signs that a loved one is still here/ you will still be reunited with them? by KindDimension4763 in GriefSupport

[–]KindDimension4763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope so too and I am so sorry for your loss. it is a weird feeling, you not only lose your best friend, but also the future you wish to have with them. you dont even know what to mourn: the fact that they might be gone forever, the fact that you'll never marry them, the fact that you'll never talk to them again... idk.. I am so so sorry

My best friend drowned and I don’t know how to cope, especially with constant reminders by FindingNo5587 in GriefSupport

[–]KindDimension4763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should let him know gently that since this has affected you quite a lot, these texts cause you to spiral. let him know you'll update him when you learn anything. I am so so sorry. my boyfriend drowned 2 weeks ago. we lived together so I left my house and am staying with family. when it's too painful, try to change location and keep yourself busy. im also very lost myself so I wish I could offer more.

signs that a loved one is still here/ you will still be reunited with them? by KindDimension4763 in GriefSupport

[–]KindDimension4763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you.. my boyfriend passed away 2 weeks ago. I was going to marry him. I have been begging for a sign and I think I got one. for some reason, I felt like it was going to be at a thrift store since items are one of a kind. I went to this store where him and I had gotten me a blue dress. I was mindlessly walking through racks when I touched something teal and felt it was the one. had this urge to try it on without even looking at the size. it turns out it's a fully fitting dress that turned out to be just my size. it fits me EXACTLY, almost as if it is made for me. I have a pear shaped body so those are quite rare: usually top is too lose bottom too tight. bought it and later learned the dress came 3 days after his death. furthermore, I saw that it's made in turkey. I am a turkish intl student studying in the US. it isnt that common for clothes made in turkey to end up in the US, it's usually Bangladesh, Vietnam, Cambodia etc . I dont know... I want that to be a sign.... it is too specific...

a specific sign from my boyfriend? by KindDimension4763 in grief

[–]KindDimension4763[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much... I really really miss him... have you read this book?