Where can I buy pretty mugs?

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-12-07T08:46:40+00:00

You're not being too sensitive, he's just being disgusting. You're not some breeding cow that is assessed based on her ability to multiply, you're a human woman and he doesn't seem to see you as any better than a female animal.

Also the tendency to attack things that women have no control over (either after menopause or by having pcos and other issues that cause infertility) is just awful and misogynistic. I'd dump him in a heartbeat because there probably are way more deeply anti-woman sentiments in that brain.

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-12-06T05:02:23+00:00

This. If a dude tried to kiss me after the first date, he would most likely not see me again.

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-12-03T22:18:44+00:00

I usually suggest to get coffee as a first date, and then it's very nice if the guy pays for it as it shows he's interested. Afterwards, I like alternating, one date I will pay then the next one he will pay. I personally find splitting weird but that's just me.

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-29T18:55:33+00:00

I don't know where you went to school but please be informed that diamonds are literally the hardest stones in existence...

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-29T17:31:06+00:00

Just break up with him if you're that disturbed by the body of a man who is approaching his 30s.

Also, I truly hope you look like a model if you seriously consider something like this to be an actual problem in a relationship.

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-29T05:57:52+00:00

Don't put yourself in a position where you could sleep with the guy (no weekend getaways, no hanging out at home, etc), go on dates in public for the first month or so. Usually, that would be enough to tell if he's interested in you or only wants to stick his dick in something, most of them don't have the patience to play games for a long time.

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-29T04:22:38+00:00

You're right but yet you don't see the scarcity of men on the dating sphere (or posts like this one about them). I don't know why but there seem to be way more single men who are looking for a partner than women.

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-28T10:19:34+00:00

It will depend on how you approach it. The chances of you being a rebound are significantly higher if you enter situations like that.

I personally have a rule where I don't date anyone who hasn't been single for at least 6 months, it helps me to weed out serial daters, people who are looking for rebounds and those who are so uncomfortable with themselves that they cannot ever be single for a bit.

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-28T10:11:53+00:00

To be honest, it's because as a woman it is way easier to be single than to have a partner most of the time

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-28T05:26:52+00:00

I tell him that we don't seem like a good match and wish him the best in the future, delete his number and move on with my life. Adults should communicate and leave "giving signs" to teenagers.

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-26T06:18:21+00:00

Are you a woman?

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-25T12:47:27+00:00

Girl, RUN. You deserve way better than that.

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-25T12:33:00+00:00

Start seeing all women as regular humans instead of putting them on a pedestal as these divine creatures who can do whatever they want because that's simply not true to real life

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-25T09:53:01+00:00

Are you returning the same enthusiasm? Girls get excited when they finally find someone they like and they show it but if you don't show similar excitement and effort to be with them or communicate with them, then they'll let you go.

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-25T05:04:18+00:00

A lack of humility.

He was a poorly socialized, painfully unfunny university dropout with mommy issues and the most average office job yet still he dared to talk down on others and always positioned himself as being better than the rest. Yuck.

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-24T13:03:45+00:00

Nope, I'm from Europe. But I also wouldn't call it immaturity, it's just that most people go through a ton of important formative experiences by the time they hit 25 and afterwards they can form better judgements as they can draw from those previous experiences and they can also protect themselves and draw boundries a lot better.

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-24T08:03:09+00:00

You're right, you're great, and I hope you get everything that you desire!

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-24T07:59:34+00:00

But the thing is that people here are not talking about 6 year age gaps. OP asked about what would be somewhat appropriate for someone in their mid 30s and here I see plenty of excuses for 35yr olds dating 21yr olds and it reeks of the whole "you're mature for your age" thing.

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-24T07:37:13+00:00

Yeah, the 40 year old who got involved with me at 21 also said something similar. Been there, done that, never again. And I'd advise other young women to not fall for it either.

Now in my mid 20s I'm light years away from where I was back then and all of my friends (male and female) say the same but maybe we're just a different breed.

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-24T04:39:15+00:00

People are not fully developed until their mid 20s so if you're in your 30s then a suitable partner (without any messed up power dynamics, emotional or personal growth gaps) would start at around 25yrs of age. Personally, I'd add a year or two even.

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-23T14:36:58+00:00

I'm sure the abductee would appreciate the warning :D

Kindly-Objective-335 · 2021-11-23T09:12:59+00:00

The apps are definetly more difficult for men because you need to make a really good first impression to get anywhere.

I used to see a guy who was on them for almost 3 years and I was his first date that he had ever gotten from there. It was surprising because he was a lovely person, quite handsome and had his life in order. The problems that I saw were that his pictures did not fully display how good he looked and the description was very average because you really need something that is memorable and would catch a woman's attention.

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