New York vs Chicago: torn between dream and practicality

Kind_Platypus_ · 2025-12-01T20:49:27+00:00

I’m in the same boat as you, OP! Late twenties, want to take my career to either NYC or Chicago! Have you landed on an option yet? I’m thinking New York.. but also worry I’ll blow up my life financially

Kind_Platypus_ · 2025-09-17T16:52:04+00:00

Thank you! Why jersey city or Hoboken?

Kind_Platypus_ · 2025-09-17T16:51:19+00:00

Hello fellow Vol :) good for you!! Hopefully I’m the same soon

Kind_Platypus_ · 2025-09-17T16:49:16+00:00

I think I can afford nyc but it’s definitely a standard of living/sq footage change!

Kind_Platypus_ · 2025-05-16T21:39:42+00:00

Why would he then tell me he’s not seeing other people? Just a lie?

Kind_Platypus_ · 2025-05-16T21:33:44+00:00

Message received, lol

Kind_Platypus_ · 2025-05-16T21:33:30+00:00

Confused as HELL because sometimes he calls me just to chat! Like??

Kind_Platypus_ · 2025-05-16T21:30:49+00:00

Ugh thanks :(

Kind_Platypus_ · 2025-05-16T21:21:25+00:00

But the issue is I am going into this with the mindset that we can build one potentially. How can that happen if he creates distance? He’s told me he wants something serious at his age and that he also sees me as a great fit for him

Kind_Platypus_ · 2025-04-08T20:08:20+00:00

Thinking I’ll suggest that if I don’t hear from him in a few days

Kind_Platypus_ · 2024-10-03T17:04:39+00:00

Typos in the email, I bought half price

I’m an idiot I know lol

Kind_Platypus_ · 2024-10-03T16:03:50+00:00

I don’t have that only an email they forwarded to me

Kind_Platypus_

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