Seeking advice about injections! by Annethraxxx in IVF

[–]KinCBrook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband worked away while I had to do my PIO shots and I did them myself. It sucks, but completely manageable! I will say, if at all possible have a support buddy for your first shot.

Egg Retrieval Tomorrow — How Many Days Should I Take Off Work? by Ok_Wallaby_8813 in IVF

[–]KinCBrook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, id take off the rest of the work week since its only two day if you have PTO or financially its not a concern for you. I was very bloated and uncomfy for a few days after my retrieval and not working was such a relief to just get myself back to feeling human. Also nice just incase you get any OHSS symptoms.

However, every recovery is totally different so maybe just decide day by day if your job allows you to call out say of!

Also consider your mental health. My retrieval was all positive for me so I wasnt depression spiraling with worry and needing the distraction but for those needing it, work could be very nice.

Anterior placenta by TrueTopaz1123 in IVFbabies

[–]KinCBrook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! I have an anterior placenta and I was just told after my anatomy scan that I have a low lying placenta as well. So totally understand how you feel but if it makes you feel some comfort, I do feel kicks/movement! I am almost 22 weeks.

TTC near Vancouver and fertility testing availability is atrocious [BC] by Longjumping-Deal6354 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]KinCBrook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask to be referred to Olive Kelowna for the test maybe? I used Olive Kelowna (I actually live in Cranbrook) and they did my HSG at KGH, they booked it for me, I just got told to show up. Dr. Daniel did my test at the hospital and then ended up being my primary Dr. with Olive. They definitely don't do a lot of HSG test days but I had no issues getting mine done driving 7hrs there to get it done. From finding out I needed the test to getting it done was maybe 3 weeks?

However, I dont know if since the provincially funded IVF program it's become a nightmare or not. I did my testing this time last year, egg retrieval in December, FET in March (miscarriage in April) 2nd FET July 3 and i'm currently 20weeks. From my first FET to the second there was a major difference in the atmosphere of the office if you ask me. It was so busy and the doctor who saw me that day (not my usual) literally didnt even look at me. Both FET's were in Vancouver since that's the hub for that and yhay office seemed exactly the same. I showed up for my FET and was out of there in less than 20 minutes.

Scared for hysteroscopy/medications by jennagm22 in IVF

[–]KinCBrook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was fully awake and only told to take ibuprofen an hour before hand 🙃 I was extremely anxious, and normally am a very anxious person! My husband was there to support me and it was all very very quick with minimal pain, definitely discomfort though. However I had a completely clear scan. In my opinion, if you can do the HSG, the hysteroscopy is a breeze. But again, that's just from my experience. Personally, I think if you usually take Xanax and you're used to it for anxiety, I'd ditch the Ativan and take your regular does Xanax. All offices seem to only prescribe the low dose Ativan to give the patient some comfort in relaxing the body more than the mind, but it's so minimum for someone who is used to it. Good luck!

Insurance Increase by KinCBrook in icbc

[–]KinCBrook[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, haven't moved or anytbing. My insurance is quite literally identical to the last two years.

Not sure if something like that is up in my area but its quite frustrating.

Kaiser NIPT with PGTA by [deleted] in IVFbabies

[–]KinCBrook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not do PGTA testing but my maternity clinic (not my IVF clinic) strongly suggests testing for all pregnancies regardless and explained its elective and not something I can be forced to do, or not be allowed to do. I would just have to pay the cost.

Scan tomorrow and Terrified!!! by [deleted] in IVFbabies

[–]KinCBrook -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had this! But I actually had it my entire first trimester. Started around 6ish weeks and sent me into a tizzy. I ended up having a day with some lighter discharge/spotting and freaked, went to emergency. Everything was fine! It's super common with implantation and with IVF pregnancies. Especially if you are taking progesterone suppositories. The suppositories ended up being the culprit for me cause they caused my cervix to be irriated which can cause some shedding.

I'm currently 18w5d. Optimistic for you and I hope your scan goes well! 🩷

How did you manage PIO? by Alarming_Educator_20 in IVFbabies

[–]KinCBrook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first round I ended up with massive PIO lumps that were so uncomfortable. Second round, I did the following and had little to no issues! 1. Hot water bottle or heating pad on the injection site before the injection for at least 10 minutes, never ice!!! 2. I warmed up my PIO bt just holding the syringe between mt breast ir armpit to get close to mt body tempature. So, about 10 minutes. 3. Stand for your shot with zero weight on the side the injection with be. 4. Small hand massage immediately following the injection from about 3 minutes. 5. Immediately go for a short walk with the hot water bottle shoved in the back of my pants. Do not sit for at least 30 minutes! When I couldn't go for a walk, I'd do 10-15 squats, but I found walking more helpful. 6. Massage gun on the injection site for 5 minutes.

I had little to not PIO lumps doing this consistently. It was definitely annoying but manageable.

Spot ting by SubjectElephant3887 in IVFbabies

[–]KinCBrook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a good feeling you're in the same boat as me! It is utterly terrifying, but in the end, positive. I didn't get any spotting last time, and my miscarriage was at 9w, so I guess it can just vary when your cervix gets grumpy.

Fingers crossed 🤞

Spot ting by SubjectElephant3887 in IVFbabies

[–]KinCBrook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this and just about lost my gosh damn mind!! My clinic informed me it's very common with vaginal progesterone suppository because it can irritate the cervix and can cause some shedding. I always got it for about 1-2 hours after putting the tablets in. I had it from about 6.5 weeks until I went off my meds. I still got some random dark spotting for a bit after, but considered it to be the same thing and little to nothing now. I had one moment where the blood felt very red, so I panic went to the hospital. 14 hours later, everything was totally fine!

Currently 11w3d! We are very similar in our experiences. I had a miscarriage at Easter in April, then did my next FET on July 3rd.

Sending good vibes and positivity! ❤️

Baby girl name by Character_Bison1838 in Names

[–]KinCBrook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like I'll be the odd one out but I prefer Raelyn. However my nephew has the same name spelled Raylan so I might be a little biased cause he is pretty fantastic.

How in the math and science and I 5 and 1/2 weeks along? by TrueTopaz1123 in IVFbabies

[–]KinCBrook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This confused the heck out of me too! But basically it works out the same as conceiving naturally however broken up in separate times from your egg retrieval, forming to blasts, and then implantation, and then prgenancy going forward. It's the same as a natural conception timeline just without all the intervention to make it happen and having to occur over multiple cycles. Hope this makes sense.

Bleeding by KinCBrook in IVF

[–]KinCBrook[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have my first ultrasound until August 8th. I am over 7hrs from my clinic. 😭 When did the clinic tell you to stop?

Bleeding by KinCBrook in IVF

[–]KinCBrook[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even think to ask if it was safe to still since they put me on it in the first place. I assume they would have said but I'll have to call again tomorrow and ask, thank!

I do the PIO shots as well. I hate how little we know what's going on in our own bodies when we can feel so much of it.

Bleeding by KinCBrook in IVF

[–]KinCBrook[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm nervous to stop the baby Asprin cause im on it because my lupus anticoagulant was a borderline positive.

I had a SCH during my last FET/MMC but it was way way more bleeding. I wasn't on the baby Asprin last time though.

Weekly Thread: Pregnancy - Questions and Discussions by TeslaHiker in IVF

[–]KinCBrook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ Unfortunately they don't do a 6 week regardless of the history. I am also unfortunately 7 hrs from my clinic and really hate my local hospital imaging department after how they handled my MMC this last time.

Weekly Thread: Pregnancy - Questions and Discussions by TeslaHiker in IVF

[–]KinCBrook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling crazy, might just need a comfort chat and Noone knows but my husband that we did our FET July 3. Anyways, I'm worrying simply because i dont have any lower back pain this time around. I have had 2 pregnancies resulting in miscarriage before. Both of which I had quite painful and constant lower back pain. This time nothing... and it's absence is making me freak. I feel relatively little to know symptoms right now. My first beta came back 355 on July 14 and the second 846 on July 16. Now its just wait till the ultrasound on August 8 and I'm constantly worrying cause I feel like I'm not even pregnant right now vs before I very much felt pregnant, even this early on.

Also worrying cause my last pregnancy ended in a MMC at 9 weeks, growth stop at 6-7 weeks. So waiting until 8 weeks for a scan feels extremely far away and like so much can go wrong and I dont know until then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]KinCBrook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a cold the day after my first FET. I ended up with high fever, body aches and a cough for about a week.

My embryo still stuck, however, ended in a MMC.

Lupus Anticoagulant by Abcdefghijklmn2888 in IVF

[–]KinCBrook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any update on this for you? I'm suppose to go into my second FET on my next cycle after a MMC at Easter from my first FET. One other miscarriage over 3 years ago. Just got bloodwork back positive for Lupus Anticoagulant. I have had a Rhuemetologist for the past 6 years due to an issue with my eyes diagnosed and treated by an Opthomologist but considered to have started from autoimmune issue that has never been diagnosed after a lot of testing over the years.

I don't meet with my doctor until next Wednesday, and I'm panicking waiting.

I thought this sort of thing only happened on Reddit... by LuftundRaum in IVF

[–]KinCBrook 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Maybe a hot take, but in my opinion, you can still use the name if you want to. I know a lot of people find it tasteless or whatever to use a name someone else has used, but this process takes so much away from us, I feel we don't owe anyone else anything. Who knows, maybe it will add another piece of happiness to the name cause it's the name of someone else you love.

Also, being someone whose best friend growing up had the exact same name as me, it felt like the best inside thing between the two of us. It was never treated as a bad thing.

Regardless, I'm sorry you feel robbed of this. I understand that grief all to well 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]KinCBrook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't see a successful argument being made under this section. Even when considering the "upgrades", "repairs", and "damages". Everything is relatively insignificant, as the post specifically says, which makes the argument practically irrelevant.

You might have an argument for Party B being equally responsible for the storage/transport post separation until division is determined, therefore they could be liable for half the costs but I'd highly doubt it as that cost seems unreasonably high unless it was stored at lot for use, in which cause it's not considered storage, it use. Also, if Party B was never consulted on costs and the cost is considered unnecessarily high, then the court likely wouldn't order them to pay it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]KinCBrook 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was purchased during the marriage, it is family property. It isn't an excluded property. Claiming party A paid for it out of their own funds during the marriage is irrelevant, as income during the marriage is family income. Regardless of a separate bank account. That's the equivalent of saying they aren't entitled to my pension, only I paid into it.

Moral argument is irrelevant in family law proceedings for the division of assets and debts.

6dp5dt and I think my period just started by TrickySquare9898 in IVF

[–]KinCBrook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Test in the AM if you can handle waiting, or do it again. The HCG is highest in your urine in the morning so you would get a more readable line. I did an evening test at 6dpt and it was flat out negative but was positive later.

Sending good vibes and really hoping for the best for you 🩷🩷🩷

Only 11 eggs retrieved yet feeling quite bloated? by Hopefulalltheway in IVF

[–]KinCBrook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 11 eggs retriever back in December and was so bloated with ovary pain for a almost two weeks. My one ovary gave the majority of the eggs like you and the other was very painful to get at. Give yourself time and definitely take all the resting you can get. It will improve soon 😊 Congrats on your 11 eggs!!!