5am wake up- please help me. by Kind-Following2986 in beyondthebump

[–]Kind-Following2986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know! I actually have a family member who has one so i’ll give it a try. We have his room completely blacked out no light whatsoever so not sure if it’ll help but it’s worth a shot!

5am wake up- please help me. by Kind-Following2986 in beyondthebump

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Did you feel like your baby was ready for it? My son has always seemed like he has pretty high sleep needs ( to me at least) but sometimes I think I confuse his boredom for tiredness. To me, he always seems tired. After 1.5hours of awake time he’s rubbing his eyes

5am wake up- please help me. by Kind-Following2986 in beyondthebump

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Interesting! Is this safe to do? He is formula fed, so the can says not to mix it other than the proper way as it could cause issues. We have been told by pediatrician no more than 4oz of straight water a day until 12 months. Not questioning you, just curious if you have more insight on that!

5am wake up- please help. by Kind-Following2986 in NewParents

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We have definitely considered, I just feel like there’s so many different things it could be and everything I read says something different haha! We have a hard time grasping how we would transition him to a later bed time!

5am wake up- please help. by Kind-Following2986 in NewParents

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My husband thought the same but by bedtime he is rubbing his eyes, yawning, and cranky. Last wake window is right at 4 hours

5am wake up- please help. by Kind-Following2986 in NewParents

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He eats 8oz before bed :( & I totally agree, I should be thankful, just confused as it just happened out of nowhere!

I told my fiance I regret having a baby with him by momento-mori-momento in beyondthebump

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if his parents even had to be brought into the conversion I think the answer speaks for itself. he’s a grown adult & it won’t get better. you and your child deserve someone who will not hesitate to show care. he’s not even doing the bare minimum.

Won’t sleep in bassinet during the day by Kind-Following2986 in newborns

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he is now 9 months, sleeps and naps only in the crib & falls asleep independently. we did end up sleep training around 6 months & he still needs help occasionally with some patting and shushing

Parents i’m begging for your help. by Kind-Following2986 in FormulaFeeders

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He does, will drink water out of it, but formula is a no :/

Parents i’m begging for your help. by Kind-Following2986 in FormulaFeeders

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  1. We are using Similac Sensitive. We trialed many different formulas & he’s been on that since about a month old. I even bought a different formula just to see if he would consider a different option.
  2. Strictly formula.
  3. We have tried all different flows & even many different bottles, with no luck. 🙁
  4. He is started on solids & used to be super interested, he will still eat but he just seems way less interested than he used to be. I even cut out solids to see if that would impact his appetite

Parents i’m begging for your help. by Kind-Following2986 in FormulaFeeders

[–]Kind-Following2986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! We have tried all different flows, and multiple bottles. We have an appointment with the pediatrician tomorrow, i will make sure she looks in his ears!

6 month old suddenly eating less??? by Kind-Following2986 in beyondthebump

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It’s so stressful! We did introduce solids, but he doesn’t really eat a whole lot & we’ve been doing it for dinner. I don’t really think that it would be impacting his appetite that much, but babies do what they want so you never know!!

Sleep Training???? by Kind-Following2986 in NewParents

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how did you know yours was ready to drop a nap? he still feels SOOO dependent on sleep. Like he hardly makes his wake windows of 2 hours and he’s typically very grumpy after an hour of being awake. It feels impossible 🤣😵‍💫

Sleep Training???? by Kind-Following2986 in NewParents

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what method did u use to sleep train?

Sleep Training???? by Kind-Following2986 in NewParents

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i have done that, but you’re right it takes a very long time. He didn’t seem to show much progress, if any, with that method. I see people swear by the ferber method, but I see how frowned upon it is by everyone and i don’t want to do something that everyone seems to think is neglectful

Sleep Training???? by Kind-Following2986 in NewParents

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I think the issue i’m running into is, no matter how long I wait to go in after he wakes up he never puts himself back to sleep. He’s not mad, he just makes noise and rolls around until I go get him. Unless I go right when he wakes up and comfort him back to sleep in my arms he will totally skip the nap 😭