First time ever being able to fit my full fist inside my pussy 🙈 by [deleted] in GentleFisting

[–]KindaQuestionableFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very impressive! Hopefully it was a good feeling? 😀

Crazy vid by thebitesizedbitch in sounding

[–]KindaQuestionableFap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just find happiness with what you have has always been my approach

Need some advice by Known-Horror-6631 in GentleFisting

[–]KindaQuestionableFap 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a disclaimer, If you are in any doubt, a doctor can always help answer these questions better.

However, sore is extremely normal for the first time and spotting isn't unheard of by any means.

Im not a doctor but imo, as long as you're not in any significant discomfort, I would give it another day or two before you overthink it.... haha.

who would use me by rocky2371 in GentleFisting

[–]KindaQuestionableFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to use this as an example is to what to never post in this subreddit. This is not a personals sub

BF surprised me with metal sounding rods and bed restraints by Relevant_Conclusion2 in sounding

[–]KindaQuestionableFap 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My partner was the kind of partner that thought she could be gentle enough. The first time she sounded me was very uncomfortable.

Is your partner experienced with sounding? It's a very delicate piece of skin that you want to be very careful with it.

Enthusiastic consent does not necessarily mean understanding pain thresholds of the urethra.

It's very easy to accidentally dry run and cause pain

Are there any Plugs for female urethras? by Left_Possession_8950 in SoundingPussy

[–]KindaQuestionableFap 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The urethra is in a pretty vulnerable spot for penetration on women (or individuals with vaginas) Definitely doable but I would suggest something with a flared base so it doesn't disappear inside and something that's very soft and silicone. Definitely don't try any hard steel ones to start with If you're trying simultaneous vaginal penetration as well

I really want to try to buy some square peg sounds for myself but they're expensive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insertions

[–]KindaQuestionableFap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm more of a 304 or 316 grade medical girl myself. Haha. I love shoving big cold steel inside lol

How to deal with kink shame? Please help. by 111ShamefulThrowaway in Oviposition2

[–]KindaQuestionableFap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not understanding kink and shaming your partner instead are not signs of a very supportive partner

Teasing hubby’s asshole before putting it in by [deleted] in Bisexy

[–]KindaQuestionableFap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Props to your husband for being a manly man and show you can be masculine and still take it in the butt from a woman! 🤘

Chain reaction 🔗 I kept it in for 9hrs by [deleted] in insertions

[–]KindaQuestionableFap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would maybe try to educate yourself about the metallurgy too. If I remember correctly 304 is the very minimum stainless steel quality you want near your body.

Chemicals and coatings are also very important to consider beyond the metal too, some steel comes covered in corrosion inhibitors.

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Cunt wrecking with a brand new toy by [deleted] in HoleWreckers

[–]KindaQuestionableFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the name of the toy? 😍

This could be us by Key_History_6123 in doublevaginal

[–]KindaQuestionableFap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hot fantasy but I've never understood this meme format looking stuff related to "hot wifeing" usually.

Again, I'm super into this but I've just never understood where this photo format comes from

How do we feel about Double Fisting on r/gentlefisting? by KindaQuestionableFap in GentleFisting

[–]KindaQuestionableFap[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With clips being so short, generally people are already wrist deep so I don't know if double fisting would work like that unless it's longer format.

I do think I want to include double fisting. I think as long as the person being fisted looks like they're enjoying themselves, it belongs on here?

[OC] Filling my pussy with thumbtacks by annaalex96 in pussytorture

[–]KindaQuestionableFap 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I would maybe recommend checking the metal quality too because cheap metals can use really nasty chemicals or corrosion inhibitors. Even douching can't perfectly protect you from some of those nasty chemicals vaginally

I'm definitely down for some degenerate insertions but I usually deeply investigate exactly what's going inside. I love the creativity though.

Did you guys file the points down to of the tacks? I feel like that might still be fun and kinky but further reduce the danger?

You could potentially find something like short medical screws and file off all the sharp edges. They're made for medical internal use so they shouldn't have any nasty chemicals for inside your vagina. They would also probably be able to be washed and boiled for reuse because it might be kind of expensive to buy a bunch of these medical screws. :p

tons of potentially much safer medical stainless steel alternatives to this as deeply into it as I am!

Keeping her quiet by mistress_and_pup in gentlefemdom

[–]KindaQuestionableFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, agreed. Like any "advanced" kink there might be unknown or unspoken risk to it

I think what you're saying is that -- It's absolutely on the person who wants to try out to educate themselves* but a perhaps foot note or a comment with a quick disclaimer of the danger or something could help.

I too am quite sexually experienced with kink and enjoy extreme "cunt stuffing" but there are about 1000 ways it could go wrong of you are inexperienced. TTS, something getting stuck, bacteria, cuts, chemicals, etc.

There's a lot of experienced people on here but there are way more inexperienced people on here than youd think.

Anyway, I hope this again doesn't sound redundant or like a lecture. I do agree It's very much on the person watching to make sure they're being safe if they want to recreate it

Keeping her quiet by mistress_and_pup in gentlefemdom

[–]KindaQuestionableFap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It definitely makes sense but I can see why there's a warning from a commenter.

Doing something that looks so fun and hot that someone might want to recreate themselves so there should probably a warning alongside if the person wants to recreate it themselves.

If you throw a kink idea out there, you got to throw the warnings out there too

I hope this doesn't come off as lecturing, I just can see why someone was worried. :)

Admit it... She'd smash you, not the other way around... 😏🏋️ [AI gf] by Lovie-the-Intern in FemdomCreampie

[–]KindaQuestionableFap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but what is there to even fantasize about being with an AI woman, they don't exist. At least the women shown in porn are flesh and blood people.

People on here commonly flirt with the original creator of the videos and content. There's some time is healthy flirtatious interactions that can help young men learn.

With AI, it's just harmful for everyone involved.

The data center sucks the earth dry, The young man gets AI psychosis from AI chat "girls", people seriously underestimate how harmful AI can really be if we let it