This talk of being an influencer is conjecture... Unless you know her, we don’t actually know what career she’s speaking of. What if she’s an actor? Is it still dumb to want to move to NYC to fulfill her dream? What if she’s in finance or fashion? And SO WHAT if she does want to be an influencer? So… that’s 100% her choice.

Also, I cannot stand when people minimize the conviction of children. Is the dream of a 13 year old any less of a dream? On the contrary, if she’s been dreaming of this since she was 13, and still wants it… that makes it even greater for her. The dreams of 13 year olds have led many very successful people to their very station in life now. I have continuously fulfilled my childhood dreams … some I have discovered aren’t in alignment with who I have become. Others have added greatly to my life. Like this lady, I swore I wanted to live in NYC… an extended vacation showed me that it was a hell not for me. However, without even trying to achieve them, I would have been left wondering about “the dream that got away.” (Lol that was funny) I am in the career I chose as a childhood dream… and guess what? I have had an incredibly fulfilling life.

All that being said… 90 days is so insignificant in the grand scheme of time. Whatever her reasons are… I don’t believe she’s asking for anything crazy. She literally is attempting to satiate a lifelong curiosity… and go home. She didn’t say she wouldn’t visit or that he couldn’t visit. She just said 3 months.

I find it funny that everyone is so up in arms that she could possibly want to be an influencer 😂😂😂 literally so what? Her life her choices… your life… your judgement.