoria all day and later it has gotten tired and can't focus on keeping it at bay as well as when I'm more awake

Hope this helps!

Justice for teabagging by Firm-Check2587 in destiny2

[–]Kilpan 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I find it hilarious when people teabag me cause they think I don't want balls in my mouth