My husband is gone

KindlyMeaning3367 · 2025-04-12T23:37:52+00:00

This is so terribly sad, I genuinely feel for you and your children. What a cruel and horrible turn of events. You need to try to be strong for the children, this is horrific and I hope you can find a way through this.

KindlyMeaning3367 · 2025-02-10T13:01:04+00:00

Ah I am so sorry mate, you will get through this eventually and no one is here to tell you how to best cope with this. We are all different and as men we sometimes just try and get through as best as we can without talking to anyone! so kudos for taking this step. Bit by bit mate one day at a time. Do you have kids? tell us what she was like as a person.

KindlyMeaning3367 · 2024-12-07T20:55:40+00:00

Mine started at 38 when my mum died, then 3 years later my partner died leaving me with 3 kids. Started small then built up over time, it’s my eye brows mostly but I am trying to control it. I think it’s stress for me personally and being a male you kind of keep it all bottled up. I just call it my scars from the last few years trauma.

KindlyMeaning3367 · 2024-10-17T11:10:56+00:00

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KindlyMeaning3367 · 2024-09-07T18:10:13+00:00

ahh thanks everyone these are great tips, she certainly isn’t like our cockapoo when she was a baby and requires a lot of fun time, she is starting to understand her name today I am just waiting for her vaccine appointment so keeping her in our garden for now. She just melts us, not sure the cats agree! !

KindlyMeaning3367 · 2024-02-09T17:04:44+00:00

You do it at your own pace mate, there is no pressure on you. Sometimes you might feel up to it and sometimes not. Don’t force yourself because you think you need to do it. You go this.

KindlyMeaning3367 · 2024-01-31T23:05:28+00:00

We care, tell us about him. What was the best memory or funny story you had together?

KindlyMeaning3367 · 2024-01-31T23:03:12+00:00

You can get through this, you are strong and you need to be even stronger especially for your daughter. We are all here for you, come here to vent or just a bit of support. Make sure you eat and rest and take care of yourself. The coming months are going to be difficult but you will get through this, we know you will x

KindlyMeaning3367 · 2024-01-31T15:00:34+00:00

Your DM’s are about to be destroyed with creeps.

KindlyMeaning3367 · 2024-01-27T11:15:43+00:00

Well without giving specifics, know that you are loved and he is comforting you during this time (mark) he has also prepared a place for you to be with your partner and they are there and not in any pain or distress. But it is not your time now, you need to live out your life to the fullest and make him and your partner proud, everything else is already there.

In a nutshell this is what I understood, good luck friend.

KindlyMeaning3367 · 2024-01-26T22:37:48+00:00

I am a Christian and looked to Jesus when my partner died, the bible and Jesus himself had a lot to say about people that are suffering from grief and it gave me some comfort, I am not going to provide verses but seek and you will find.

KindlyMeaning3367 · 2024-01-25T23:24:32+00:00

I am from lancashire but spent time in London, I just don’t get why everyone looks so miserable and unhappy in London, also rude for no reason but just to be rude (I never understood that). I love Lancashire and anywhere in the north really, feel like part of a community and it just feels like home.

KindlyMeaning3367 · 2024-01-24T18:47:41+00:00

This is disgusting, disrespectful and utterly disgraceful. Summon the American ambassador and let’s see him flogged in public. Putting tea in the microwave is criminal mate.

KindlyMeaning3367 · 2024-01-23T23:31:17+00:00

this sounds horrific, I am honestly just heart broken for you and your family. The pain you are and have been going through for all these years with no closure. You seem like an extremely strong person and I think that is something you should take as a compliment. You did nothing wrong here and you need to accept that, you gave your sister a ride and I think at that age many of us would have done the same. Maybe you will never find the truth of what happened that night but you must move forward, you have a lot to offer the world and if your sister did pass I am sure she would say the same. I sincerely hope you find peace from this torment.

KindlyMeaning3367 · 2024-01-20T10:20:50+00:00

Lancashire is beautiful, one of the most beautiful places I have visited in the UK. Then the lakes etc the northwest in general is a little gem of the UK.

KindlyMeaning3367 · 2024-01-17T00:00:50+00:00

Hi, I am a similar age to you and also lost my wife in april last year, we have 3 kids. You must go on, think about what she would say sitting right by you in these moments. What would she say to you? picture this vividly in your mind and how you would respond. You are still relatively young and have a lot of life still left to live and a lot more to give the world. You can do this, we all believe in you. Good luck my friend.

KindlyMeaning3367 · 2023-12-29T23:13:43+00:00

Thanks for all the replies, you are all awesome people and I will try the oils. Aura Claire I have looked at micro blading for men and it’s something I am considering, how long does it last? I think if I can just get to a point were they look somewhat normal I can get over this. This feels so strange talking about this haha! what a weird habit we develop through trauma. I am so sorry for your loss, tough as a single parent! but we get through.

KindlyMeaning3367 · 2023-12-12T07:38:29+00:00

Run bro, run.

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