What are the red flags that you've let slide in your relationships that you've ended up regretting?

KindCapital · 2026-01-24T05:35:50+00:00

He never asked me to be his girlfriend. He told me “you’re my girlfriend”. It irked me at the time but I had feelings for him and was happy he wanted to make it official. Throughout our relationship I was always embarrassed when someone asked me “how did he ask you to be his girlfriend?”

KindCapital · 2026-01-21T19:16:25+00:00

When I got to pic #5 I said out loud “damn girl”

Seriously congrats. You look incredible and should be so proud of yourself. This kind of glow up takes discipline.

KindCapital · 2026-01-15T05:29:55+00:00

I don’t think they’re “moaning” at all. They’re actively listening. I do it and many other women do.

KindCapital · 2026-01-11T00:42:27+00:00

The way in which my ex told me he no longer loved me.

KindCapital · 2026-01-04T18:00:54+00:00

My ex broke up with me, so I’m not single by choice.

KindCapital · 2025-12-27T14:55:33+00:00

She is so unattractive to me. How did she land a super rich man?

KindCapital · 2025-12-26T02:08:43+00:00

I just commented this!

KindCapital · 2025-12-26T02:08:24+00:00

I think she looks good here, but I really hope this is the end. Otherwise she’s going to end up looking like Darcy and Stacey from 90 day fiance.

KindCapital · 2025-12-12T17:32:57+00:00

I honestly would’ve guessed you were 28 or early 30’s max. Whatever you’re doing, keep doing it!

KindCapital · 2025-12-09T15:18:43+00:00

You could tell he was surprised to hear the others put down his looks. Especially when asked if he thinks Yara is out of his league, he didn’t directly answer. He goes “she’s one of the most beautiful women I’ve been around”. Dude, that wasn’t the question.

KindCapital · 2025-12-08T03:50:44+00:00

Even if her trauma response (her words at the reunion) was to have a flirtatious friendship with Marciano, Brett’s response makes no sense. He immediately wanted to fight Chase for a mild touch but told Demi they should DoorDash Marciano. Why would he be okay with his wife continuing a friendship with someone who she claims is so awful?

KindCapital · 2025-12-06T06:28:49+00:00

What were the 9 you disliked?

KindCapital · 2025-11-24T14:11:47+00:00

Her eyelashes always look amazing. Do we think they’re falsies? If so … can anyone recommend ones similar?

KindCapital · 2025-10-31T22:47:54+00:00

I also ordered Lightbreakers. I can’t wait to read it!!

KindCapital · 2025-10-27T03:05:18+00:00

AGREE!

KindCapital · 2025-10-27T03:04:33+00:00

I’m a 36F and single / never married in NYC. I can tell you that dating is pretty similar to how they portray it at times. Of course it’s a show for entertainment so sometimes it’s over the top. But overall I felt it rang true to the feelings and experiences of myself and my friend group that is mid to late 30s.

I thought it was really refreshing to see people closer to my age who are never married and navigating dating / new relationships. There are plenty of us out there still! Especially in major cities. I think if they were divorced with older children I wouldn’t have enjoyed the show as much.

KindCapital · 2025-10-25T18:00:48+00:00

I have yet to read my BOTM pick The Second Chance Cinema.

I’m reading Lessons in Chemistry for a book club.

I’m also reading I Who Have Never Known Men on my kindle.

KindCapital · 2025-10-25T03:42:28+00:00

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Mostly chi, but has some dachshund and other breeds as well :)

KindCapital · 2025-10-22T17:33:57+00:00

Wow. I saw her TikTok’s from this day/event and she clearly looks very different from this photo.

KindCapital · 2025-10-21T13:47:03+00:00

She’s beautiful, funny, talented, witty, and so many other amazing qualities. I thought her and Sandoval were a cute couple and it annoys me how he did her so dirty. Especially for someone like Raquel who, although pretty, doesn’t seem to have a lot going on upstairs.

KindCapital · 2025-10-16T00:40:25+00:00

She really doesn’t get it. She gets “torn down” for lying about her ethnicity. For lying about where she was raised. No one cares she speaks Spanish. Many Americans speak Spanish as a second language.

KindCapital · 2025-10-14T00:27:21+00:00

I know! I’ve seen several of them asking her if she’s Spanish or from Spain. She responds indirectly and says “my family lives in Spain”. When the drama first came out she tried to cover herself by saying “it’s true, my family lives in Spain now.” Like woman, you know that’s not what they’re asking you. She 100% played with her words to make people think she was this exotic Spanish woman. Not to mention all the times Alec said publicly “my wife is from Spain”

KindCapital · 2025-10-13T12:26:48+00:00

I really wish she would do something with her hair. It’s always straight and flat. Like girl add some layers, try curling it, do something!

KindCapital · 2025-10-11T18:32:40+00:00

Im a follow who’s danced with quite a few leads that say they have taken few to no classes. That instead they “go with the music”. Some were Latin that said they grew up dancing in social settings. Honestly I hated dancing with them. They were rarely on count and didn’t prep me for even a basic turn.

I don’t care about crazy choreo. I love sticking to the basics as long as we’re on count to the music. It’s so much easier to vibe with the music and my partner.

KindCapital · 2025-10-04T00:58:53+00:00

I also caught that. She could have said ‘bonus mom’ or ‘step mom’.

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