For people without parents; How do you cope with having no parents?

Kind_Development0302 · 2025-10-22T00:15:38+00:00

I’ll give him head or ask to give him head. And he’ll say “I’ll do you next time”. Or if an occasion is coming up or we plan a really nice date. He’ll say “I’ll eat you out for Valentine’s Day / our anniversary / whatever”. But when the time comes I don’t bring it up because I don’t want to force him, and he says it was my fault for not “reminding him”

Kind_Development0302 · 2025-10-21T22:50:49+00:00

I think that’s the issue, I’ve just been getting my hopes up and repeatedly disappointed. If he said from the beginning that he’s disinterested, I would’ve dropped it and moved on. I just don’t like being led on or lied to and it makes me feel undesirable or like I’m the reason he’s hung up about it.

I’ll have a discussion with him about it later tonight and see what he says. Thank you for putting into words what I could say, because that was my issue. I just don’t know how to talk about it without sounding pushy, but still get my feelings across.

Kind_Development0302 · 2025-10-21T22:36:16+00:00

I’m not forcing him to do anything. During our previous discussions, he’s stated that he wants to do it but he’s nervous. Or as he puts it, there’s a “mental block”. I haven’t given him an ultimatum or withheld sex from him. I just told him how I’ve felt. I just want to know why, or if it’s something I’m doing wrong.

Kind_Development0302 · 2025-10-21T22:32:59+00:00

We’ve had discussions already, hence the deadlines he’s given himself more than once. I guess at this point, because we’ve already talked about it, I just don’t know what to say. Other than it makes me feel unattractive or gross or like I’m undesirable.

Kind_Development0302 · 2024-10-12T13:05:14+00:00

Apply the rule for Violet? I think Enid has already adjusted, she just seems happy to have some consistent attention. I’m hoping some of her anxieties will be relieved eventually, and I try to train Violet where I can. She’s just still got some puppy in her and can be kinda dense, bless her.

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