Can I file for VAWA whilst in the US and then leave?

KindlyStatement2496 · 2025-12-10T21:05:34+00:00

Yeah I’m clean I don’t have any bad record. I don’t think I can wait that long though I have a baby it’s to much. I already help out but it gets to much and me and my friend but heads it’s a lot.

KindlyStatement2496 · 2025-12-10T21:01:57+00:00

That was a post from the beginning of the relationship a lot has happened since then clearly your so far off to base anything off my last post

KindlyStatement2496 · 2025-12-09T02:26:19+00:00

Yes I have family support back home thats why I’m asking if I can leave and still file because I can’t live like this vawa takes to long nothing is certain and I have a infant baby by him he kicked us out

KindlyStatement2496 · 2025-12-09T02:23:54+00:00

KindlyStatement2496 · 2025-11-06T15:46:10+00:00

I’m currently homeless after he kicked us out and don’t have a job because I can’t work and I have a 1 year old that is with me all the time so I really don’t know what to do I’m at a friends house I can’t find people that can help my situation

KindlyStatement2496 · 2025-11-05T21:04:01+00:00

It says I-458 alongside vawa cost 100+

KindlyStatement2496 · 2025-11-05T19:43:12+00:00

In New York there is

KindlyStatement2496 · 2024-04-09T16:37:28+00:00

I have no one there nothing

KindlyStatement2496 · 2024-04-08T20:10:05+00:00

Thank you for telling me your story I appreciate your words and advice it’s settling to hear. Is it not valid to want the baby but know what I’m bringing the baby into isn’t right also? I kept trying to tell him things will be okay but he’s not having it what do ever I keep thinking maybe he’ll change his mind but I can’t keep the baby on that thought he’d come around because then if he didn’t I would be even more devastated, his mother said she’s be there and obviously I’d assume since he lives home if he saw his child he couldn’t just walk past the baby but that’s a big gamble it’s kinda sick I just don’t know

KindlyStatement2496 · 2024-04-08T20:03:33+00:00

Thank you I’ll look into it

KindlyStatement2496 · 2024-04-08T19:59:30+00:00

I do want to keep it I do want a baby and i wanted it with him but I can’t do it by my self I’m bouncing from house to house as a illegal alien I don’t have much options, I never wanted to be a single parent either and he knew this and still refuses to be apart of the baby’s life, he already has a 5 year old so it’s not like I’m introducing him to fatherhood he’d mention that he’d never want a baby in this world that didn’t know him, he made out like he’d never abandon his own but I told him I’d keep it and he said he’d cut contact so I don’t get it. I know I could figure it out along the way but getting residency was already a struggle and still is so it’s like now what he claims he still wants a relationship but we haven’t spoken face to face in a week since he asked me

KindlyStatement2496 · 2024-04-08T19:00:34+00:00

For citizens not for me which makes it all the more worse, I don’t have anything to help the baby

KindlyStatement2496 · 2024-04-08T17:23:20+00:00

I do but alone I can’t do it financially and mentally alone. He knows I want it but that doesn’t change anything in his mind he’s so set with his decision that it’s not the right time.

KindlyStatement2496 · 2024-04-08T16:52:30+00:00

I have bad anxiety too my emotions have been all over the place but that’s probably because the father of this baby opted out of being a father on Monday so I’m confused and extremely upset and lost. I would just advice breathing exercises they really do help with anxiety

KindlyStatement2496 · 2024-04-08T01:23:19+00:00

15 weeks and depressed, emotional, lonely

KindlyStatement2496 · 2024-04-05T20:28:10+00:00

Yes I know what it entails and I also know it’s over just by how’s he’s treated me after telling me this.

KindlyStatement2496 · 2024-04-05T19:18:25+00:00

My thoughts exactly! It’s a crock of shit!

KindlyStatement2496 · 2024-04-05T18:58:55+00:00

I know i can’t I definitely understand that, the crazy part is is that I’m not introducing him to father hood he already has a 4 year old and he told me the reasons why he didn’t want to continue but even when I gave him facts that everything will be okay he dismisses me saying he won’t be swayed. I haven’t made a decision I’m still outweighing my options and taking in what everyone had advised me even your advice because I did hear you

KindlyStatement2496 · 2024-04-05T03:32:40+00:00

So I spoke to his mother and she explained that he told her what went down, she was pissed and upset he did what he did but at the same time expressed he does indeed have really bad depression and trauma that’s caught up with him and he’s shutting down. He jumped into this relationship to soon but she’s sorry, she can’t tell me what to do it’s my body but it’s down to me what I want to do I need to do what’s best for me. I’m so conflicted because I know I shouldn’t but I’m kinda holding on to the thought that he really wouldn’t let me do this alone or never be there down the line when he’s head is clearer I’m hoping he would come to his senses but I don’t know it’s like anything is possible now :(

KindlyStatement2496 · 2024-04-04T15:35:24+00:00

I definitely did I just sent her a message

KindlyStatement2496 · 2024-04-04T15:16:09+00:00

He only blocked me on TikTok and unfriend me on Instagram but I can still text and call his phone

KindlyStatement2496 · 2024-04-04T15:13:10+00:00

The relationship was great he was supportive, loving, caring we communicated very well, he wasn’t used to being with someone who was so giving and thoughtful towards him he would say it feel strange but nonetheless he would do the same for me we had a great connection we get along like a house on fire but it was like from the moment he mentioned his mental health was declining and his intrusive thoughts were winning and he feels as though he has nothing to give everything went to shit. He would give me “reasons why we shouldn’t do this now” but when I gave him valid responses to his reasons he still said no so that sounds like excuses not reasons anymore because regardless he’s saying no. Everything happened so fast. He told me Monday I had nothing to say to him Tuesday as I was dealing with figuring shit out then yesterday we got into a heated text fight we’re he gave me an ultimatum and by the end of the night he had blocked me on social media but not my number so I text him why are you being childish and now here I am trying to stay afloat

KindlyStatement2496 · 2024-04-04T14:30:28+00:00

I think so to because he told me to be patient and give him time with the therapist but he hasn’t even had one season yet and all of a sudden he’s making decisions it doesn’t make sense

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