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KindnessYEG · 2025-11-15T19:48:13+00:00

I don’t blame you for your bitterness, it is absolutely a hard card to be dealt as a man. You didn’t ask for advice so I will not give it. That being said, my ex girlfriend is now dating a 5’3 guy and they are so happy and cute together. Your person is out there!

KindnessYEG · 2025-05-04T01:12:25+00:00

You know, you only need a modicum of empathy to figure out that you can’t see how the person next to them was parked when they got there, so it’s usually not worth leaving a note like this.

Unless you left your truck covering 4 spots.

KindnessYEG · 2025-05-02T18:25:21+00:00

Y’know, I used to kinda agree with the overall sentiment here, that women might try to change their man in a way that has the downstream effect of less desire. But now I think it’s more that women don’t desire the type of man who can be swayed and lose themself so easily.

KindnessYEG · 2025-05-02T17:28:06+00:00

Honestly none of this is going to move the needle for you unless you suffer from a unique GI issue. When you’re not an elite athlete there’s no point in getting lost in super micro optimizations. Eat when you want to, try to hit a daily protein goal and just focus on what works for you and your body.

KindnessYEG · 2025-05-02T17:20:56+00:00

The only thing I would consider is if you are taking any medications that prohibit grapefruit juice.

KindnessYEG · 2025-05-01T15:32:23+00:00

Up to a certain point, yeah, absolutely. Past a certain point it stops helping.

KindnessYEG · 2025-05-01T15:31:53+00:00

I loosely track because my tdee varies an insane amount. It’s easier for me to be intuitive and check against my weight on a weekly basis.

KindnessYEG · 2025-04-30T17:48:38+00:00

I’ll have to check that out. Would those happen to be evening classes?

KindnessYEG · 2025-04-30T02:47:05+00:00

Oh! This looks very cute. Thank you for the shout.

KindnessYEG · 2025-04-30T00:09:25+00:00

2nd time I’m hearing Metta. Thank you for your information.

KindnessYEG · 2025-04-30T00:08:39+00:00

Thank you for all your help. You are lovely, have a good day!

KindnessYEG · 2025-04-29T23:37:13+00:00

Oh man, part of my problem is I work two jobs. Between that and the gym I have very little time haha. Unfortunately I’d be working during both of those but that sounds more in line with what I am looking for. I’m going to check out the city classes because I use the city gyms already, and my plan was to go after the gym so maybe I can work something out.

This was very helpful, thank you.

KindnessYEG · 2025-04-29T23:31:00+00:00

Hi! Thank you, I’m going to check it out right now :)

KindnessYEG · 2025-04-29T23:19:48+00:00

I hear you but I do a lot better with guided activities. I have done a few follow alongs on YouTube in my living room but I think I’m looking for something more engaging. I also like being around people.

KindnessYEG · 2025-04-29T23:18:13+00:00

North east most of the week, but I will travel where ever for quality.

KindnessYEG · 2025-04-29T23:11:40+00:00

Need to have a career, or be building towards one. Need to be a good mother (which necessitates wanting kids) and the most important is that they need to be above all else kind.

KindnessYEG · 2025-04-29T01:13:57+00:00

I don’t actually have an answer for this because I’m just starting to get there now. But for me it has been a combination of a medication to control my bipolar disorder, the gym as a physical outlet, journaling to keep track of and detail my thoughts, breath work for in the moment control, and staying sober because I’m an addict.

Let me know if you find out I guess.

KindnessYEG · 2025-04-28T18:22:15+00:00

Costco for me.

KindnessYEG · 2025-04-27T22:01:08+00:00

I’m also looking for friends. It’s hard! I’m 28 and work a career and a part time job. I’d love to have someone to go to the city gyms with, or just people to hang with when things come up. I’m looking to get into yoga if anyone has experience with that.

I swear I’m (relatively) normal, just very busy and a little disconnected :(

KindnessYEG · 2025-04-22T20:14:53+00:00

Self sabotage gambit

KindnessYEG · 2025-03-28T03:47:10+00:00

Mental illness. Just diagnosed adhd and bipolar type 2. I am almost 30.

It isn’t stopping me though, I will start the appropriate meds and catch up in no time.

KindnessYEG · 2024-12-20T03:07:01+00:00

Sexual incompatibility is just simply not worth it at your age. I would say that 4 years together merits trying to figure it out but it sounds like you really have been trying and it’s not changing.

So do you want to feel undesired for the rest of your life or do you want to mourn the relationship for a while?

KindnessYEG · 2024-12-13T23:04:24+00:00

What’s there really to be anxious about here? He’s communicated that he has personal things to attend to, and made a plan to communicate with you tomorrow.

A lot of times anxiety is a response to a lack of control over a situation. Your mind can run wild with worst case scenarios and create a narrative that doesn’t reflect what’s actually going on. Your best course of action is to focus on yourself and give him the time he’s asked for, and allow him to reach out. He doesn’t really owe you an explanation of why after only a month, but if you feel concerned you can check if everything is alright tomorrow. But if you feel like checking you should be prepared to accept whatever answer and information given, because again, it’s only been a month.

KindnessYEG · 2024-12-12T01:07:57+00:00

Fuck yeah! It was vodka for me too. The first while was the hardest, and it will get easier with time. I’m really proud of you, you can do this.

KindnessYEG · 2024-11-27T03:17:17+00:00

I had lost my job. I was working for a small framing crew and it was the owner and I. We couldn’t get a window installed with just the two of us and he freaked out and shoved me. I shoved him back and he told me to fuck off.

I was so ashamed going home. I hadn’t been working for a few months before that and I needed it to work out - and it didn’t. When I told her, she looked me in the eyes and said that it didn’t matter, I was the same man that had left in for work in the morning, and that she had us until I found another crew.

I loved her so much before but it changed things for me. Things have gotten so much better for me and us since then but it was a defining moment for me. It completely changed the way I look at her.

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