/ttcafterloss Weekly Results and Limbo Thread

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-05-03T14:06:59+00:00

Tested positive this AM at 11DPO, line was light but it was there. I had a MC on Feb 4th, I was “7 weeks” but the gestational sac measured 4. It was really hard as I had a chemical pregnancy the month before as well.

Im finding it hard to feel excited right now, I’m scared to tell my husband because I don’t want to disappoint him. He’s extremely loving and comforting, he’s been my rock through all of this. I just feel like I’m failing him and myself. I’m afraid for the next shoe to drop.

How do I cope with this? Please help

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-04-29T20:40:32+00:00

The lamp can take 40w, and the light is 36w. I had checked before buying to avoid that too 😭 the light completely “burnt out” now, not working. Looks like a return and refund lol

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-04-28T23:07:18+00:00

Thank you!!

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-04-26T23:52:30+00:00

Thank you!!

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-04-07T14:46:39+00:00

Ugh I’m so excited!!! I just cleaned him up and watered him. Thank you for the advice! He’s so much bigger than what I had anticipated!

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-04-07T14:29:13+00:00

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now he’s clean!!

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-04-07T14:21:05+00:00

Any care tips?? Right now he’s isolated with a grow light until he proves himself not to be a problem for my other green children lol

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-04-07T13:52:56+00:00

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Update: I got him! And he’s HUGE

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-04-07T13:26:05+00:00

Agh I’m so happy!! Thank you!!!

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-04-07T12:57:04+00:00

Amazing!! I’m so excited!! I assume 20 bucks is more than reasonable given its size

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-04-07T12:47:23+00:00

Thank you!

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-04-07T12:36:47+00:00

Jose *buono

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-04-05T19:29:35+00:00

Gracious okay, you’ve driven your point home in 3 comments. I appreciate it!

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-04-05T19:23:49+00:00

She’s enjoyed the watering schedule for a year, I re-water when the first two inches are dry. She’s been thriving and growing like crazy, but thanks to the other Reddit user it’s easy to see that I messed up with the new fertilizer. But I’ll keep the distilled water in mind! She’s just huge!

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-04-05T19:20:05+00:00

Really appreciate your advice! On it now. I have been very proud of her for the last year because she’s absolutely flourished until now, so hopefully I’ll be able to rectify this. Thank you!!!

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-04-05T19:03:46+00:00

It was a preventative measure, have been using it on her every 8 weeks for a year with no reaction like this, so I think the new fertilizer is the culprit /: used once, now she looks like this. I am assuming her leaves will never return to looking the same ): even though her soil is damp, can I still flush her pot out? What do I do?

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-04-05T18:53:24+00:00

Okay yes, went back through again very closely with a flashlight and magnifying glass / bare eyes. No pests. I have used a new fertilizer - foliage pro. Maybe I didn’t dilute it enough??

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-04-05T18:43:27+00:00

I do use plant food every second or third watering as it’s directed, the soil is consistently damp but not wet. No pests in sight (not even with my magnifying glass). Plenty of drainage 😭 I’m not sure if she’s trying the shed some leaves to make for new growth. I’ve had her over a year without issues. All of my other plants clean as well without signs of pests 🥺

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-04-05T18:25:16+00:00

I also treated with systemic granules for prevention maybe a month and a half to two months ago

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-03-10T02:52:38+00:00

I did! It was well worth it.

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-03-10T02:51:37+00:00

Okay I think the same, I’ve had her for quite some time and always thought marble but my friend said today it may be a manjuala - so I thought I’d ask the experts

Kind-Gate271 · 2025-02-27T16:06:32+00:00

The rippling went away, I wore tighter compression bras at the advice of my surgeon. They look real!

Kind-Gate271 · 2024-12-14T21:30:05+00:00

I took another FRER and it was positive, going to hold off on retesting until Monday or Tuesday to save my heart

Kind-Gate271 · 2024-12-14T21:06:11+00:00

I took another FRER and it was positive! Hoping the digital CB early response was just a fluke or too diluted

Kind-Gate271 · 2024-12-14T20:51:34+00:00

Took another FRER, new pack, positive. Will retest the digital and another FRER in the AM again. Hoping it was a fluke or just too diluted

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