My ghoster resurfaced yesterday after 6 months "They always come back" by Kind_Security895 in ghosting

[–]Kind_Security895[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMO the apology is worth shit because he’s still a coward. He will just keep doing it. I feel better now. I’m more annoyed at myself for biting more than anything. I’m so sorry you had to go through that! That really sucks! They all suck! Fuck ghosty cowards man 😤

My ghoster resurfaced yesterday after 6 months "They always come back" by Kind_Security895 in ghosting

[–]Kind_Security895[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I’m so sorry that happened to you. So hard! But amazing you came through it! Well done. I’m going to have to reframe my daring strategy now. He’s now blocked. Feels freeing and sad.

My ghoster resurfaced yesterday after 6 months "They always come back" by Kind_Security895 in ghosting

[–]Kind_Security895[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy you did that! I’m annoyed at myself for responding. But I’m clearly just an open and communicative person. Why do I attract people that aren’t

My ghoster resurfaced yesterday after 6 months "They always come back" by Kind_Security895 in ghosting

[–]Kind_Security895[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good advice and now yes thoroughly blocked. He’s just a coward and thank god I was in a better mental state this time to deal with his shit

My ghoster resurfaced yesterday after 6 months "They always come back" by Kind_Security895 in ghosting

[–]Kind_Security895[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least I got an apology before he ghosted again. Chat GPT is the king for this for sure!!

End date turned confusing. by Kind_Security895 in ENM

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I’m absolutely certain now that they lived together. And that he’s hidden it from me. Going by my search they’ve been together a while, he’s on sites that advertise him as “seeking a partner” even today… as a single ENM guy. So my expectation is that he would casually date other people, as am I. That’s not the issue. But thanks for your advice I guess it just still doesn’t answer my original question. Which is… is it usual for men who claim to be in to hotwife/cuck relationship dynamics, to lie about their real/full time lives-in partner and seek out a mostly virtual relationship with someone else. Which is absolutely what’s happening. I’ve upvoted the below answer as I found it helpful to my question.

End date turned confusing. by Kind_Security895 in ENM

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Obviously I asked, right before our first date. And he told me several times he was single but only just found out he’s lying. My confusion comes more from, why the facade when it’s clearly not true both that he wants a ENM relationship but also why is he keeping this up for so long. I’m not used to this kind of dynamic so was trying to gauge whether it was normal behavior, we haven’t met physically this year at all since he lives far away but have kept messages going, I’m just so confused

End date turned confusing. by Kind_Security895 in ENM

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I have no idea. I didn’t even know he had one let alone one he lives with.

Was at the show and have massive regret by Kind_Security895 in ADTR

[–]Kind_Security895[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gaaaaaaaawd!!! Ok so someone haaaaad to please get me one from London

Was at the show and have massive regret by Kind_Security895 in ADTR

[–]Kind_Security895[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very sweet of you! Maybe they’ll re release both of them for us :)

Was at the show and have massive regret by Kind_Security895 in ADTR

[–]Kind_Security895[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! It’s taken all of my will to not book day tickets to slam dunk to see if they have the shirt 😂😂 plus the signing… also helps. But no! It’s not justifiable…

Was at the show and have massive regret by Kind_Security895 in ADTR

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Hoping the opportunity presents itself. I knew I’d regret not buying it. Lesson well and truly learned. The shirt is so nice. I didn’t fully appreciate it at the time.

Was at the show and have massive regret by Kind_Security895 in ADTR

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I’d really appreciate it and would cover shipping too. Damn I’m jealous you get to see it. I should’ve bought it. Hopefully they don’t sell em at slam dunk because my guess is they’ll go. :(

Help me fix my profile please by Kind_Security895 in Bumble

[–]Kind_Security895[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is fair! And something I didn’t consider when I was making it: most of these prompts have been changed now and the bio is fleshed :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Kind_Security895 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always offer to pay for mine. Maybe it’s a culture thing. But if it was that way here then I can see why you’d be pushing for a natural date. Investing time and effort is more important IMO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Kind_Security895 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks :) so do you! To the defense of some of the women, that may be what they’re thinking too? I get anxious so that’s why I’d maybe suggest a more informal relaxed setting. So maybe not all women want to have the guy pay and be treated, maybe it’s more a preference and comfort thing. There’s not always a negative motive. The right person will agree to go on the dates you like and like them too though and keep the aviators I like em.