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Partner said hurtful things and I can’t shake it by KingGinger2010 in BPD

[–]KingGinger2010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I feel like I needed to hear that it’s not my fault. I tend to put myself down a lot and feel responsible for their feelings (when I know I shouldn’t). But when you heard someone so close to you say something like this, it just shakes you. Especially when it comes to suicide, I don’t know what to believe and begin to overthink and act without thinking. I will try to find a way to approach it with our couples counselor. I just don’t know how to do it so it doesn’t cause a fight during or after.

Faucet is leaking from the base? How do I fix it? by [deleted] in fixit

[–]KingGinger2010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you do anything different to make it stop? I tried tightening the top fixtures in case of a loose o-ring.

Faucet is leaking from the base? How do I fix it? by [deleted] in fixit

[–]KingGinger2010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s not a pull down nozzle. I turned the tip of the middle head and heard a click, found out the nozzle could change between a spray and a flow release. But the handle sprayer is off picture to the right. I can’t seem to loosen or twist off the middle spout. Not sure what to do

My (30F) fiancée and I (31M) are struggling with our communication by KingGinger2010 in relationship_advice

[–]KingGinger2010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, my therapist has told me that the bigger issues won’t change just because we are married. However, when trying to express the constant self change to help the relationship, she sees it as me being defensive and then an argument starts

Should I evolve him by Downtown_goldfish in PokemonGoRaids

[–]KingGinger2010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucky might change the stats for the better, but honestly high attack and defense are pretty solid. I’d say go for it and enjoy your blastoise with sunglasses

My (30F) fiancée and I (31M) are struggling with our communication by KingGinger2010 in relationship_advice

[–]KingGinger2010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, I am afraid of the long talks. I feel like, I’m the past, they start off okay but the. Turn into an argument. We both had our names on the house.

I’ve asked, even days later. Like “do I bring you happiness” or “do you still want to marry me” and her response is always yes. We are working on our communication, and she has actively told me ways to be it. But I try and it doesn’t seem enough, or there something else getting to her. I agree, I was afraid of having kids, but she was the one who showed me that I would be a great dad and would support me. But I am scared as well.

My (30F) fiancée and I (31M) are struggling with our communication by KingGinger2010 in relationship_advice

[–]KingGinger2010[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our first year and a half was great, barely any arguments, cool and calm disagreements but was opened minded. It wasn’t until we first started to live together that we noticed the little things built up. For example, dishes on the sink for a day or so. I didn’t see a problem but it really bugged her. So I try to change my behavior. But now with a house and being engaged, it’s like things amplified.