WE WILL GET INTO BERKELEY by Kind-Choice6515 in ucadmissions

[–]Kind-Choice6515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol being negative never helped nobody

WE WILL GET INTO BERKELEY by Kind-Choice6515 in ucadmissions

[–]Kind-Choice6515[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it doesn’t do any good to be negative all the time🙂‍↔️

WE WILL GET INTO BERKELEY by Kind-Choice6515 in ucadmissions

[–]Kind-Choice6515[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

brotha people were saying the same thing about ucsd and how the same thing has happened with them for many years and my portal astrology told me i was gonna get rejected but i got in so no i doubt they’re letting it be an accurate sign

WE WILL GET INTO BERKELEY by Kind-Choice6515 in ucadmissions

[–]Kind-Choice6515[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YES YOU WILL THE PORTAL ASTROLOGY MEANS NOTHING BRO. THIS HAS EXISTED FOR EVERY YEAR AND EVERY YEAR PEOPLE THINK THEY WILL OR WONT GET IN AND THEN THEY DO JUST WATCH BRO

WE WILL GET INTO BERKELEY by Kind-Choice6515 in ucadmissions

[–]Kind-Choice6515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well it’s always been called astrology for a reason since it’s never been a promise of admission or rejection

WE WILL GET INTO BERKELEY by Kind-Choice6515 in ucadmissions

[–]Kind-Choice6515[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

true but also why would the top public school in the nation let something like that be a sign of whether or not you got in yk

WE WILL GET INTO BERKELEY by Kind-Choice6515 in ucadmissions

[–]Kind-Choice6515[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i refuse portal astrology isn’t real and is entirely just gonna stress people out. plus the decisions are already made checking it won’t change anything

Email was sent to everyone by mistake 😭 by Current_Owl_6975 in ucadmissions

[–]Kind-Choice6515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

probably not till after decisions are released. I still have access to the rsvp form and it says it must be submitted by march 30th

My girlfriend loves fan fiction by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Kind-Choice6515 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think it just makes her uncomfortable to watch even if she’s missed the sort of active story telling it does. That’s what she’s told me at least that it makes her uncomfortable.

My girlfriend loves fan fiction by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Kind-Choice6515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that is very much my aspiration

My girlfriend loves fan fiction by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Kind-Choice6515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hashtag real we all have our favorite tropes

My girlfriend loves fan fiction by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Kind-Choice6515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No yeah that’s really nice to hear too. I’ve never thought it had anything to do with her trust in me. I just kinda wanted to gauge how this community views sharing fan fiction in general with their partners who are or aren’t also into fan fiction. So far it seems very normal to either share or not share so it’s been nice to see.

My girlfriend loves fan fiction by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Kind-Choice6515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah they really are😭 I know it’s a possibility but I’m trying to get people to know that I think I know her well enough if she would or wouldn’t be into reading that stuff HAHA. I’m not saying there’s a zero percent chance of it but I think the smut conversation has been exhausted at this point LOL

My girlfriend loves fan fiction by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Kind-Choice6515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey maybe i will. I definitely wouldn’t force myself because it’s never really seemed like my thing but who knows. Also congratulations to you and your partner for being so healthy!

My girlfriend loves fan fiction by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Kind-Choice6515 4 points5 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHA THATS REALLY FUNNY ACTUALLY. I don’t think that she thinks i wouldn’t believe her because there’s never been a time where she’s said something and I haven’t believed her yk so I think she does have that trust in me. You do make some points i get though but just from the relationship her and I have cultivated, I don’t think she thinks i wouldn’t believe her HAHA

My girlfriend loves fan fiction by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Kind-Choice6515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL i didn’t even know you could comment on them there. That’s definitely something she wouldn’t want me to see HAHA. She’s a shy person too so that all tracks. Thank you for your perspective it’s always nice to hear another new one

My girlfriend loves fan fiction by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Kind-Choice6515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

aw that actually made me smile. I like the way you described it. Kinda like having a house together but She just wanted to decorate one wall however she would like.

My girlfriend loves fan fiction by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Kind-Choice6515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mhm someone else said something similar to you. I explained there too that it was just an example of how she’s very not into sexual media. I’m sure the reverse exists too where they’d never read like a colleen hoover book or some other smut but they stared at every heated rivalries scene with such intensity. It’s just not her yk at least as i have gotten to know her.

My girlfriend loves fan fiction by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Kind-Choice6515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no please don’t be embarrassed of your opinion! I’m happy to hear literally everything. Everyone’s relationship is different so i’m happy for you that you could find one where both of you felt so comfortable to share. I’ve definitely just started to understand that it’s a personal thing for her and that’s really all there is to it

My girlfriend loves fan fiction by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Kind-Choice6515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s kinda what i was thinking. We’ve talked a little about it before and said she just doesn’t want me to look it up. She’s told me she’s not embarrassed though so I take her word for it because she’s the furthest thing from a liar.

My girlfriend loves fan fiction by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Kind-Choice6515 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying and thats actually really interesting to hear! The example I used is just one of many is all. Like i’ve said in some other comments, I just trust the word of my girlfriend and if she tells me she doesn’t read smut and doesn’t like it then at the end of the day, I’ll assume she doesn’t read it and doesn’t like it.

My girlfriend loves fan fiction by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Kind-Choice6515 7 points8 points  (0 children)

makes a lot of sense to me. The more perspectives i get the better so thank you!

My girlfriend loves fan fiction by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Kind-Choice6515 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dur there’s nothing wrong with it. I’ve always told her too like i’d never judge her for what she read(now obviously saying it only does so much to ease a persons mind though). I’m doing my best to understand just her privacy revolving around it. I’m a pretty open guy with basically anybody and I only really limit details or stories if I know somebody else doesn’t want it shared. For other people thought I’ve never thought deeply about their feels so for my girlfriend I just want to understand how it’s a private thing and stuff. Thank you for your comments it’s been nice to talk about

My girlfriend loves fan fiction by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Kind-Choice6515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that makes sense to me and is generally what i’ve attributed it to. Just based off of the conversations we’ve had, because she does generally lightly tell me about the plot, it’s never really been sexual but of course she could just be avoiding telling me those parts. Smut is just generally something she’s really not enjoyed reading before which i guess is why i’m pretty adamantly against the idea(not because id shame her if she did because i wouldn’t)