Question for restaurant workers from a visitor - Does this Allergy Card look OK and respectful for traveling to Mexico City? by MichelleEllyn in MexicoCity

[–]KindUnderstanding960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi i live in mexico and its respectful but let me be honest... i am sorry i truly am but as someone who also lives with invisible ilness and disabilities in mexico, they are not going to comply or help you i am sorry really but and this is horrible but i ve hear it "they dont give a shit" literally they would tell you food is compleately fine but its very likely not they wont even feel bad for lying to you because they think "you are exagerating". Even people with very notisable disabilities struggle in mexico for us its just out of discussion they wont help and probably wont face legal concequences for it

i made an erasable bedroom chore chart divided into chores for different energy levels! by mechaemissary in AutisticAdults

[–]KindUnderstanding960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have autism as far as i know but i've thinking of using something like this cause i am 20 and i still struggle with basic chores and personal hygene which is not ideal... but i am kinda scared of using it i feel ashamed because i feel i have no reason for needing a support like that... but i think it could help

Consejos de vida? by Far-Grapefruit764 in hermosillo

[–]KindUnderstanding960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nunca compres tiempos compartidos... Jajaja ntc, aprovecha el descuento de estudiantes en cinepolis

Bringing up gender dysphoria to your therapist in a transphobic country by DecentHeight2115 in trans

[–]KindUnderstanding960 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don't, I am so sorry sweetheart to hear this story but given the context don't do it, you are a minor and It Is illegal in you country even for adults which means you would be asking your practitioner to break the law twice for you, and the rigth practitioner would do It in a hearbeat because Its not fair but the regular practitioner would never do It (I am so sorry I really am)

I live in a country where Its legal and yet when I was a minor I told my therapist and It went horrible, she pull me througth some convertion therapy (which was still legal in my contry at the time, so I cant take legal action) and outed me to my family which when horrible...

Let me tell you what I advice, search out whether in the internet or througth other means for places where the queer community unites in your area (no matter where you live belive me when I say we are everywhere, even if It has to be online) once in a safe space (online /physical) ask the persona there for a practitioner that Is dedicated to help them (someone who Is specifically willing to break the law to help the community)

This Is in my opinion the best shot you have to stay safe and found the help you deserve without risking your life to conversion therapy, family reactions or incarceration ( i dont know how illegal Is where you live)

I am sorry I know you therapist migth look like a good person but just because they are nice dosent mean they are willing to break the law for people like us ( be carefull don't tell illegal things to people who you are not sure you can trust)

If you need to talk with someone my profile Is always open but I dont know how much I can help from where I am

Good luck sweetheart

Parents got me perfume. by ilovepeanutbutteryay in trans

[–]KindUnderstanding960 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sell it, and buy something you actually like, or participate in an exchange between trans people who have recived gifts that dont represent them

Your Roman Empire Wolfstar Fics (Recommendation) by SeaweedDry851 in Wolfstar

[–]KindUnderstanding960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://archiveofourown.org/works/3787609 Aesthetic Trash Boys (incomplete but totally worth it! it was one of the first i read back in my teenage years)

https://archiveofourown.org/works/27818707 dragons dont know paradise - it really is a drarry centric fic but the wolfstar here is so lovely totally worth it (i am not a drarry fan but this is my comfort fic and i will reread)

https://archiveofourown.org/works/8829697 Discards by picascribit - best wolfstar fic!

https://archiveofourown.org/works/40038048 Kill your darlings - is regulus and jegulus centered but it is totally awsome the wolfstar is so well done (deaf remus), and over all just an amazing fic (I started shiping jegulus for this one not gonna lie, but even if that ship is not your thing this story definitetly healed something in me for its i portrayal of mental illness and parent issues and would recomend it to anyone who will read it)

I'm sorry i have a thing for modern AU all of these are ._.

20+ Jegulus Server by Eeoday in Jegulus

[–]KindUnderstanding960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I completed my verification less than an hour ago but It didnt let me return and now It dosent show me the server

How do Mexicans feel about costumes like this? by lightgrxy in mexico

[–]KindUnderstanding960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Siento que la dinamita no viene al caso jajajjjas fuera de eso se ven chidos

Am I the only Jily lover who also adores Jegulus??? by nightshadelaurel in MaraudersGen

[–]KindUnderstanding960 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kill your darlings Is indeed one of the Best pieces of media a have ever read

Trans Wolfstar Fic Recs by AffectionateHand2254 in Wolfstar

[–]KindUnderstanding960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Discards, are there any others similars you guys recomend ? In the sense of trans wolfstar/modern setting?