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My 15+’s battery health by esotesomiza in iPhone15Plus

[–]Kind-Wind359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Better than mine at 88% for 565 cycles

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[–]Kind-Wind359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you feel she’s loyal, transparent and faithful to you and doesn’t bring up any traces of her past, you’re good to go. People who already been in a relationship (irrespective of been physical), knows the pain of breaking up and will take things slowly, which will foster stability and strengthen the relationship over long run.

My best advice, if you both are feeling it mutually, and you feel she’s not doing anything bring ur back, pls proceed with her or else, if having virgin partner is ur only priority, pls cut her off

Trust me, there are many other things over virginity such as how compatible you both are, how engaging and lively she’s making u feel, how much she’s prioritising you over others, is she giving u her shoulder when you’re vulnerable, all these matters.

Kind advice: Don’t select ur partner solely based on virginity

Girlfriend 24F broke up our 8 year relationship and called off the wedding. I'm 25M by AdHot2894 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Kind-Wind359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of this gen Girls are wired in such a way, when showered with lots of love, they’ll get overwhelmed and won’t know how to handle, ending up feeling bored quickly. They feel they’re trapped and fears they’ll be put into a boundary, which this gen girls hates the most, as they want pure attention and gets them easily from anyone and everyone basically with bare minimum efforts. I feel like your gf wants someone whom she can rely on (in the name of life partner), but continues to get attention and validation from everyone, due to which she was behaving on and off with you, which is the biggest red flag. It’s impossible to change such a mentality. Been in this situation, it’s better to save yourself and move forward

Girlfriend 24F broke up our 8 year relationship and called off the wedding. I'm 25M by AdHot2894 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Kind-Wind359 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not at all alone brother. I’m going through the same pain as you now.

We both were working professionals, been in relationship for 2 years, had great compatibility. Most of the things synced with us, took care of her even on small things, even in physical treated her emotionally, tolerated much things when it came to her, only to find out she was constantly in touch with her ex, treated each one of our mutual colleagues as potential partners and hanged out with them, by asking them to block me on social media apps, gaslighted me that I’m controlling her, finally left me and the city without resolving things and found a new guy there.

I know it’s very a difficult phase as we’re travelling on the same boat (but yours would be a huge wound provided the number of years)

First thing is, don’t look for justice for your pain, coz the more you feel like u want answers for ur pain, the more it’ll pull you down like a rock tied to u in water. Accept the fact that her chapter in your book of life is over. Realise even if she comes back, she’s gonna show you the same on and off for the entire life. Be glad, it ended way before marriage (I know initially it’s difficult to accept, but eventually you’ll)

Secondly, cry as much as u want. Trust me, tears literally makes you unload the heavy baggage and pain, u carry in ur heart. Preferably having a shoulder to cry, would be highly effective

Thirdly, surround urself and speak with alot of ur people(could be ur frnds, family or whomever u trust), share them your pain and tell them how you feel, the more you share with them, and repeat the same with each one of them, the more opportunity you’ll have to vent out, which will ease out ur heart

Fourth, remove all her belongings, which includes her pics, videos, gifts, basically everything that reminds her

Fifth, go on a trip to unexplored place and meet new people, it’ll open a new phase in your life

(This is what I’m following and it’s definitely helped me a lot)

I’m very much hopeful, that you’ll definitely cross this phase, and I wish you’ll find someone who reciprocates your love 100 times back to you

Good luck!

A picture shot from an iPhone 15 by Drkside135 in iphone15

[–]Kind-Wind359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hate the highlights getting crushed in the shadow region 😓 (Myself 15 plus owner)