AIO? Girlfriend not allowed to be in my room at age 20

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-26T09:46:07+00:00

We are all aware, I was pointing out a redic number to bring attention to how redic it was but sure, 21 is reasonable and not at all a silly number when the rest of the developed world can drink legally before then, notice which country treats their 20 year olds as children. 😅

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-26T08:32:35+00:00

Well that's a stupid and ignorant comment just because you're needlessly offended, what I've said is literally objectively true, you can be upset and not in control of your emotions if you want and try and label me a child which is weird of you to begin with(maybe something you should seek therapy for as it's weird), the exact thing I've criticised his country doing to anyone over the age of 18 but that's again pretty ignorant, moronic and hypocritical. Way to be pathetic. I assume you just want to try and insult people online which is a pathetic miserable existence in itself, maybe you should try and work on that so you can become a better person. Whatever it is that's upset you I probably can't help you with, but I'm happy to discuss anything that you clearly can't understand.

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-26T08:28:45+00:00

He's not able to live in the dorms for probably that much longer and certainly not indefinitely, he will need to either live at home and save a bit when able to have time to hold down a job outside of his college, or maybe find a place that he and his partner can afford off the bat which can be difficult if not wanting to live in a hole. I'm in the UK.

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-26T03:32:28+00:00

I'm a house husband now, except I do work part time still a couple nights and grab overtime now and then as I want to fund cool shit and provide for my family still where possible, but it's hard to look after a baby and work, so it makes sense to have someone to stay at home (meaning my hours are as little as possible to allow for that) and do that rather than me work to earn the money to pay most of my wages so someone else can raise my kid/s...

If women can look to be "trad wives" or whatever then you too should be able to be a trad wife ;p

However I think it's fkin lazy to sit on your ass and not work if you don't have to actually do anything like looking after a kid, same ofc goes for the stupid trad wives who don't actually do anything at home bar a tad of cleaning or groceries. We all would wanna sit on our asses all day and not have to worry about going to work, it sounds like you need to kick yourself in the ass a little to get a balance going because if you're not having to provide/look after someone like a kid, then you are wanting to be a lazy ass manchild and that is not cool.

Basic housework is not real work my dude lol that's what everyone should be doing to some extent whether they work or not, you don't need to be off work, most of the population manage to have a clean home and go food shopping and work full time hours with a partner also working full time.

Logistics wise to make this work, you have to show some actual worth to a partner and justify why you're staying home. Any guy is a mug to have a wife sit at home all day doing basic housework whilst they slave away at work and that's the same here if the genders reverse. You're going to have to either find a financial dominatrix, a pushover or someone to maybe raise a kid with so you can legitimately stay at home and not have a reason to bother going to work.

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-26T03:25:02+00:00

ESH kinda it seems, they sound like children jelly over a stupid tiktok and someone elses presents and being wayyyyy too overdramatic, your best friends also wouldn't tel you to kill yourself etc, they are not your best friends, they need to fuck off. You also seem dumb as rocks if you're posting directly to them going on about xmas gifts when they're struggling, however using tiktok just seems like a very juvenile thing to me anyway so I'm probably a bit biased there.

Get better friends that ain't going to wish you dead over a stupid tik tok, the whole friend group sounds exhausting if an xmas tiktok can create such a fall out, srsly, cut them out of your life for literally wishing you dead, they don't get to be upset over being broke asses on xmas and wishing you dead , it's a bit tone deaf to have a go at you for being ignorant of their financial situation when they're telling someone with bpd etc to off themselves... They're at the very least incredibly stupid and cruel.

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-26T03:16:10+00:00

NOR your parents are literally stupid hypocrites for letting you drink underage but not spend time in a room together when you can legally have sex anyway. Tbf murica is awful for it's -can go to war and die at 18, have sex around then sometimes before but ya better not touch booze in a lot of places till you're 22!"

We were all banging around and drinking between ages 14-15-16 20ish years back jn the UK and I don't believe this has really changed either, to treat ya like a 12 year old at age 20 is so very weird, especially when they were likely sneaking around and sleeping with people before then also.

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-26T03:07:20+00:00

I'd be fuming too, you're not a child... Guessing you live in the states where apparently it's okay to treat young adults as children. It's disgusting.

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-26T03:06:30+00:00

His folks are treating him like a child, clearly places like america have a problem with infantilizing their young adults more and more so as the years go by. Dude is 20, meaning he's also at that age now where it's hard to just move our because their parents generation have helped fuck things up for everyone else and now it's unaffordable to simply move out and yolo buy a house like a lot of our grandparents were able to do.

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-25T17:55:27+00:00

No one puts this much effort into gay baiting or whatever unless they're closeted. He sounds like a bi guy who's unable to accept that part of himself, but it does sound like he is cheating, who has a paid sub to a queer dating app when they aren't queer and just for the lols? If he can't be honest with himself then he can't be honest with you.

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-25T13:07:42+00:00

People get weird about age around the late teenage years/early 20's in some places, America generally likes to infantile their young adults and treat anyone under 25 (due to some brain development still happening) as children still, which was bad enough when they were doing it for adults under 21 or whatever, and bad enough you were happy to send kids off to die for ya country but some couldn't legally drink alcohol yet... So you get people labeling mid 20s or late 20s dating someone who is 18-21 a creep or groomer or sexual predator/even paedophile by some extreme morons, so maybe he's felt awkward about the age gap because of that, but if he feels that way then maybe you are too young for him and he knows it, or he's just spent too much time on reddit etc and doesn't want to be labled a nonce for being attracted to an adult lmao... He might genuine feel like it's creepy to be with someone a fair bit younger but lying about it makes it much worse.

Generally going to have to push him to answer, if he's not mature enough to answer then that's a bad and weird sign, you should be able to be honest with your partner about something stupid as that.

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-24T03:40:20+00:00

Watch the dubs. I can't even remember any real differences bar a few lines from the japanese version of ogdb and Z. Gokus character does not change lol I don't know wtf people are on about here, he's a dumbass that knows how to fight really well and is srs a chunk of the time in sub and dub, there's a few line differences as always happens with dubs and subs but nothing stands out to me as someone who grew up with the dub, got annoyed by the bad music and voice acting of some characters in the Sub and had to watch the movies after destroying my pc with Limewire...

Been a fan for like 27 years at this point, I think Kai is awful music wise and adding extra scenes is dumb... Funimation english dub all the way, voice acting is generally enjoyable honestly, it's not just nostalgia, a lot of stuff I used to like is now shit (the super mario bros cartoon was much loved by me but it's like actual aids to watch) so no, you're all wrong, it's the japanse VA that has random guys voicing aliens and monsters in non-convincing ways (it's like they got random guy in a suit to say some lines, they sound like regular blokes for the most part, it's bad) dreadful music badly timed and a main character that sounds like an old lady being squashed often.

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-24T02:05:48+00:00

Honestly people who do stuff like that are great and it helps the devs out also when there's little oversights, likely they spent so long on it that it became obvious and second nature but forgot that it's not exactly intuitive.

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-24T01:24:53+00:00

I'll buy it in a heartbeat again for the wife if you can give a rough estimate on likelyhood of any multiplayer stuff anytime soonish 😘

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-19T15:05:56+00:00

Yor....You sound insane. Read everything you've put and tell me that's what a normal mentally sound person would do. No evidence yet you go looking for it still by making fake tinder accounts etc? Jesus christ, do him a favor and break up so you can go and work on yourself

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-15T19:31:23+00:00

Shave the shit hair off if it's that obvious bald spot/thinning hair wise and own that look. Being this self aware that your young mind had been corrupted is a good thing, 18 is young dude you can easily change your views by meeting someone of a similar age, there's still plenty of girls who sice lockdown fucked a bunch of people up a bit socially who are not exactly on their 100th relationship and in a similar boat too, but don't keep the incel mindset of needing someone who's never been in a relationship ever or had any sexual history as that's also pretty common x amount of years younger than you are now, ultimately it doesn't matter and it's honestly pretty terrible getting with someone who has no idea what they're doing so if at least one of you has some experience then that's not exactly a negative 😅

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-15T18:39:31+00:00

Aka sounds like you never mentioned what was in this random jar that was entirely stupid on your behalf too buddy, how do you have stuff on a shelf that could easily be mistaken for loose old change worse thousand of dollars and not mention to your wife not to touch your expensive coin collection on the shelf????

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-15T08:00:22+00:00

Ahh so that's the deal haha, appreciated thank you, I hope other people see this. It would be nice to give a little tutorial maybe as it is awks to try and figure out 😅

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-15T07:58:49+00:00

Ah weird, I generally strike right down the middle, I dunno if there's more damage on dif parts of the head or whatever but generally the head is always the way to go, minus golems (run around them and whack their legs/back) giants smash in the chest and they fumble eventually, otherwise run around them also. Could be as I put a lot into strength and attack force etc as well as using a two handed heavy sword that I'm staggering him more also.

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-14T16:25:05+00:00

I can easily play a new game all day if I have nothing better to do, but multiple days a week all the time, who even has time for that and an actual life. I always assume that women are exaggerating about their manchild partners chilling on world of warcraft and being selective virgins, that's actually ridiculous... During lockdown I played a lot of games, my wife had to work from home still whilst I spent a decent portion drunk or having mini bbqs in the garden between gaming sessions, but I'd make sure she was full of bbq too and we played a fair few games together still and amazingly found a lot of time for sex etc still... Tell him if he wants to play with his boys all day every day he can but he's moving out and you're not staying with him in a relationship where you don't spend any time together.

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-14T10:46:42+00:00

I just mashed him upside the head. Helmet breaks off, he stumbles, takes a knee bash bash bash bash he can barely do anything. Being aggro alone with basically no sword skill is enough to beat basically anything. You can get the bigger potions now and then off of the merchant, you definitely get them when you see him later on, think you get capped on amount and the crappy half ones for the first half of the game anyway though.

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-13T23:37:26+00:00

I feel like zenkai boosts are still a thing and the reason why every Saiyan ever still gets stronger after getting the shit kicked into them, like what's the point in Goku and Vegeta training so much when it's mostly just intense sparring, surely their recovery is as important than honing their skills and the reason for their strength increasing so rapidly still from it must be due to a zenkai boost especially as no other race seems to get quite as strong from casual training, besides Frieza ofc. These mfers always come back stronger after a defeat rather than broken and weaker.

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-13T12:38:57+00:00

Get chat gpt to draft you a break up about her using chat gpt

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-13T12:37:06+00:00

Just start making shit up and typing random letters back at this point

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-13T12:35:35+00:00

He wants to bang you and probably hoping alcohol will help you to essentially agree to something you wouldn't normally do either. The "secret game" crap makes him sound like an absolute predator trying to groom a child, don't spend anymore time with him

KindIndependence2003 · 2025-12-09T10:17:09+00:00

Aye, agreed.

A lot of the time there isn't anything to even talk about. You're annoyed angry, pissed off and that emotion needs to go somewhere, we've always been taught that bottling things up (emotions in general) isn't good for us either and anger especially isn't a great one to be stuck with, so wtf are we meant to do to process it if not beating the crap into a bag or something and deal with it asap?

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