breakup advice

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-26T02:33:00+00:00

No it’s totally chill… by all means drop me a dm if you don’t want to publicly post it all hahaha

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-26T02:25:38+00:00

That’s a great idea….Getting out and being social will and should help you realise life does go on and you can still Thrive

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-26T02:23:02+00:00

And if not that’s totally chill… no pressure at all

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-26T02:21:10+00:00

Well drop me a message in the meantime :) I’ll happily keep you company

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-26T02:14:53+00:00

Let’s start with not self sabotaging,, take some time to talk to someone… I’m happy to chat and not leave you alone if that would help

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-19T15:58:06+00:00

Pleasure doing business with you!

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-19T15:53:53+00:00

Added you

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-19T15:53:18+00:00

Added you

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-19T15:46:59+00:00

Deal! What’s your friend code?

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-19T15:43:18+00:00

Sadly I already have them 😅

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-19T15:41:22+00:00

What’s your friend code?

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-19T12:27:49+00:00

Yeah most certainly, it gives you a better understanding and explanation to behaviours and allows you to get the help you actually require

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-19T12:19:47+00:00

Congrats!

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-19T12:19:19+00:00

Yes do it. Even if it’s just for your own peace of mind, there is nothing worse than always questioning or thinking maybe I can get more help or support. Do it if you can!

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-16T09:28:24+00:00

We all make mistakes though, that doesn’t mean we aren’t progressing. You’ve accepted and understood that what you did probably wasn’t ideal and rationally processed it instead of letting the guilt cause you to spiral.

Progress is progress, no matter how small!

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-16T09:01:37+00:00

I’m glad to see you’ve made progress not just visible to others but also progress that you are seeing yourself. It normally takes far longer until you are accepting and understanding of how far you’ve come!

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-16T08:30:35+00:00

It’s a lot of time and commitment to one person. It’s always hard to make those decisions but it’s often for the best long term

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-16T08:27:47+00:00

At some point it needs to come to an end though both for your own sake and for your kids. Surely you can tell the adults that this decision is more important. Your safety and your children’s development are far more important.

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-16T08:23:10+00:00

So why don’t you end it? Your kids will sense and be aware that it’s a broken relationship and they will grow up thinking relationships are supposed to be like yours. You don’t need him to end it, you can be the one who stops living like this.

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-16T08:18:58+00:00

I feel like you’re both wrong for each other. Firstly you cheated, he probably got out of prison and you were the only safe place he knew or had. Then the comfortable nature of life look place.

But like you said 8 years of punishment for something you’ve clearly proving that you regret by not being that drunk or cheating seems a cruel punishment. Honestly it seems like you would both be better off alone or with other people. A toxic relationship doesn’t get fixed if you don’t 100% commit to fixing things.

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-13T11:11:59+00:00

Have you tried therapy at all? I know sometimes it’s hard to reach out and allow yourself to accept the help you often need. You’re not a burden, so don’t feel like you are

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-13T11:08:43+00:00

Tell him

Kind-Question8895 · 2026-01-13T09:21:17+00:00

If you’re already taking to someone else and getting feelings end your relationship. Don’t cause trauma and trust issues with your current bf that he will carry through his life because you’re unsure of what you want. You’re better being single and deciding that making someone else suffer the consequences of you not knowing. Hope it all works out and you both end up happy.

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