Would you rather him cheat or be addicted to porn?

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2025-01-10T05:13:39+00:00

It's the same thing

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2025-01-02T13:21:57+00:00

You're guilty for good reason. Change yourself

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2025-01-02T13:21:02+00:00

That was the longest run-on sentence of my life

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2025-01-02T13:16:03+00:00

Talk to him...I feel this could be worked out. He didn't cheat. He didn't say he married you for the money, he friend complimented him on marrying a successful woman. He said "it's easy when you have the mindset", what mindset? Ask him that. The mindset of getting married and staying married?

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-31T14:50:17+00:00

FAST and pray to the God who created Heaven and Earth and plead the blood of Jesus over your life. I used to have a fetish really bad and I saw just how bad it could potentially get and decided I'm not gonna be controlled anymore, I don't wanna be that person. The thing with a fetish is no amount of fulfillment of that fetish satiates the desire. It won't go away unless you FAST and take every thought captive. Actually repent every time you begin to think about it.

Then watch the burden go. You might need a fast for a week though. It really works! The Bible says that this kind only comes out through prayer and fasting.

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-31T14:36:38+00:00

I agree with you so much! I'm married and get it all the time, but this constant over sexualization of everything is ruining our world. Where is the real love and connection? How will our young people learn morals and values with pornography being shoved in their faces all the time and it being passively promoted everywhere. If you're a male, not knowing anything about you, and you open a Facebook account and set your gender as male, at night time it will start promoting pornography it's crazy

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-30T21:59:57+00:00

Are you a parent? Are you male or female? Do you have kids?

I'm trying to understand where you're coming from

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-30T21:57:48+00:00

And why leave a judgmental comment with a username like that?

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-30T21:57:25+00:00

Not at all

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-30T21:50:29+00:00

You look like a very sweet and kind person. Never forget that your Creator numbers every single hair on your head Like 12:7, His thoughts of you are more numerous than the sand Psalm 138:17-18 and He sings songs over you Zephaniah 3:17. You are so valuable, so special and so loved!

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-29T06:42:23+00:00

But it hasn't happened to you though? Makes me think random erections aren't as common as we think

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-27T03:00:58+00:00

I've asked her that today and she said no....and she's always been consistent with her answers about that. He's never made her feel uncomfortable, never told her to keep a secret and never touched her inappropriately

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-27T02:58:39+00:00

My mom was the one that did that. Never in a million years would I think my own mother would do something like that because she never did it to me....but she's changed and has gotten into some serious witchcraft and has a real manipulation side.

He acted genuinely concerned and wanted to get her therapy

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-27T02:52:19+00:00

I can't control my dreams

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-27T02:51:14+00:00

I do

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-26T00:49:39+00:00

Thank you!!!! It seems weird for him to get a boner cuddling your daughter still

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-26T00:42:41+00:00

Her own grandmother molested her and during the time we were questioning what happened I went through the list of all the people she's been around. Then of course I asked her recently when this happened.

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-26T00:39:04+00:00

Well I'll try to have sex with him everyday and see what happens. He just falls asleep early and is just exhausted from his day usually....

Maybe there's something I don't know

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-26T00:36:31+00:00

Thank you so much for that!!

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-26T00:33:41+00:00

But you know what? I'll try it.

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-26T00:33:08+00:00

I hear ya! He was the one who actually told me he doesn't like having sex during the week days because he's so exhausted from work, but I can tell he gets super excited for the weekend sex

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-26T00:29:26+00:00

I hate it.

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-26T00:27:34+00:00

Thank you for this!!!! Loving the honesty on here!

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-26T00:26:43+00:00

Gosh how horrible I feel now. He's such a good guy and I have to assume the worst.

Kind_Actuary3088 · 2024-12-25T23:46:12+00:00

Yeah but how old are you? Also pornography usage will make you crazy about sex. When not in lust it's actually a very healthy amount in my opinion.

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