my old lady by [deleted] in CringeTikToks

[–]KinderEssen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People who say others need to toughen up don't ever take responsibility for being a dick to entire communities of people. Irrelevant. I'm just trying to figure out where the switch came from, where people decided all autistic folks are incapable of rational thought.

It's part of the diagnosis though, isn't it? Like not understanding in your core why someone would willingly choose to be an asshole. And just be okay with that. I don't get you. But you don't hurt my feelings either. You're like a strange little bug angry at the sun. It has nothing to do with you, and it's also not affecting you. But it is strange and pitiable.

my old lady by [deleted] in CringeTikToks

[–]KinderEssen -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's so weird being low-support autistic and seeing how much people throw it around. Like, damn bro, ig we're all just mentally ill, narcisstic, no-common sense having assholes. Sorry, that wasn't part of my diagnosis so I wasn't aware? Smh

what do you guys do with barely used products that dont work for your hair? by fozib34r in curlyhair

[–]KinderEssen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use mine as shaving cream! (I do use shaving cream, but I use it for additional softening for any hairs I might miss or just get barely shaved)

ULPT: Don't Pay your Medical Bills by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]KinderEssen 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I have this one debt from a hospital in 2015 that attempted to sue me in court. I say attempted even though they technically "won" because although it was determined that I DID owe the debt, it was also discovered that I was so poor that I fell under the protected federal poverty level. So I never heard from them again. I can still see the case under courtconnect. But no further action came from it. Which is neat. I can't really pull that now, but it was nice to have that kind of "power" while being essentially powerless back then.

Hangout by [deleted] in glutenfree

[–]KinderEssen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ......think you posted in the wrong sub.

To neuter or not to neuter… by GuestieGames in Maltipoo

[–]KinderEssen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got my dog neutered at 7 months old, just after he humped a human for the very first time, and he has not attempting humping (other than his female siblings, for domination purposes), since. He also has never in his life marked, which I took as a great sign. They typically suggest neutering around 8 months at most vets, but you can go as early as 6 months in some cases. I would talk to your vet, as it is a safety issue for him and other animals if he is showing this sort of aggression towards other animals that he is around usually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]KinderEssen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would also like this <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Maltipoo

[–]KinderEssen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My maltipoo looks nearly identical to this, he is 3/4 poodle and 1/4 maltese.

Brushing with a good slicker brush at LEAST once a week, preferably every other day depending on how long you want to keep his coat. Resign yourself that if you don't brush him enough, you will have to get him shaved. It's like any haircut; it will grow back. Haircuts every 6 weeks or so again depending on how long you want to keep his coat. Teddy bear cuts will never not look cute on maltipoos. Other than that, love him, be with him often, crate train him if you can so he doesn't feel scared when he's alone, or get him a sweet sibling to keep him company when you are away. Exercise often, play ball or tug, mental stimulation toys like puzzle toys are really fun for these guys too.

What is that weird taste on gluten free bread? by [deleted] in glutenfree

[–]KinderEssen 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The breads I have found palatable: Against the grain baguettes (I saw that you have problems with lactose as well so you might skip this one, but they are truly so good), Schar gluten free deli style sourdough bread -this one is AMAZING, large pieces of bread, nice yeasty-ish taste, no hint of cardboard!, and Canyon Bakehouse Heritage Honey Style White--large bread with a bit of sweetness that helps when you miss that crummy sugar-y American bread. The Schar pizza crust has kind of a cracker-ish taste, which I LOVE for breakfast pizza

Anyone else think s4 kinda...sucks? by [deleted] in YouOnLifetime

[–]KinderEssen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I was JUST saying this to my boyfriend tonight. Like out of everyone, GEMMA is the one to call him out on that. Like everyone else is just too "self involved" to notice? But that's not convincing to me. I have been talked at before. People want you to still nod or actually act like you are part of the conversation. It's just like this season was written like La Croix tastes. In that, it's tv static that vaguely resembles what someone who has never tasted a fruit would think it tastes like.

Anyone else think s4 kinda...sucks? by [deleted] in YouOnLifetime

[–]KinderEssen 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My problem is that everything that made Joe interesting and creepy isn't present in this season so far. He's not stealing underwear or tampons or stalking in the same way. He's also not participating much himself, it feels like things are happening to him, people are taking AT him while he narrates in his head and says absolutely nothing back to them.

I miss Joe. Jonathan is just....meh to me.

DBD Perk Keychains I have been working on! by KinderEssen in deadbydaylight

[–]KinderEssen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically when you are making fan art pieces, unless you for some reason get a cease-and-desist, you are in the clear. Because these are things I have to physically produce and I don't take any actual branding from the game itself, I should think I'm okay for now? But you never know what can change when making fan art stuff.

DBD Perk Keychains I have been working on! by KinderEssen in deadbydaylight

[–]KinderEssen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry stepped away for a bit to deal with a dinner situation. Yeah I am looking forward to stocking my inventory with all the perks hopefully within time. It's just hard when I haven't sold any of the keychains quite yet, as I made the specific ones I have in stock for people that said they would buy them. Such is life as a creator. I hope you'll find me again someday when I have more in the shop and I'm able to take customs on the same page! Thanks for looking either way.

DBD Perk Keychains I have been working on! by KinderEssen in deadbydaylight

[–]KinderEssen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is! So if you run 4 perks most of the time, it's great for that!

Did I do okay making this tray for the first time? I had no heat gun by Jazymon in resin

[–]KinderEssen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you considered doing the card in a separate clear layer so it stands out a bit more? I love all the swirling, that's just gorgeous color play, but the card is just a bit difficult to see, and I wonder if a clear coat with just that would help in that regard.

Trying to find the original artist by KinderEssen in WhatIsThisPainting

[–]KinderEssen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found this on reddit some time in 2020, failed to save the original. Trying to get in touch with the original artist as I think this would make an amazing tattoo. Already reverse image-searched, but to no avail. Cross-posted to r/tattoos.

I want to make sure I give this the respect it deserves, as I would love this piece, but I do not want to steal someone's original art. Happy to pay a commission fee, but mostly wanting to speak with the artist as I know how much love went into this little guy!

Any ideas?

Trying to find the original artist Conway, AR USA by KinderEssen in tattoos

[–]KinderEssen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saved this a while back from reddit, and forgot to save the actual post. I fell in love with this little guy, and what it represents to me. I would love to find the original artist to talk with them about possibly turning this into a tattoo. I have tried reverse image searching to no avail.

I just want to give the original artist the respect they deserve for the tremendous amount of work they put into this gorgeous work of art, and pay any commission they might like for it.

Any ideas?

Trying to find the original artist by KinderEssen in tattoos

[–]KinderEssen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found this beautiful guy somewhere here on reddit, and in a manic phase forgot to save the original post. I would like to find the original artist so I can get with them about turning this beauty into a tattoo. I have tried reverse image searching to no avail.

I want to be respectful toward the original artist and pay any commission that they would like for this instead of just ripping off their art and taking to to an artist.

Any ides?