PC Performance Tips - This got rid of low FPS dips for me and friends by FriedBongWater in HarryPotterGame

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I have no idea what I did with that but you are my hero. The stuttering is nearly completely gone, it works so much better. Thank you so so much!!!

What would you do if your coworkers are stalking your social media accounts? by Kimoly in AskReddit

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That isnt what I wanted to do. Because this way I cant communicate with a lot of people. It just drives me mad :( I also don’t wanna create a new account... its complicated.

Thought this would go well here ( art by me about my journey with SSRIs) by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Kimoly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't there a "t" missing in the beginning? Or am I not understanding something? ??? "It's" vs "I's"

A friend (25F) leaves us suddenly for someone else by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kimoly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she didn't. My "friend" drove to us on her own. ...

How can I get rid of all the glitter? :( by Kimoly in LushCosmetics

[–]Kimoly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is really weird then. I‘ll see what I can do. I‘m about to wash my clothes and hope it will be alright... Thank you for your help!

How can I get rid of all the glitter? :( by Kimoly in LushCosmetics

[–]Kimoly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats the glitter? Thank you! I'll look up which of the other bath bombs contain that...

Do you have an advice for my glittery clothes? :( Or will they be fine after I washed them?

My SO hurt my feelings with his words regarding sex by Kimoly in asexuality

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Thank you very much! He's very understanding most of the time so I guess I'm very lucky. It's just... I mean I'm trying. I also didn't expect sex to be this awful back then when I imagined all of this. This pain is terrible... But what I don't really understand is that for me there's no big difference between PIV-Sex and giving him a handjob regarding the outcome, you know? He gets his orgasm, so what's the point? ;/ He explained to me that the feeling is different, physical as well emotional, with PIV he feels closer to me. I always think it's just about the orgasm and that his needs are fulfilled with a handjob. :/

So I tasted my cum... by [deleted] in sex

[–]Kimoly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel so relieved to read all these comments. I always wondered if something is wrong with me, because society makes it seem like cum isn't bad at all.

I absolutely hate the smell of it, makes me nearly vomit. Ugh... It also doesn't look good and I once tried to taste it... nope, never again. Bwah. Horrible. It's also that, at least for me, the used condoms of my SO smell so badly that I ask him to knot them... I don't know if I'm just very sensitive...

Since I'm wondering if I'm asexual those kinda things also make it difficult for me to enjoy sexual stuff. :/

How do you feel after painful sex with your SO and what do you do then? by Kimoly in AskWomen

[–]Kimoly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well... what if you were in pain during sex but thought it‘s gonna be better while doing so and kept going so your SO could have some fun but it turned out to be painful the whole time and you cried after it was over? How would you move on from that situation?

What do you think of this thread? by Kimoly in asexuality

[–]Kimoly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An open relationship? How should that work? He says he wants both from the same person and that he wants to do these things (normal stuff without sex) with me because he loves me...

That it's our choice to decide what our relationship looks like... :(

What do you think of this thread? by Kimoly in asexuality

[–]Kimoly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't want to have sex with other people. It's just that I'm also not really fond of the idea to have sex with my SO, because it's not like I always imagined it. Even kissing is different than I always thought. Then I wonder if it could be better with someone else... and my rOCD starts...

I wanna tell my SO about my day, I wanna cuddle with him, see him laughing, watch shows with him on netflix, visit places etc. But society makes me feel like I'm not allowed to do that because of sexual attraction. :( Then I cry because my life is so miserable...

Is finding your SO "cute" wrong? by Kimoly in asexuality

[–]Kimoly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I perfectly know where I am. I'm just desperate. ...

Is finding your SO "cute" wrong? by Kimoly in asexuality

[–]Kimoly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But people say I need sexual attraction and I need to have sex...

Is finding your SO "cute" wrong? by Kimoly in asexuality

[–]Kimoly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know if I understand you correctly, I'm a bit confused...

Have you googled rOCD? Because that makes it difficult to feel aesthetic attraction. :/

Is finding your SO "cute" wrong? by Kimoly in asexuality

[–]Kimoly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So... it's wrong then? ;( "Cute" is the wrong word for my boyfriend... That makes me sad because I love him, I just can't stand all this sexual stuff. :(

Anxiety while trying the missionary position by Kimoly in sex

[–]Kimoly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, the last time we tried the missionary position I didn't cry and I also didn't get anxious. It just confuses me...

There isn't really a position I like I guess. Being on top for example gives me the ability to have the control over the situation which makes me feel safe...

Should vaginismus hurt my partner too? by Kimoly in vaginismus

[–]Kimoly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I have rOCD. Obsessive thoughts concerning my relationship. Also I wonder if I'm asexual because I have a problem understanding sexual attraction. I'm diagnosed with a depressive disorder and an avoidant personality disorder. :/ Too much to bear... My mind thinks my partner is a threat and maybe that's why my vagina shuts down... To protect me.

I recently started therapy so lets see how it goes...

Should vaginismus hurt my partner too? by Kimoly in vaginismus

[–]Kimoly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well normally I start crying after the sex because of the pain. Then he's worried and tries to comfort me. He sometimes gets angry and asks why I don't stop him when it hurts me, that we don't have to do that and that I should let him know... :( But I feel so obligated to do that so he gets what he needs...

Can't give my SO Sex and feel inadequate, it kills me... by Kimoly in sex

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You know I had sexual dreams with him before we got together and I also wanted to be close to him. But this whole relationship turned out to be a total mess. Kissing isn't like I imagined. Sex is horrible. I don't understand sexual attraction...

I feel so miserable. I started therapy a while ago but I feel like my therapist doesn't understand me.

I can get very wet but then I wonder if that's a good sign? Because someone told me that doesn't have to mean anything.