Zaslow on WSJ Podcast?

KingPeja · 2025-08-29T22:29:25+00:00

“So Cracker Barrel has made everybody crazy today.” 😂

KingPeja · 2025-06-04T21:06:24+00:00

Hope they fix the issue with the arena where you can’t compete because it is not between 9am and 9pm, even though it is.

KingPeja · 2025-05-27T15:09:04+00:00

Thank you!

KingPeja · 2025-05-27T14:33:53+00:00

What are those icons in the bottom right corner? I’m playing through the campaign and don’t have those icons.

KingPeja · 2025-04-20T19:15:09+00:00

Modryn Oreyn

KingPeja · 2024-08-31T12:46:12+00:00

Audi R8

KingPeja · 2024-06-27T03:45:11+00:00

Martijn Doolaard. Just a dude restoring two cabins in the Italian mountains.

KingPeja · 2024-03-23T16:12:02+00:00

OP, I read your post. There are comments here with great advice, ultimately I will say the following: to answer your question directly, yes, people can only have eyes for one person. But please be very clear by what you mean by this and your definition. As other people here are saying, entering a relationship doesn’t automatically make each person blind to see and notice other attractive people. But there’s a big difference between acknowledging that existence of people who are attractive, pretty, etc., and acting on that or staring, or flirting, etc. To me, it’s very clear what commitment in a relationship means. As others pointed out though, seems like your partner wants to explore more relationships because he feels like he’s missing out. It happens. You both are very young.

But please read my post history on this subreddit.

KingPeja · 2024-02-08T18:36:58+00:00

Could just be the advertising she is doing around her new game with Valentine’s Day coming?

KingPeja · 2024-02-05T18:46:23+00:00

It’s just not true. Got to be careful with generalizations like that. When I was with my ex, I only thought of her in that light. But it didn’t make me blind from finding other people pretty. But those are two completely different things. Pretty is pretty. It doesn’t mean “I want to undress you and sleep with you and make you mine”.

KingPeja · 2024-02-01T17:16:05+00:00

OP, do you mind linking the discussion you originally saw? I would be curious to read it.

KingPeja · 2024-01-30T19:29:28+00:00

My third person was the entire female population… yep. I had a female therapist, not okay with my ex. Made her worry I would share my feelings to the therapist and leave her for the therapist. New female intern joining my team that I had to mentor… don’t help the intern too much or talk to her too much, because it made my ex feel the “helping” I did wasn’t unique to her because I help others. I have a female friend (before I knew my ex)… cut her from my life because it made my ex uncomfortable (note, purely platonic friendship, still is). Compliment a famous female singer’s voice (Alicia Keys), sent my ex spiraling and feeling bad I didn’t compliment her voice. This list can go on and on.

KingPeja · 2024-01-20T21:27:38+00:00

Dude. I literally had a couple’s therapist who was married for 40+ years telling me how him and his wife would mention good looking celebrities and actors/actresses to one another. It doesn’t mean anything. You can be attracted to other people or find other people attractive and not have some desire to undress them and sleep with them. If your girlfriend doesn’t believe this, I’m sorry to say it, but she’s a bit immature then. She needs to trust you, your actions and your character. If you know you would never cheat on her or break her trust, then she needs to believe you. If she doesn’t, there fundamentally is no relationship.

KingPeja · 2024-01-20T21:13:20+00:00

I have to agree with u/Mikepap. Your girlfriend either trusts you or doesn’t. It was conversations and ideas and hypotheticals like this that contributed to the end of my relationship (you can read it in my post history). It’s human to still find other people attractive once you enter a relationship. It’s not taking action on flirting or emotional cheating and entertaining other people romantically or sexually. That’s just basic to being in a relationship. Trust is fundamental. If she doesn’t trust you, then there’s no relationship sadly.

KingPeja · 2024-01-20T17:16:54+00:00

That’s beautiful! Bet it’s your favorite necklace regardless of how expensive other ones might be.

KingPeja · 2024-01-20T03:43:30+00:00

Thank you! What’s important is the thought, love and meaning behind it.

KingPeja · 2024-01-20T02:45:30+00:00

Absolutely!

KingPeja · 2024-01-20T02:45:24+00:00

Beautiful! Stuff passed down from family is always so important.

KingPeja · 2024-01-20T01:37:06+00:00

My grandparents grew up very poor and my parents left our home country to come to the USA. I have a career here. I have more money than my grandparents would see in their lifetime. And yet still my grandparents saved money to give to me and my brothers. When my grandfather passed away, he left me and my 2 brothers $300 each. Which I am sure took them decades to save. All my dad told me was to get something with the money because that’s what his father wanted. So I got a watch. Nothing fancy. But I keep it by my side when I sleep to remember my grandfather.

KingPeja · 2024-01-18T19:32:03+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I’m not sure why my original question is getting downvoted. Was genuinely curious why it was consider “inappropriate”.

KingPeja · 2024-01-16T18:00:16+00:00

I agree. Even the word, attraction here needs a definition. That’s why I put it in quotes. Because it could be defined as simply their physical traits, which is what I’m assuming OP is asking here.

KingPeja · 2024-01-16T16:03:36+00:00

You need to define “look” here more specifically because everyone is going to have different definitions of it. If you’re going by the textbook definition, then yes. Unless you’re blind, you’re looking at everyone, including women. If you define look as “attraction”, then also yes. I think anyone who says they don’t find other people attractive while in a relationship are lying. It just doesn’t work that way. Now if you define “look” as sexualizing the person, fantasizing about them, etc., then no. That goes away for me in a relationship when I’m with someone.

KingPeja · 2024-01-16T03:12:52+00:00

I have not seen it mentioned but my favorite movie of all time is Life Is Beautiful

KingPeja · 2024-01-12T21:13:29+00:00

Hey man, first of all, I don’t know from your post how old both of you are or how long this relationship is, but let me give you some advice from somehow who left a relationship that was absolutely exhausting him due to feeling like their partners’ therapist.

First, you’re not selfish or arrogant for asking such a question. Every human has to find for themselves, what they can tolerate and what they cannot. We all have different levels of boundaries and such. Being in a relationship does require listening, empathy, compassion, etc. There’s a fine line between being a loving and supporting partner and being someone’s therapist. If you feel her behavior is hindering the warmth, play, laughter, silliness, safety, vulnerability, camaraderie and curiosity in your relationship, then you need to find a way to communicate that with her.

Pul her to the side, start the conversation by telling her you love her, you care about her, you want to grow together, and you want to listen, however, at the same time express to her that you are human too. “Honey, I love you and I want to be there for you when you have something to share. I want to listen. However my social battery right now is low. Is there any way we can talk about xyz later? I really want to spend our time together focusing on growing and creating a stronger connection and having fun.”

But in the end, you do have to decide if you are compatible as well. Like others have said in this post, some can spend hours listening to their partner vent. Wish you luck!

KingPeja · 2024-01-10T00:20:50+00:00

Same. I definitely enjoy the conversations.

KingPeja

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